14 Best Relationships Communities (Updated Jun 2026)

14 Online Communities for Relationships

Updated 6/5/2026

#1
The Cage
The Cage BDSM Community is where people who love BDSM, kink, and fetish connect. Free to join, it brings together real people who value authenticity, shared experiences, and meaningful relationships. With blogs, forums, personal ads, and live chat, it’s a kink-positive place for real conversation and real connection. Join us today.
90K members
Forum
Chat
Pairing
Events
Newsletter
649 views / month
#2
Real-Chat Talk Worldwide
on telegram
World-wide friends .place to make new friends
Chat
55 views / month
#3
r/dating
on reddit
A subreddit to discuss and explore the dating process and learn from the experiences of others
6.2M members
Forum
42 views / month
#4
r/introvert
on reddit
A place for introverts. Check the r/introvert Rules and FAQ before posting.
2.9M members
Forum
Chat
20 views / month
#5
eNotAlone.com
eNotAlone.com is a place for relationship advice, online dating, and long distance relationships.
Forum
8 views / month
#6
r/BPDlovedones
on reddit
"r/ BPD Loved Ones" is a support forum and safe space for people to discuss the challenges and abuse they have endured at the hands of an abusive person with borderline personality disorder (BPD).
139K members
Forum
12 views / month
#7
r/RelationshipMemes
on reddit
💕 The home of fun, relatable, funny, cute, and positive memes that celebrate happy, healthy relationships of many kinds 💕
3.7M members
Forum
5 views / month
#8
r/loveafterporn
on reddit
🄻🄾🅅🄴 🄰🄵🅃🄴🅁 🄿🄾🅁🄽 - sᴜᴘᴘᴏʀᴛ ғᴏʀ ᴘᴀʀᴛɴᴇʀs ᴏғ ᴘᴏʀɴ & sᴇx ᴀᴅᴅɪᴄᴛs. ❤️️ WE ARE GOING TO LOVE YOU UNTIL YOU LOVE YOURSELF! ❤️️ sᴇx & ᴘᴏʀɴ ᴀᴅᴅɪᴄᴛɪᴏɴ ᴀʀᴇ ɢʀᴏᴡɪɴɢ ᴇᴘɪᴅᴇᴍɪᴄs & ᴘᴀʀᴛɴᴇʀs ɴᴇᴇᴅ ᴀ ʀᴇsᴏᴜʀᴄᴇ ᴊᴜsᴛ ᴀs ᴍᴜᴄʜ ᴀs ᴛʜᴇ ᴀᴅᴅɪᴄᴛ. ʜᴇʀᴇ ʏᴏᴜ ᴄᴀɴ ғɪɴᴅ ᴘᴀʀᴛɴᴇʀs & ᴇx-ᴘᴀʀᴛɴᴇʀs ɪɴ ᴀʟʟ sᴛᴀɢᴇs ᴏғ ᴅɪsᴄᴏᴠᴇʀʏ & ʀᴇᴄᴏᴠᴇʀʏ, ᴀs ᴡᴇʟʟ ᴀs ᴠᴀʀɪᴏᴜs ʀᴇsᴏᴜʀᴄᴇs ᴏɴ ᴛʜᴇ sɪᴅᴇʙᴀʀ/ᴀʙᴏᴜᴛ ᴛᴀʙ. ᴘʟᴇᴀsᴇ ғᴇᴇʟ ғʀᴇᴇ ᴛᴏ ᴛᴇʟʟ ʏᴏᴜʀ sᴛᴏʀʏ, ᴠᴇɴᴛ ᴏʀ ᴀsᴋ ғᴏʀ ᴀᴅᴠɪᴄᴇ.
108K members
Forum
11 views / month
#9
Next Gen Men
We create brave spaces for conversations about gender and equality.
2K members
Forum
Chat
Perks
Events
Newsletter
Paid
5 views / month
#10
Socializer School
on skool
This is THE place to learn how to approach & attract women authentically so you can get a girlfriend in 60-90 days.
191 members
Forum
Paid
Courses
3 views / month
r/AskMenAdvice
on reddit
A space to ask for men's advice about personal situations.
813K members
Forum
7 views / month
Leaving Socials
on skool
Prevention of FOMO and burnout We all complicate our lives more than necessary at times. We accumulate expectations, compare ourselves to others, and burden ourselves with unnecessary tasks. Instead of focusing on what truly fulfills us, we get tangled in the web of our own thoughts. Let’s simplify – enjoy the little things and live fully. The purpose of the community 👈
27 members
Forum
Apply
Pairing
Perks
Paid
r/AskWomenOver30
on reddit
AskWomenOver30 is an open, affirming place to ask women over 30 for their perspective.
427K members
Forum
6 views / month
r/AskMenOver30
on reddit
AskMenOver30 is a place for supportive and friendly conversations relevant to men over 30.
713K members
Forum
3 views / month

FAQ

: Communities for people navigating dating, partnerships, marriage, and the dynamics of personal relationships. Reddit has the largest and most active communities here, spanning advice for long-distance couples, relationship challenges, and general discussion about dating and love, with some Discord servers for more real-time conversation.
: Hive Index lists 14 Relationships communities on this page. Most listings with size data are massive (36%) or gigantic (21%). We only have a handful of listings so far, so treat these numbers as directional.
: Reddit (8), Independent Platforms (3), and Skool (2) are the most common here. Click a platform icon above the list to open a filtered view.
: Forum is the most common (93%). Others that show up often include live chat and paid community. Use the feature filters above the list to narrow results.
: 11 of 14 (79%) are free to join. The rest require payment, an application, or both.
: On Hive Index, the default Popular sort surfaces The Cage, Real-Chat Talk Worldwide, r/dating, and r/introvert first. Popularity reflects visitor interest in communities on the site, not a universal quality score. Use the sort menu for Ratings, Largest, or Newest.
: Listings are submitted by community builders and researchers, reviewed for topic relevance, and updated with platform, feature, member, review, and traffic data where available. Member counts are approximate. Popular reflects visitor interest in communities on the site, with richer profiles breaking ties. Ratings, Largest, and Newest use review scores, reported member counts, and listing age instead.
: This page was last updated 6/5/2026, based on the most recent change to the topic or its listings. We refresh entries when communities are submitted, claimed, or reviewed, and we update member counts, features, and traffic data on an ongoing basis.