18 Online Communities for Relationships
Updated 7/22/2026
The Cage
The Cage BDSM Community is where people who love BDSM, kink, and fetish connect. Free to join, it brings together real people who value authenticity, shared experiences, and meaningful relationships. With blogs, forums, personal ads, and live chat, it’s a kink-positive place for real conversation and real connection. Join us today.90K members
ForumChatPairingEventsNewsletter894 views / month

Real-Chat Talk Worldwide
on telegram
World-wide friends .place to make new friendsChat64 views / month

Secret Society Premium
on discord
DateIQ 2.0 Membership - a premium dating advice community on Discord with coaching and structured programs.ChatPaidCourses62 views / month

r/dating
on reddit
A subreddit to discuss and explore the dating process and learn from the experiences of others6.3M members
Forum56 views / month

r/loveafterporn
on reddit
🄻🄾🅅🄴 🄰🄵🅃🄴🅁 🄿🄾🅁🄽 - sᴜᴘᴘᴏʀᴛ ғᴏʀ ᴘᴀʀᴛɴᴇʀs ᴏғ ᴘᴏʀɴ & sᴇx ᴀᴅᴅɪᴄᴛs. ❤️️ WE ARE GOING TO LOVE YOU UNTIL YOU LOVE YOURSELF! ❤️️ sᴇx & ᴘᴏʀɴ ᴀᴅᴅɪᴄᴛɪᴏɴ ᴀʀᴇ ɢʀᴏᴡɪɴɢ ᴇᴘɪᴅᴇᴍɪᴄs & ᴘᴀʀᴛɴᴇʀs ɴᴇᴇᴅ ᴀ ʀᴇsᴏᴜʀᴄᴇ ᴊᴜsᴛ ᴀs ᴍᴜᴄʜ ᴀs ᴛʜᴇ ᴀᴅᴅɪᴄᴛ. ʜᴇʀᴇ ʏᴏᴜ ᴄᴀɴ ғɪɴᴅ ᴘᴀʀᴛɴᴇʀs & ᴇx-ᴘᴀʀᴛɴᴇʀs ɪɴ ᴀʟʟ sᴛᴀɢᴇs ᴏғ ᴅɪsᴄᴏᴠᴇʀʏ & ʀᴇᴄᴏᴠᴇʀʏ, ᴀs ᴡᴇʟʟ ᴀs ᴠᴀʀɪᴏᴜs ʀᴇsᴏᴜʀᴄᴇs ᴏɴ ᴛʜᴇ sɪᴅᴇʙᴀʀ/ᴀʙᴏᴜᴛ ᴛᴀʙ. ᴘʟᴇᴀsᴇ ғᴇᴇʟ ғʀᴇᴇ ᴛᴏ ᴛᴇʟʟ ʏᴏᴜʀ sᴛᴏʀʏ, ᴠᴇɴᴛ ᴏʀ ᴀsᴋ ғᴏʀ ᴀᴅᴠɪᴄᴇ.111K members
Forum22 views / month

Socializer School
on skool
This is THE place to learn how to approach & attract women authentically so you can get a girlfriend in 60-90 days.191 members
ForumPaidCourses9 views / month

eNotAlone.com
eNotAlone.com is a place for relationship advice, online dating, and long distance relationships.Forum14 views / month

r/AskMenAdvice
on reddit
A space to ask for men's advice about personal situations.822K members
Forum17 views / month

r/introvert
on reddit
A place for introverts. Check the r/introvert Rules and FAQ before posting.2.9M members
ForumChat12 views / month

r/RelationshipMemes
on reddit
💕 The home of fun, relatable, funny, cute, and positive memes that celebrate happy, healthy relationships of many kinds 💕3.7M members
Forum9 views / month

r/AskWomenOver30
on reddit
AskWomenOver30 is an open, affirming place to ask women over 30 for their perspective.437K members
Forum13 views / month

r/AskMenOver30
on reddit
AskMenOver30 is a place for supportive and friendly conversations relevant to men over 30.726K members
Forum10 views / month

Next Gen Men
We create brave spaces for conversations about gender and equality.2K members
ForumChatPerksEventsNewsletterPaid7 views / month

Leaving Socials
on skool
Prevention of FOMO and burnout We all complicate our lives more than necessary at times. We accumulate expectations, compare ourselves to others, and burden ourselves with unnecessary tasks. Instead of focusing on what truly fulfills us, we get tangled in the web of our own thoughts. Let’s simplify – enjoy the little things and live fully. The purpose of the community 👈27 members
ForumApplyPairingPerksPaid
Your Rich BestFriends
on skool
Your Rich BestFriends is a Skool community focused on relationships and related topics.3K members
ChatPaid4 views / month

r/BPDlovedones
on reddit
"r/ BPD Loved Ones" is a support forum and safe space for people to discuss the challenges and abuse they have endured at the hands of an abusive person with borderline personality disorder (BPD).143K members
Forum19 views / month

Tantra Nectar
on skool
Tantra Nectar is a Skool community focused on relationships and related topics.29K members
Chat4 views / month

Agents of Speech Community
on skool
Agents of Speech Community is a Skool community focused on relationships and related topics.18K members
Chat3 views / month
FAQ
Community size
- Tiny: 0 communities (<20 members)
- Small: 1 communities (20-100 members)
- Medium: 1 communities (100-1,000 members)
- Large: 2 communities (1,000-10,000 members)
- Huge: 3 communities (10,000-100,000 members)
- Massive: 5 communities (100,000-1M members)
- Gigantic: 3 communities (1M+ members)
Community features
Community platforms
- Reddit: 8 communities
- Skool: 5 communities
- Discord: 1 communities
- Telegram: 1 communities
