About r/introvert
A place for introverts. Check the r/introvert Rules and FAQ before posting.
The community at a glance
r/introvert is a Subreddit for Relationships with roughly 2.9M members. It has been around since 2008. It has both a forum and a live chat communication style. On the Hive Index it ranks #9 in the Relationships communities list.
Roughly 28K members have joined in the past year. Popular discussion topics include Introvert, Introversion, and Socializing. Product recommendations often mention job, book, and movie.
Community Topics
Subreddit Analysis
via GummySearchMember growth over time
All time (yearly)
- 2013: 12K members
- 2014: 12K members
- 2015: 5K members
- 2016: 7K members
- 2017: 12K members
- 2018: 21K members
- 2019: 78K members
- 2020: 72K members
- 2021: 48K members
- 2023: 649K members
- 2024: 1.6M members
- 2025: 277K members
- 2026: 29K members
Past year (monthly)
- Sep: 0 members
- Oct: 0 members
- Nov: 4K members
- Dec: 5K members
- Jan: 4K members
- Feb: 3K members
- Mar: 3K members
- Apr: 5K members
- May: 4K members
- Jun: 5K members
- Jul: 5K members
- Aug: 214 members
Topics
- Introvert107 posts in the past month#1107Introvert
- Introversion65 posts in the past month#265Introversion
- Socializing65 posts in the past month#365Socializing
- Friendship42 posts in the past month#442Friendship
- Loneliness36 posts in the past month#536Loneliness
Flair
- Question63 posts in the past month
- Has anybody deleted both Facebook and Instagram and realized they have no real friends?
- The struggle of wanting to reach out, but having "nothing to say"
- Why are some people weirdly good at making friends everywhere they go?
#163QuestionHas anybody deleted both Facebook and Instagram and realized they have no real friends? · The struggle of wanting to reach out, but having "nothing to say" · Why are some people weirdly good at making friends everywhere they go? - Discussion44 posts in the past month
- I don't understand people who post their private lives on social media.
- I don’t think everyone needs the same amount of social connection
- Any introvert there, I wanna say hi🤗
#244DiscussionI don't understand people who post their private lives on social media. · I don’t think everyone needs the same amount of social connection · Any introvert there, I wanna say hi🤗 - Advice33 posts in the past month
- I’m so bad at socializing 😭 How do people even make so many friends??
- And people wonder why I don't like people including " relatives "
- How can I change my personality
#333AdviceI’m so bad at socializing 😭 How do people even make so many friends?? · And people wonder why I don't like people including " relatives " · How can I change my personality - More like social anxiety than introversion13 posts in the past month
- I feel like I’m terrible at sparking conversations and keeping the flow going. Any tips?
- Completely burnt out
- do you guys think like me too?
#413More like social anxiety than introversionI feel like I’m terrible at sparking conversations and keeping the flow going. Any tips? · Completely burnt out · do you guys think like me too? - Relationship9 posts in the past month
- I finally started dating again as someone who is an introvert and has social anxiety
- Please tell me (30f) honestly if I still have time to find a life partner
- [M4F] 25 selective. looking for a rare frequency ⚡️
#59RelationshipI finally started dating again as someone who is an introvert and has social anxiety · Please tell me (30f) honestly if I still have time to find a life partner · [M4F] 25 selective. looking for a rare frequency ⚡️
Product recommendations
- job10 posts in the past month
- What are the best jobs for introverts?
- What job do you do/would you recommend?
- Job Recommend: Medical lab specimen processing.
#110jobWhat are the best jobs for introverts? · What job do you do/would you recommend? · Job Recommend: Medical lab specimen processing. - book5 posts in the past month
- Which book will you never stop recommending and why?
- This is the Holy Bible of the Introverts. I strongly recommend for those who still haven't read it. As a personal note, I can say that this book made me understand and embrace who I am and not to be ashamed. The world needs people like us. Keep being you. 🌻
- What book(s) would you recommend an introvert to read?
#25bookWhich book will you never stop recommending and why? · This is the Holy Bible of the Introverts. I strongly recommend for those who still haven't read it. As a personal note, I can say that this book made me understand and embrace who I am and not to be ashamed. The world needs people like us. Keep being you. 🌻 · What book(s) would you recommend an introvert to read? - movie3 posts in the past month
- What movies would you recommend an introvert to watch?
- Recommend a movie with an introvert as the main character
- When i am sad/ emotional ( for no reason) what kind of movie should i watch .. sad so i can cry or comedy or romance or some psychological thriller?? Any recs
#33movieWhat movies would you recommend an introvert to watch? · Recommend a movie with an introvert as the main character · When i am sad/ emotional ( for no reason) what kind of movie should i watch .. sad so i can cry or comedy or romance or some psychological thriller?? Any recs
Community Reviews
Frequently asked questions
- Who is r/introvert for?
- Best for Relationships enthusiasts looking for a Reddit-based community with forum discussion, live chat.
- Is r/introvert free to join?
- This listing is not marked as paid-only. Access rules and any fees are decided by the community.
- How many members does r/introvert have?
- Roughly 2.9M members, based on figures reported by the community or its host. Member counts are approximate and change over time.
- What platform is r/introvert on?
- r/introvert runs on Reddit. Reddit communities (or "subreddits") are forum-based groups on the popular social news aggregation, web content rating, and discussion website Reddit. Reddit is commonly known as "the front page of the internet". Users submit content to the site such as links, text posts, and images, which are then voted up or down and discussed by other members. From investing Reddit communities, to professional ones, to ones just for laughs, you're likely to find a community for you on Reddit.
- What topics does r/introvert cover?
- On the Hive Index, r/introvert is organized under Relationships.
- How do I join r/introvert?
- You can join r/introvert by clicking this link, or pressing the "Go to community" button above.
- What are the Relationships communities like?
- Communities for people navigating dating, partnerships, marriage, and the dynamics of personal relationships. Reddit has the largest and most active communities here, spanning advice for long-distance couples, relationship challenges, and general discussion about dating and love, with some Discord servers for more real-time conversation.
Monthly Stats
- 12
- Views /mo (-43%)
- 12
- Visitors /mo (-25%)
- 2
- Referrals /mo (0%)
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