About r/BPDlovedones
"r/ BPD Loved Ones" is a support forum and safe space for people to discuss the challenges and abuse they have endured at the hands of an abusive person with borderline personality disorder (BPD).
The community at a glance
r/BPDlovedones is a Subreddit for Mental Health and Relationships with roughly 139K members. It has been around since 2014. It uses a forum format for communication. On the Hive Index it ranks #6 in the Relationships communities list.
Roughly 27K members have joined in the past year. Popular discussion topics include Bpd, Relationship, and Relationships. Product recommendations often mention book and therapy.
Community Topics
Community Features
This community has a forum
Subreddit Analysis
via GummySearchMember growth over time
All time (yearly)
- 2015: 1K members
- 2016: 2K members
- 2017: 3K members
- 2021: 44K members
- 2022: 17K members
- 2023: 18K members
- 2024: 18K members
- 2025: 20K members
- 2026: 15K members
Past year (monthly)
- Jul: 1K members
- Aug: 2K members
- Sep: 1K members
- Oct: 1K members
- Nov: 3K members
- Dec: 3K members
- Jan: 3K members
- Feb: 3K members
- Mar: 2K members
- Apr: 3K members
- May: 3K members
- Jun: 2K members
Topics
- Bpd122 posts in the past month#1122Bpd
- Relationship96 posts in the past month#296Relationship
- Relationships36 posts in the past month#336Relationships
- Breakup34 posts in the past month#434Breakup
- Relationship Issues18 posts in the past month#518Relationship Issues
Flair
- Uncoupling Journey17 posts in the past month
- Life Gets Better After Leaving Them
- My ex dated a total loser after me and it made me question who I'd been with for 3 years.
- I'm Freeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
#117Uncoupling JourneyLife Gets Better After Leaving Them · My ex dated a total loser after me and it made me question who I'd been with for 3 years. · I'm Freeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee - BPD Behaviors & Traits13 posts in the past month
- One of my experience dating a pwBPD
- It's a CHOICE Baby!
- What's your weird moment that finally makes sense in hindsight?
#213BPD Behaviors & TraitsOne of my experience dating a pwBPD · It's a CHOICE Baby! · What's your weird moment that finally makes sense in hindsight? - Learning about BPD10 posts in the past month
- The person you loved didn't exist
- A non-exhaustive BPD relationship red flag list.
- The body keeps the score
#310Learning about BPDThe person you loved didn't exist · A non-exhaustive BPD relationship red flag list. · The body keeps the score - Focusing on Me :redditgold:6 posts in the past month
- Hard to accept what will never be
- Leaving was the best decision I’ve ever made
- 7 months of NC and my life turned upside down.
#46Focusing on Me :redditgold:Hard to accept what will never be · Leaving was the best decision I’ve ever made · 7 months of NC and my life turned upside down. - Getting ready to leave5 posts in the past month
- Block them. Leave.
- "nobody knows me like you do"
- Apparently it's all my fault.
#55Getting ready to leaveBlock them. Leave. · "nobody knows me like you do" · Apparently it's all my fault.
Product recommendations
- book16 posts in the past month
- Can someone recommend a book about dealing with an adult child with possible BPD?
- I recommend reading this book
- I have undiagnosed BPD (maybe fleas) and got discarded by a girl who was diagnosed with BPD. What books do you recommend I read to help get over the damage and identify my own issues?
#116bookCan someone recommend a book about dealing with an adult child with possible BPD? · I recommend reading this book · I have undiagnosed BPD (maybe fleas) and got discarded by a girl who was diagnosed with BPD. What books do you recommend I read to help get over the damage and identify my own issues? - therapy4 posts in the past month
- Highly recommend attending therapy
- Highly recommend seeing a therapist in order to break free
- I went to therapy after the abuse. I recommend it
#24therapyHighly recommend attending therapy · Highly recommend seeing a therapist in order to break free · I went to therapy after the abuse. I recommend it
Community Reviews
Frequently asked questions
- Who is r/BPDlovedones for?
- Best for Mental Health and Relationships enthusiasts looking for a Reddit-based community with forum discussion.
- Is r/BPDlovedones free to join?
- This listing is not marked as paid-only. Access rules and any fees are decided by the community.
- How many members does r/BPDlovedones have?
- Roughly 139K members, based on figures reported by the community or its host. Member counts are approximate and change over time.
- What platform is r/BPDlovedones on?
- r/BPDlovedones runs on Reddit. Reddit communities (or "subreddits") are forum-based groups on the popular social news aggregation, web content rating, and discussion website Reddit. Reddit is commonly known as "the front page of the internet". Users submit content to the site such as links, text posts, and images, which are then voted up or down and discussed by other members. From investing Reddit communities, to professional ones, to ones just for laughs, you're likely to find a community for you on Reddit.
- What topics does r/BPDlovedones cover?
- On the Hive Index, r/BPDlovedones is organized under Mental Health, Relationships.
- How do I join r/BPDlovedones?
- You can join r/BPDlovedones by clicking this link, or pressing the "Go to community" button above.
- What are the Mental Health communities like?
- Communities for people navigating anxiety, depression, trauma, and everyday mental health challenges. Reddit has some of the largest and most active mental health communities on the internet, with Discord servers offering real-time peer support. Range of spaces from general wellness discussion to communities focused on specific conditions.
Monthly Stats
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- Visitors
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- Referrals
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