r/AskWomenOver30

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About r/AskWomenOver30

AskWomenOver30 is an open, affirming place to ask women over 30 for their perspective.

The community at a glance

r/AskWomenOver30 is a Subreddit for Relationships with roughly 441K members. It has been around since 2013. It uses a forum format for communication. It is the 6th largest community in the Relationships topic page.

Roughly 88K members have joined in the past year. Popular discussion topics include Worst, Advice, and Clothing. Common discussion themes are Advice Requests and Pain & Anger. Product recommendations often mention book, clothing, and podcast.

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Established 2013
441K Members

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Community Features

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Subreddit Analysis

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Yearly: +88K members
Growth: +24.9% / year

Member growth over time

All time (yearly)

  • 2014: 2K members
  • 2015: 3K members
  • 2016: 4K members
  • 2017: 4K members
  • 2018: 13K members
  • 2019: 27K members
  • 2020: 31K members
  • 2023: 117K members
  • 2024: 101K members
  • 2025: 77K members
  • 2026: 61K members

Past year (monthly)

  • Sep: 5K members
  • Oct: 5K members
  • Nov: 7K members
  • Dec: 7K members
  • Jan: 9K members
  • Feb: 8K members
  • Mar: 9K members
  • Apr: 7K members
  • May: 7K members
  • Jun: 8K members
  • Jul: 8K members
  • Aug: 5K members

Themes

  • Advice Requests
    31 posts in the past month
    1. How did you fix the damage your parents caused to you?
    2. Do You Feel Like You’re Missing Out On Life?
    3. My mom died suddenly when I was 16, and I don't think I'll ever get over it... In my thirties. How have you reclaimed your identity after such a loss?
    #1
    Advice Requests
    How did you fix the damage your parents caused to you? · Do You Feel Like You’re Missing Out On Life? · My mom died suddenly when I was 16, and I don't think I'll ever get over it... In my thirties. How have you reclaimed your identity after such a loss?
    31
  • Pain & Anger
    9 posts in the past month
    1. Husband used my nudes to make AI porn. What the hell do I do?
    2. How are you dealing with working in the corporate world right now?
    3. Leaving a 19-year relationship at 35. Back at my parents', starting over with just my cats and my job… how do I survive the first few weeks?
    #2
    Pain & Anger
    Husband used my nudes to make AI porn. What the hell do I do? · How are you dealing with working in the corporate world right now? · Leaving a 19-year relationship at 35. Back at my parents', starting over with just my cats and my job… how do I survive the first few weeks?
    9
  • Solution Requests
    2 posts in the past month
    1. Has anyone discovered a hangover prevention supplement that actually works? I rarely drink and am going on a bachelorette trip next weekend.
    2. Favorite or best tool box for DIY tools
    #3
    Solution Requests
    Has anyone discovered a hangover prevention supplement that actually works? I rarely drink and am going on a bachelorette trip next weekend. · Favorite or best tool box for DIY tools
    2

Topics

  • Worst
    7 posts in the past month
    #1
    Worst
    7
  • Advice
    3 posts in the past month
    #2
    Advice
    3
  • Clothing
    2 posts in the past month
    #3
    Clothing
    2
  • Breakup
    2 posts in the past month
    #4
    Breakup
    2
  • Sportsbra
    1 post in the past month
    #5
    Sportsbra
    1

Flair

  • Romance/Relationships
    64 posts in the past month
    1. Women who “married down” professionally and/or financially, are you happy?
    2. Husband used my nudes to make AI porn. What the hell do I do?
    3. Am I being unreasonable to think this is a dealbreaker?
    #1
    Romance/Relationships
    Women who “married down” professionally and/or financially, are you happy? · Husband used my nudes to make AI porn. What the hell do I do? · Am I being unreasonable to think this is a dealbreaker?
    64
  • Life/Self/Spirituality
    32 posts in the past month
    1. Is shame the overwhelming emotion of your early 30s?
    2. Do you use a pad/pantyliner when going to the gym?
    3. Do you feel burnt out too?
    #2
    Life/Self/Spirituality
    Is shame the overwhelming emotion of your early 30s? · Do you use a pad/pantyliner when going to the gym? · Do you feel burnt out too?
    32
  • Family/Parenting
    18 posts in the past month
    1. Unexpectedly pregnant 35. How did you decide to have a baby or not?
    2. Am I being unreasonable by being annoyed at this family dynamic?
    3. Working women with kids, how did your free time change after having kids?
    #3
    Family/Parenting
    Unexpectedly pregnant 35. How did you decide to have a baby or not? · Am I being unreasonable by being annoyed at this family dynamic? · Working women with kids, how did your free time change after having kids?
    18
  • Misc Discussion
    18 posts in the past month
    1. Pronouncing "woman" and "women" the same?
    2. Feeling a weird emptiness, can somebody help me reason about it?
    3. Women, how is life right now? Mine feels messy. How are you navigating yours? I’m going through it too.
    #4
    Misc Discussion
    Pronouncing "woman" and "women" the same? · Feeling a weird emptiness, can somebody help me reason about it? · Women, how is life right now? Mine feels messy. How are you navigating yours? I’m going through it too.
    18
  • Career
    16 posts in the past month
    1. I'm 34 and unhappy with the life I've built — what would you do differently at my age?
    2. How are you dealing with working in the corporate world right now?
    3. Anyone else completely reinvented their career in their 30s?
    #5
    Career
    I'm 34 and unhappy with the life I've built — what would you do differently at my age? · How are you dealing with working in the corporate world right now? · Anyone else completely reinvented their career in their 30s?
    16

Product recommendations

  • book
    9 posts in the past month
    1. Recommend a book for a beginner to romance/sexy novels?
    2. What book are you reading at the moment that you recommend?
    3. Book recs for people learning to downsize, specifically retirement age.
    #1
    book
    Recommend a book for a beginner to romance/sexy novels? · What book are you reading at the moment that you recommend? · Book recs for people learning to downsize, specifically retirement age.
    9
  • clothing
    3 posts in the past month
    1. Affordable casual clothing recs for warm weather — hit me!
    2. Clothing brand recs
    3. Clothing recs
    #2
    clothing
    Affordable casual clothing recs for warm weather — hit me! · Clothing brand recs · Clothing recs
    3
  • podcast
    3 posts in the past month
    1. Stuck in my house with the flu for over a week, and slowly losing my mind - please recommend me a podcast!
    2. Books or podcast recs for when you feel stuck in life?
    3. Podcast recs?
    #3
    podcast
    Stuck in my house with the flu for over a week, and slowly losing my mind - please recommend me a podcast! · Books or podcast recs for when you feel stuck in life? · Podcast recs?
    3
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Frequently asked questions

Who is r/AskWomenOver30 for?
Best for Relationships enthusiasts looking for a Reddit-based community with forum discussion.
Is r/AskWomenOver30 free to join?
This listing is not marked as paid-only. Access rules and any fees are decided by the community.
How many members does r/AskWomenOver30 have?
Roughly 441K members, based on figures reported by the community or its host. Member counts are approximate and change over time.
What platform is r/AskWomenOver30 on?
r/AskWomenOver30 runs on Reddit. Reddit communities (or "subreddits") are forum-based groups on the popular social news aggregation, web content rating, and discussion website Reddit. Reddit is commonly known as "the front page of the internet". Users submit content to the site such as links, text posts, and images, which are then voted up or down and discussed by other members. From investing Reddit communities, to professional ones, to ones just for laughs, you're likely to find a community for you on Reddit.
What topics does r/AskWomenOver30 cover?
On the Hive Index, r/AskWomenOver30 is organized under Relationships.
How do I join r/AskWomenOver30?
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What are the Relationships communities like?
Communities for people navigating dating, partnerships, marriage, and the dynamics of personal relationships. Reddit has the largest and most active communities here, spanning advice for long-distance couples, relationship challenges, and general discussion about dating and love, with some Discord servers for more real-time conversation.
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