r/AskWomenOver30

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About r/AskWomenOver30

AskWomenOver30 is an open, affirming place to ask women over 30 for their perspective.

The community at a glance

r/AskWomenOver30 is a Subreddit for Relationships with roughly 452K members. It has been around since 2013. It uses a forum format for communication. On the Hive Index it ranks #8 in the Relationships communities list.

Roughly 91K members have joined in the past year. Popular discussion topics include Relationship, Dating, and Career. Common discussion themes are Advice Requests and Pain & Anger. Product recommendations often mention book, clothing, and podcast.

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Established 2013
452K Members

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Yearly: +91K members
Growth: +25.2% / year

Member growth over time

All time (yearly)

  • 2014: 2K members
  • 2015: 3K members
  • 2016: 4K members
  • 2017: 4K members
  • 2018: 13K members
  • 2019: 27K members
  • 2020: 31K members
  • 2023: 117K members
  • 2024: 101K members
  • 2025: 77K members
  • 2026: 72K members

Past year (monthly)

  • Nov: 7K members
  • Dec: 7K members
  • Jan: 9K members
  • Feb: 8K members
  • Mar: 9K members
  • Apr: 7K members
  • May: 7K members
  • Jun: 8K members
  • Jul: 8K members
  • Aug: 7K members
  • Sep: 7K members
  • Oct: 677 members

Themes

  • Advice Requests
    10 posts in the past month
    1. 35F emotional/hormonal. How to deal with partner being over it?
    2. Any recommendations on spiritual content/media that's by women? (i.e. guided meditations, books, podcasts, etc etc)
    3. How do you cope with a partner’s anxiety, or do you?
    #1
    Advice Requests
    35F emotional/hormonal. How to deal with partner being over it? · Any recommendations on spiritual content/media that's by women? (i.e. guided meditations, books, podcasts, etc etc) · How do you cope with a partner’s anxiety, or do you?
    10
  • Pain & Anger
    5 posts in the past month
    1. Did burnout ever make your brain physically hurt when you tried to think?
    2. Experiencing wealth anxiety despite being employed
    3. My(26F) mom apparently knew I'd been drugged for weeks before casually telling me in front of her friends. Why?
    #2
    Pain & Anger
    Did burnout ever make your brain physically hurt when you tried to think? · Experiencing wealth anxiety despite being employed · My(26F) mom apparently knew I'd been drugged for weeks before casually telling me in front of her friends. Why?
    5

Topics

  • Relationship
    7 posts in the past month
    #1
    Relationship
    7
  • Dating
    5 posts in the past month
    #2
    Dating
    5
  • Career
    3 posts in the past month
    #3
    Career
    3
  • Marriage
    3 posts in the past month
    #4
    Marriage
    3
  • Self
    3 posts in the past month
    #5
    Self
    3

Flair

  • Romance/Relationships
    21 posts in the past month
    1. I can’t tell if I am hyper-sensitive or if my partner actually is exhibiting problematic behaviour.
    2. Scared to break up with my bf
    3. Relationship Negotiations
    #1
    Romance/Relationships
    I can’t tell if I am hyper-sensitive or if my partner actually is exhibiting problematic behaviour. · Scared to break up with my bf · Relationship Negotiations
    21
  • Life/Self/Spirituality
    14 posts in the past month
    1. I miss the 90's and early 2000's. do you do anything to make your life feel simpler?
    2. Did burnout ever make your brain physically hurt when you tried to think?
    3. How did you take charge of your health in your 30s? Just ask for a physical?
    #2
    Life/Self/Spirituality
    I miss the 90's and early 2000's. do you do anything to make your life feel simpler? · Did burnout ever make your brain physically hurt when you tried to think? · How did you take charge of your health in your 30s? Just ask for a physical?
    14
  • Misc Discussion
    8 posts in the past month
    1. Boyfriend of 3 years told me he hates women today, has anyone had a partner randomly say something like that?
    2. How often are you approached / complimented by strangers?
    3. Can you genuinely tell when your period is near?
    #3
    Misc Discussion
    Boyfriend of 3 years told me he hates women today, has anyone had a partner randomly say something like that? · How often are you approached / complimented by strangers? · Can you genuinely tell when your period is near?
    8
  • Family/Parenting
    7 posts in the past month
    1. Advice for future planning
    2. My(26F) mom apparently knew I'd been drugged for weeks before casually telling me in front of her friends. Why?
    3. 23 tomorrow and having an existential crisis about my parents — looking for advice from women 30+
    #4
    Family/Parenting
    Advice for future planning · My(26F) mom apparently knew I'd been drugged for weeks before casually telling me in front of her friends. Why? · 23 tomorrow and having an existential crisis about my parents — looking for advice from women 30+
    7
  • Friendships
    6 posts in the past month
    1. Is the solution to meeting new people and making friends to just go out and talk to as many people as possible?
    2. I feel stuck First time in 2 years
    3. Perspective please on the time it takes to build meaningful/close friendships
    #5
    Friendships
    Is the solution to meeting new people and making friends to just go out and talk to as many people as possible? · I feel stuck First time in 2 years · Perspective please on the time it takes to build meaningful/close friendships
    6

Product recommendations

  • book
    9 posts in the past month
    1. Recommend a book for a beginner to romance/sexy novels?
    2. What book are you reading at the moment that you recommend?
    3. Book recs for people learning to downsize, specifically retirement age.
    #1
    book
    Recommend a book for a beginner to romance/sexy novels? · What book are you reading at the moment that you recommend? · Book recs for people learning to downsize, specifically retirement age.
    9
  • clothing
    3 posts in the past month
    1. Affordable casual clothing recs for warm weather — hit me!
    2. Clothing brand recs
    3. Clothing recs
    #2
    clothing
    Affordable casual clothing recs for warm weather — hit me! · Clothing brand recs · Clothing recs
    3
  • podcast
    3 posts in the past month
    1. Stuck in my house with the flu for over a week, and slowly losing my mind - please recommend me a podcast!
    2. Books or podcast recs for when you feel stuck in life?
    3. Podcast recs?
    #3
    podcast
    Stuck in my house with the flu for over a week, and slowly losing my mind - please recommend me a podcast! · Books or podcast recs for when you feel stuck in life? · Podcast recs?
    3
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Frequently asked questions

Who is r/AskWomenOver30 for?
Best for Relationships enthusiasts looking for a Reddit-based community with forum discussion.
Is r/AskWomenOver30 free to join?
This listing is not marked as paid-only. Access rules and any fees are decided by the community.
How many members does r/AskWomenOver30 have?
Roughly 452K members, based on figures reported by the community or its host. Member counts are approximate and change over time.
What platform is r/AskWomenOver30 on?
r/AskWomenOver30 runs on Reddit. Reddit communities (or "subreddits") are forum-based groups on the popular social news aggregation, web content rating, and discussion website Reddit. Reddit is commonly known as "the front page of the internet". Users submit content to the site such as links, text posts, and images, which are then voted up or down and discussed by other members. From investing Reddit communities, to professional ones, to ones just for laughs, you're likely to find a community for you on Reddit.
What topics does r/AskWomenOver30 cover?
On the Hive Index, r/AskWomenOver30 is organized under Relationships.
How do I join r/AskWomenOver30?
You can join r/AskWomenOver30 by clicking this link, or pressing the "Go to community" button above.
What are the Relationships communities like?
Communities for people navigating dating, partnerships, marriage, and the dynamics of personal relationships. Reddit has the largest and most active communities here, spanning advice for long-distance couples, relationship challenges, and general discussion about dating and love, with some Discord servers for more real-time conversation.
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