r/AskWomenOver30

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About r/AskWomenOver30

AskWomenOver30 is an open, affirming place to ask women over 30 for their perspective.

The community at a glance

r/AskWomenOver30 is a Subreddit for Relationships with roughly 437K members. It has been around since 2013. It uses a forum format for communication. It is the 6th largest community in the Relationships topic page.

Roughly 88K members have joined in the past year. Popular discussion topics include Dating, Relationship, and Relationships. Common discussion themes are Advice Requests and Pain & Anger. Product recommendations often mention book, clothing, and podcast.

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Established 2013
437K Members

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Subreddit Analysis

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Yearly: +88K members
Growth: +25.2% / year

Member growth over time

All time (yearly)

  • 2014: 2K members
  • 2015: 3K members
  • 2016: 4K members
  • 2017: 4K members
  • 2018: 13K members
  • 2019: 27K members
  • 2020: 31K members
  • 2023: 117K members
  • 2024: 101K members
  • 2025: 77K members
  • 2026: 56K members

Past year (monthly)

  • Sep: 5K members
  • Oct: 5K members
  • Nov: 7K members
  • Dec: 7K members
  • Jan: 9K members
  • Feb: 8K members
  • Mar: 9K members
  • Apr: 7K members
  • May: 7K members
  • Jun: 8K members
  • Jul: 8K members
  • Aug: 167 members

Themes

  • Advice Requests
    17 posts in the past month
    1. How do find a way to support myself financially as a single woman..?
    2. Is it common to be so overwhelmed by your wedding? Very introverted bride that is panicking
    3. How to stop yearning?
    #1
    Advice Requests
    How do find a way to support myself financially as a single woman..? · Is it common to be so overwhelmed by your wedding? Very introverted bride that is panicking · How to stop yearning?
    17
  • Pain & Anger
    4 posts in the past month
    1. How to handle friendship group treating me like the “dumb one”?
    2. Single gals: how do you get through really lonely periods
    3. Do things get better? I feel like a failure at 32.
    #2
    Pain & Anger
    How to handle friendship group treating me like the “dumb one”? · Single gals: how do you get through really lonely periods · Do things get better? I feel like a failure at 32.
    4

Topics

  • Dating
    12 posts in the past month
    1. How do you think dating has changed compared to a decade ago?
    2. Seeking dating advice
    3. How to stop dating?
    #1
    Dating
    How do you think dating has changed compared to a decade ago? · Seeking dating advice · How to stop dating?
    12
  • Relationship
    7 posts in the past month
    #2
    Relationship
    7
  • Relationships
    7 posts in the past month
    1. Are aggressive outbursts never not a red flag?
    2. Long term relationship advice
    #3
    Relationships
    Are aggressive outbursts never not a red flag? · Long term relationship advice
    7
  • Parenting
    6 posts in the past month
    1. Widowed Dad
    #4
    Parenting
    Widowed Dad
    6
  • Family
    5 posts in the past month
    #5
    Family
    5

Flair

  • Romance/Relationships
    51 posts in the past month
    1. Should I be worried for my safety? Possible stalker
    2. Single gals: how do you get through really lonely periods
    3. Who buys a 1k plane ticket just to ghost a week later!?
    #1
    Romance/Relationships
    Should I be worried for my safety? Possible stalker · Single gals: how do you get through really lonely periods · Who buys a 1k plane ticket just to ghost a week later!?
    51
  • Friendships
    23 posts in the past month
    1. How to handle friendship group treating me like the “dumb one”?
    2. Is it normal to get to your 30s and just want to spend most of your time alone?
    3. Friends that feel under-dressed, how do you approach this?
    #2
    Friendships
    How to handle friendship group treating me like the “dumb one”? · Is it normal to get to your 30s and just want to spend most of your time alone? · Friends that feel under-dressed, how do you approach this?
    23
  • Life/Self/Spirituality
    22 posts in the past month
    1. Has spite helped you become a better person?
    2. How did you get your spark back?
    3. SINK feeling stuck at 34
    #3
    Life/Self/Spirituality
    Has spite helped you become a better person? · How did you get your spark back? · SINK feeling stuck at 34
    22
  • Misc Discussion
    13 posts in the past month
    1. I feel like I am getting dumb as I get older. DAE relate?
    2. Anyone else constantly told they're old once they hit 30?
    3. Underrated home management tip?
    #4
    Misc Discussion
    I feel like I am getting dumb as I get older. DAE relate? · Anyone else constantly told they're old once they hit 30? · Underrated home management tip?
    13
  • Beauty/Fashion
    10 posts in the past month
    1. How often do you get “maintenance” appointments done?
    2. Why am I 30+ and still haven’t figured out underwear?
    3. What brands do 30-somethings shop?
    #5
    Beauty/Fashion
    How often do you get “maintenance” appointments done? · Why am I 30+ and still haven’t figured out underwear? · What brands do 30-somethings shop?
    10

Product recommendations

  • book
    9 posts in the past month
    1. Recommend a book for a beginner to romance/sexy novels?
    2. What book are you reading at the moment that you recommend?
    3. Book recs for people learning to downsize, specifically retirement age.
    #1
    book
    Recommend a book for a beginner to romance/sexy novels? · What book are you reading at the moment that you recommend? · Book recs for people learning to downsize, specifically retirement age.
    9
  • clothing
    3 posts in the past month
    1. Affordable casual clothing recs for warm weather — hit me!
    2. Clothing brand recs
    3. Clothing recs
    #2
    clothing
    Affordable casual clothing recs for warm weather — hit me! · Clothing brand recs · Clothing recs
    3
  • podcast
    3 posts in the past month
    1. Stuck in my house with the flu for over a week, and slowly losing my mind - please recommend me a podcast!
    2. Books or podcast recs for when you feel stuck in life?
    3. Podcast recs?
    #3
    podcast
    Stuck in my house with the flu for over a week, and slowly losing my mind - please recommend me a podcast! · Books or podcast recs for when you feel stuck in life? · Podcast recs?
    3
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Frequently asked questions

Who is r/AskWomenOver30 for?
Best for Relationships enthusiasts looking for a Reddit-based community with forum discussion.
Is r/AskWomenOver30 free to join?
This listing is not marked as paid-only. Access rules and any fees are decided by the community.
How many members does r/AskWomenOver30 have?
Roughly 437K members, based on figures reported by the community or its host. Member counts are approximate and change over time.
What platform is r/AskWomenOver30 on?
r/AskWomenOver30 runs on Reddit. Reddit communities (or "subreddits") are forum-based groups on the popular social news aggregation, web content rating, and discussion website Reddit. Reddit is commonly known as "the front page of the internet". Users submit content to the site such as links, text posts, and images, which are then voted up or down and discussed by other members. From investing Reddit communities, to professional ones, to ones just for laughs, you're likely to find a community for you on Reddit.
What topics does r/AskWomenOver30 cover?
On the Hive Index, r/AskWomenOver30 is organized under Relationships.
How do I join r/AskWomenOver30?
You can join r/AskWomenOver30 by clicking this link, or pressing the "Go to community" button above.
What are the Relationships communities like?
Communities for people navigating dating, partnerships, marriage, and the dynamics of personal relationships. Reddit has the largest and most active communities here, spanning advice for long-distance couples, relationship challenges, and general discussion about dating and love, with some Discord servers for more real-time conversation.
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