r/AskWomenOver30

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About r/AskWomenOver30

AskWomenOver30 is an open, affirming place to ask women over 30 for their perspective.

The community at a glance

r/AskWomenOver30 is a Subreddit for Relationships with roughly 432K members. It has been around since 2013. It uses a forum format for communication. On the Hive Index it ranks #7 in the Relationships communities list.

Roughly 88K members have joined in the past year. Popular discussion topics include Relationship, Dating, and Career. Common discussion themes are Advice Requests and Solution Requests. Product recommendations often mention book, clothing, and podcast.

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Established 2013
432K Members

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Subreddit Analysis

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Yearly: +88K members
Growth: +25.5% / year

Member growth over time

All time (yearly)

  • 2014: 2K members
  • 2015: 3K members
  • 2016: 4K members
  • 2017: 4K members
  • 2018: 13K members
  • 2019: 27K members
  • 2020: 31K members
  • 2023: 117K members
  • 2024: 101K members
  • 2025: 77K members
  • 2026: 52K members

Past year (monthly)

  • Aug: 6K members
  • Sep: 5K members
  • Oct: 5K members
  • Nov: 7K members
  • Dec: 7K members
  • Jan: 9K members
  • Feb: 8K members
  • Mar: 9K members
  • Apr: 7K members
  • May: 7K members
  • Jun: 8K members
  • Jul: 4K members

Themes

  • Advice Requests
    7 posts in the past month
    1. Tips On Not Making Impulsive Decisions When Anxious?
    2. In serious need of ad advice and insight
    3. How do I care less about my colleagues not caring I'm leaving?
    #1
    Advice Requests
    Tips On Not Making Impulsive Decisions When Anxious? · In serious need of ad advice and insight · How do I care less about my colleagues not caring I'm leaving?
    7
  • Solution Requests
    1 post in the past month
    1. Looking for meal delivery service recs (NOT diet/weight-loss focused) for a stressed-out friend's birthday gift
    #2
    Solution Requests
    Looking for meal delivery service recs (NOT diet/weight-loss focused) for a stressed-out friend's birthday gift
    1

Topics

  • Relationship
    15 posts in the past month
    1. Ending a 12 year relationship with a 6 month old
    #1
    Relationship
    Ending a 12 year relationship with a 6 month old
    15
  • Dating
    8 posts in the past month
    1. How to split out anxious thoughts from reality in early dating
    2. Dating a man with kids going through a divorce - should I stick it out or show myself the door?
    #2
    Dating
    How to split out anxious thoughts from reality in early dating · Dating a man with kids going through a divorce - should I stick it out or show myself the door?
    8
  • Career
    6 posts in the past month
    1. When did you know you found your career?
    2. Emotional Regulation and Career
    #3
    Career
    When did you know you found your career? · Emotional Regulation and Career
    6
  • Struggling With
    5 posts in the past month
    #4
    Struggling With
    5
  • Family
    5 posts in the past month
    #5
    Family
    5

Flair

  • Romance/Relationships
    23 posts in the past month
    1. Do I sign the contract and move in to secure the price or do I wait until I am more financially secure?
    2. How did you move on from the guy you like not liking you back?
    3. Not sure if divorce is the right option, very little support
    #1
    Romance/Relationships
    Do I sign the contract and move in to secure the price or do I wait until I am more financially secure? · How did you move on from the guy you like not liking you back? · Not sure if divorce is the right option, very little support
    23
  • Life/Self/Spirituality
    12 posts in the past month
    1. Getting sad on your birthday?
    2. When will doctors start taking women’s pain seriously?
    3. How do you build the life you truly want?
    #2
    Life/Self/Spirituality
    Getting sad on your birthday? · When will doctors start taking women’s pain seriously? · How do you build the life you truly want?
    12
  • Misc Discussion
    10 posts in the past month
    1. What would you buy your best friend’s daughter turning 1 next month? I want to give her something monogrammed or a keepsake. Budget $250-$300. What do you guys suggest?
    2. Has anyone went for a skin check at a dermatologist before?
    3. Sisters, if you lost your main paying job tomorrow what would be your "bare bones" budget until you found a new job?
    #3
    Misc Discussion
    What would you buy your best friend’s daughter turning 1 next month? I want to give her something monogrammed or a keepsake. Budget $250-$300. What do you guys suggest? · Has anyone went for a skin check at a dermatologist before? · Sisters, if you lost your main paying job tomorrow what would be your "bare bones" budget until you found a new job?
    10
  • Career
    4 posts in the past month
    1. When did you know you found your career?
    2. Advice for first 100% remote job – how to maximize personal time on the company dime?
    3. Have you experienced flailing at a new job?
    #4
    Career
    When did you know you found your career? · Advice for first 100% remote job – how to maximize personal time on the company dime? · Have you experienced flailing at a new job?
    4
  • Beauty/Fashion
    3 posts in the past month
    1. Anxiety with nail salons
    2. Summer underwear for curvy queens
    3. How do you motivate yourself to dress up and make an effort on your looks, even casually?
    #5
    Beauty/Fashion
    Anxiety with nail salons · Summer underwear for curvy queens · How do you motivate yourself to dress up and make an effort on your looks, even casually?
    3

Product recommendations

  • book
    9 posts in the past month
    1. Recommend a book for a beginner to romance/sexy novels?
    2. What book are you reading at the moment that you recommend?
    3. Book recs for people learning to downsize, specifically retirement age.
    #1
    book
    Recommend a book for a beginner to romance/sexy novels? · What book are you reading at the moment that you recommend? · Book recs for people learning to downsize, specifically retirement age.
    9
  • clothing
    3 posts in the past month
    1. Affordable casual clothing recs for warm weather — hit me!
    2. Clothing brand recs
    3. Clothing recs
    #2
    clothing
    Affordable casual clothing recs for warm weather — hit me! · Clothing brand recs · Clothing recs
    3
  • podcast
    3 posts in the past month
    1. Stuck in my house with the flu for over a week, and slowly losing my mind - please recommend me a podcast!
    2. Books or podcast recs for when you feel stuck in life?
    3. Podcast recs?
    #3
    podcast
    Stuck in my house with the flu for over a week, and slowly losing my mind - please recommend me a podcast! · Books or podcast recs for when you feel stuck in life? · Podcast recs?
    3
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Frequently asked questions

Who is r/AskWomenOver30 for?
Best for Relationships enthusiasts looking for a Reddit-based community with forum discussion.
Is r/AskWomenOver30 free to join?
This listing is not marked as paid-only. Access rules and any fees are decided by the community.
How many members does r/AskWomenOver30 have?
Roughly 432K members, based on figures reported by the community or its host. Member counts are approximate and change over time.
What platform is r/AskWomenOver30 on?
r/AskWomenOver30 runs on Reddit. Reddit communities (or "subreddits") are forum-based groups on the popular social news aggregation, web content rating, and discussion website Reddit. Reddit is commonly known as "the front page of the internet". Users submit content to the site such as links, text posts, and images, which are then voted up or down and discussed by other members. From investing Reddit communities, to professional ones, to ones just for laughs, you're likely to find a community for you on Reddit.
What topics does r/AskWomenOver30 cover?
On the Hive Index, r/AskWomenOver30 is organized under Relationships.
How do I join r/AskWomenOver30?
You can join r/AskWomenOver30 by clicking this link, or pressing the "Go to community" button above.
What are the Relationships communities like?
Communities for people navigating dating, partnerships, marriage, and the dynamics of personal relationships. Reddit has the largest and most active communities here, spanning advice for long-distance couples, relationship challenges, and general discussion about dating and love, with some Discord servers for more real-time conversation.
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