r/AskWomenOver30

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About r/AskWomenOver30

AskWomenOver30 is an open, affirming place to ask women over 30 for their perspective.

The community at a glance

r/AskWomenOver30 is a Subreddit for Relationships with roughly 457K members. It has been around since 2013. It uses a forum format for communication. It is the 6th largest community in the Relationships topic page.

Roughly 92K members have joined in the past year. Popular discussion topics include Relationship, Dating, and Friendship. Product recommendations often mention book, clothing, and podcast.

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Established 2013
457K Members

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Yearly: +92K members
Growth: +25.3% / year

Member growth over time

All time (yearly)

  • 2014: 2K members
  • 2015: 3K members
  • 2016: 4K members
  • 2017: 4K members
  • 2018: 13K members
  • 2019: 27K members
  • 2020: 31K members
  • 2023: 117K members
  • 2024: 101K members
  • 2025: 77K members
  • 2026: 77K members

Past year (monthly)

  • Nov: 7K members
  • Dec: 7K members
  • Jan: 9K members
  • Feb: 8K members
  • Mar: 9K members
  • Apr: 7K members
  • May: 7K members
  • Jun: 8K members
  • Jul: 8K members
  • Aug: 7K members
  • Sep: 7K members
  • Oct: 6K members

Topics

  • Relationship
    6 posts in the past month
    #1
    Relationship
    6
  • Dating
    5 posts in the past month
    #2
    Dating
    5
  • Friendship
    4 posts in the past month
    #3
    Friendship
    4
  • Career
    3 posts in the past month
    #4
    Career
    3
  • Self
    3 posts in the past month
    #5
    Self
    3

Flair

  • Romance/Relationships
    25 posts in the past month
    1. Is it shallow to break things off over disappointing sex?
    2. How to show care and empathy for my partner’s repetitive complaint?
    3. Those of you that were ever in a toxic relationship, how / what finally made you leave?
    #1
    Romance/Relationships
    Is it shallow to break things off over disappointing sex? · How to show care and empathy for my partner’s repetitive complaint? · Those of you that were ever in a toxic relationship, how / what finally made you leave?
    25
  • Misc Discussion
    15 posts in the past month
    1. In your next relationship, what is something you would never do or accept again? Why?
    2. How do you cope without social media?
    3. Nearly 17 years out, what are your thoughts on Lori Gottlieb's “Marry Him: The Case for Settling for Mr. Good Enough”
    #2
    Misc Discussion
    In your next relationship, what is something you would never do or accept again? Why? · How do you cope without social media? · Nearly 17 years out, what are your thoughts on Lori Gottlieb's “Marry Him: The Case for Settling for Mr. Good Enough”
    15
  • Life/Self/Spirituality
    9 posts in the past month
    1. Single and childfree women, what does your life look like?
    2. I’m scaling back my social commitments (chronic people pleaser/overcommitter) and trying to focus on myself. What do you do that you enjoy?
    3. What do you do on days you just feel you can’t function? How do you move forward?
    #3
    Life/Self/Spirituality
    Single and childfree women, what does your life look like? · I’m scaling back my social commitments (chronic people pleaser/overcommitter) and trying to focus on myself. What do you do that you enjoy? · What do you do on days you just feel you can’t function? How do you move forward?
    9
  • Friendships
    8 posts in the past month
    1. is it even possible to find a best friend this late in life?
    2. friendship situation - How do you remain neutral when someone else’s possible partner or date is doing things you know are weird and what if they make up? What does that leave you?
    3. Friend cut me off
    #4
    Friendships
    is it even possible to find a best friend this late in life? · friendship situation - How do you remain neutral when someone else’s possible partner or date is doing things you know are weird and what if they make up? What does that leave you? · Friend cut me off
    8
  • Family/Parenting
    5 posts in the past month
    1. Do you ever grieve for the relationship with your mother that you never had?
    2. Difficult relationship with my mum, how did you repair it and find peace?
    3. How did growing up Emotionally Neglected affect you?
    #5
    Family/Parenting
    Do you ever grieve for the relationship with your mother that you never had? · Difficult relationship with my mum, how did you repair it and find peace? · How did growing up Emotionally Neglected affect you?
    5

Product recommendations

  • book
    9 posts in the past month
    1. Recommend a book for a beginner to romance/sexy novels?
    2. What book are you reading at the moment that you recommend?
    3. Book recs for people learning to downsize, specifically retirement age.
    #1
    book
    Recommend a book for a beginner to romance/sexy novels? · What book are you reading at the moment that you recommend? · Book recs for people learning to downsize, specifically retirement age.
    9
  • clothing
    3 posts in the past month
    1. Affordable casual clothing recs for warm weather — hit me!
    2. Clothing brand recs
    3. Clothing recs
    #2
    clothing
    Affordable casual clothing recs for warm weather — hit me! · Clothing brand recs · Clothing recs
    3
  • podcast
    3 posts in the past month
    1. Stuck in my house with the flu for over a week, and slowly losing my mind - please recommend me a podcast!
    2. Books or podcast recs for when you feel stuck in life?
    3. Podcast recs?
    #3
    podcast
    Stuck in my house with the flu for over a week, and slowly losing my mind - please recommend me a podcast! · Books or podcast recs for when you feel stuck in life? · Podcast recs?
    3
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Frequently asked questions

Who is r/AskWomenOver30 for?
Best for Relationships enthusiasts looking for a Reddit-based community with forum discussion.
Is r/AskWomenOver30 free to join?
This listing is not marked as paid-only. Access rules and any fees are decided by the community.
How many members does r/AskWomenOver30 have?
Roughly 457K members, based on figures reported by the community or its host. Member counts are approximate and change over time.
What platform is r/AskWomenOver30 on?
r/AskWomenOver30 runs on Reddit. Reddit communities (or "subreddits") are forum-based groups on the popular social news aggregation, web content rating, and discussion website Reddit. Reddit is commonly known as "the front page of the internet". Users submit content to the site such as links, text posts, and images, which are then voted up or down and discussed by other members. From investing Reddit communities, to professional ones, to ones just for laughs, you're likely to find a community for you on Reddit.
What topics does r/AskWomenOver30 cover?
On the Hive Index, r/AskWomenOver30 is organized under Relationships.
How do I join r/AskWomenOver30?
You can join r/AskWomenOver30 by clicking this link, or pressing the "Go to community" button above.
What are the Relationships communities like?
Communities for people navigating dating, partnerships, marriage, and the dynamics of personal relationships. Reddit has the largest and most active communities here, spanning advice for long-distance couples, relationship challenges, and general discussion about dating and love, with some Discord servers for more real-time conversation.
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