r/AskWomenOver30

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About r/AskWomenOver30

AskWomenOver30 is an open, affirming place to ask women over 30 for their perspective.

The community at a glance

r/AskWomenOver30 is a Subreddit for Relationships with roughly 447K members. It has been around since 2013. It uses a forum format for communication. On the Hive Index it ranks #8 in the Relationships communities list.

Roughly 90K members have joined in the past year. Popular discussion topics include Relationship, Dating, and Age. Common discussion themes are Advice Requests and Pain & Anger. Product recommendations often mention book, clothing, and podcast.

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Established 2013
447K Members

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Subreddit Analysis

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Yearly: +90K members
Growth: +25.2% / year

Member growth over time

All time (yearly)

  • 2014: 2K members
  • 2015: 3K members
  • 2016: 4K members
  • 2017: 4K members
  • 2018: 13K members
  • 2019: 27K members
  • 2020: 31K members
  • 2023: 117K members
  • 2024: 101K members
  • 2025: 77K members
  • 2026: 66K members

Past year (monthly)

  • Oct: 5K members
  • Nov: 7K members
  • Dec: 7K members
  • Jan: 9K members
  • Feb: 8K members
  • Mar: 9K members
  • Apr: 7K members
  • May: 7K members
  • Jun: 8K members
  • Jul: 8K members
  • Aug: 7K members
  • Sep: 3K members

Themes

  • Advice Requests
    23 posts in the past month
    1. How do I stop feeling constrained by my age?
    2. Auntie fever but struggling to connect with moms due to being childless, advice?
    3. What are your favorite solitary moments? What do you like doing just by yourself?
    #1
    Advice Requests
    How do I stop feeling constrained by my age? · Auntie fever but struggling to connect with moms due to being childless, advice? · What are your favorite solitary moments? What do you like doing just by yourself?
    23
  • Pain & Anger
    5 posts in the past month
    1. How has a man fucked you over? I want to not feel alone right now.
    2. I'm scared I have abusive tendencies
    3. Those of you who have narcissistic mothers and / or mommy issues, do you regret not trying to maintain a relationship after they passed away?
    #2
    Pain & Anger
    How has a man fucked you over? I want to not feel alone right now. · I'm scared I have abusive tendencies · Those of you who have narcissistic mothers and / or mommy issues, do you regret not trying to maintain a relationship after they passed away?
    5
  • Money Talk
    1 post in the past month
    1. My friend often asks about my personal finances. Is this normal?
    #3
    Money Talk
    My friend often asks about my personal finances. Is this normal?
    1

Topics

  • Relationship
    13 posts in the past month
    1. Am I having a mid-life crisis or is this a relationship issue?
    2. Women who have different financial goals from their partners, how does it affect your relationship and day-to-day life?
    #1
    Relationship
    Am I having a mid-life crisis or is this a relationship issue? · Women who have different financial goals from their partners, how does it affect your relationship and day-to-day life?
    13
  • Dating
    7 posts in the past month
    1. Are you actively dating or on dating platforms?
    2. Am I being ghosted by this guy from a dating site?
    #2
    Dating
    Are you actively dating or on dating platforms? · Am I being ghosted by this guy from a dating site?
    7
  • Age
    5 posts in the past month
    1. How do I stop feeling constrained by my age?
    #3
    Age
    How do I stop feeling constrained by my age?
    5
  • Friendship
    4 posts in the past month
    #4
    Friendship
    4
  • Career
    3 posts in the past month
    #5
    Career
    3

Flair

  • Romance/Relationships
    45 posts in the past month
    1. How has a man fucked you over? I want to not feel alone right now.
    2. How did you remove the rose colored glasses for an ex?
    3. People who have partners who work a lot, how do you handle everything by yourself?
    #1
    Romance/Relationships
    How has a man fucked you over? I want to not feel alone right now. · How did you remove the rose colored glasses for an ex? · People who have partners who work a lot, how do you handle everything by yourself?
    45
  • Friendships
    15 posts in the past month
    1. rather be home than work on my friendships. Anyone else ?
    2. Auntie fever but struggling to connect with moms due to being childless, advice?
    3. My friend often asks about my personal finances. Is this normal?
    #2
    Friendships
    rather be home than work on my friendships. Anyone else ? · Auntie fever but struggling to connect with moms due to being childless, advice? · My friend often asks about my personal finances. Is this normal?
    15
  • Life/Self/Spirituality
    13 posts in the past month
    1. I want to cancel my Japan trip out of sheer loneliness. How do I not go crazy?
    2. Any benefits to being an eldest daughter?
    3. What are your favorite solitary moments? What do you like doing just by yourself?
    #3
    Life/Self/Spirituality
    I want to cancel my Japan trip out of sheer loneliness. How do I not go crazy? · Any benefits to being an eldest daughter? · What are your favorite solitary moments? What do you like doing just by yourself?
    13
  • Beauty/Fashion
    7 posts in the past month
    1. What are your “high maintenance to be low maintenance” things?
    2. DAE likes to get ready for an event, but once you’re done you don’t want to go anymore?
    3. How do I stop feeling constrained by my age?
    #4
    Beauty/Fashion
    What are your “high maintenance to be low maintenance” things? · DAE likes to get ready for an event, but once you’re done you don’t want to go anymore? · How do I stop feeling constrained by my age?
    7
  • Misc Discussion
    7 posts in the past month
    1. How do I let the stereotypes not bother me?
    2. Why do some men say they want a “low-maintenance” woman and then proceed to take her for granted? attent
    3. How to enjoy life again ?
    #5
    Misc Discussion
    How do I let the stereotypes not bother me? · Why do some men say they want a “low-maintenance” woman and then proceed to take her for granted? attent · How to enjoy life again ?
    7

Product recommendations

  • book
    9 posts in the past month
    1. Recommend a book for a beginner to romance/sexy novels?
    2. What book are you reading at the moment that you recommend?
    3. Book recs for people learning to downsize, specifically retirement age.
    #1
    book
    Recommend a book for a beginner to romance/sexy novels? · What book are you reading at the moment that you recommend? · Book recs for people learning to downsize, specifically retirement age.
    9
  • clothing
    3 posts in the past month
    1. Affordable casual clothing recs for warm weather — hit me!
    2. Clothing brand recs
    3. Clothing recs
    #2
    clothing
    Affordable casual clothing recs for warm weather — hit me! · Clothing brand recs · Clothing recs
    3
  • podcast
    3 posts in the past month
    1. Stuck in my house with the flu for over a week, and slowly losing my mind - please recommend me a podcast!
    2. Books or podcast recs for when you feel stuck in life?
    3. Podcast recs?
    #3
    podcast
    Stuck in my house with the flu for over a week, and slowly losing my mind - please recommend me a podcast! · Books or podcast recs for when you feel stuck in life? · Podcast recs?
    3
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Frequently asked questions

Who is r/AskWomenOver30 for?
Best for Relationships enthusiasts looking for a Reddit-based community with forum discussion.
Is r/AskWomenOver30 free to join?
This listing is not marked as paid-only. Access rules and any fees are decided by the community.
How many members does r/AskWomenOver30 have?
Roughly 447K members, based on figures reported by the community or its host. Member counts are approximate and change over time.
What platform is r/AskWomenOver30 on?
r/AskWomenOver30 runs on Reddit. Reddit communities (or "subreddits") are forum-based groups on the popular social news aggregation, web content rating, and discussion website Reddit. Reddit is commonly known as "the front page of the internet". Users submit content to the site such as links, text posts, and images, which are then voted up or down and discussed by other members. From investing Reddit communities, to professional ones, to ones just for laughs, you're likely to find a community for you on Reddit.
What topics does r/AskWomenOver30 cover?
On the Hive Index, r/AskWomenOver30 is organized under Relationships.
How do I join r/AskWomenOver30?
You can join r/AskWomenOver30 by clicking this link, or pressing the "Go to community" button above.
What are the Relationships communities like?
Communities for people navigating dating, partnerships, marriage, and the dynamics of personal relationships. Reddit has the largest and most active communities here, spanning advice for long-distance couples, relationship challenges, and general discussion about dating and love, with some Discord servers for more real-time conversation.
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