r/AskMenAdvice

Community Overview

About r/AskMenAdvice

A space to ask for men's advice about personal situations.

The community at a glance

r/AskMenAdvice is a Subreddit for Relationships with roughly 815K members. It has been around since 2014. It uses a forum format for communication. On the Hive Index it ranks #9 in the Relationships communities list.

Roughly 176K members have joined in the past year. Popular discussion topics include Relationship, Dating, and Relationships. Product recommendations often mention razor, beard trimmer, and underwear.

On Reddit
Established 2014
815K Members

Community Features

This community has a forum

Subreddit Analysis

via GummySearch
Yearly: +176K members
Growth: +27.6% / year

Member growth over time

All time (yearly)

  • 2015: 39 members
  • 2016: 270 members
  • 2017: 2K members
  • 2018: 2K members
  • 2019: 3K members
  • 2020: 17K members
  • 2021: 26K members
  • 2023: 11K members
  • 2024: 161K members
  • 2025: 512K members
  • 2026: 80K members

Past year (monthly)

  • Jul: 17K members
  • Aug: 16K members
  • Sep: 18K members
  • Oct: 9K members
  • Nov: 17K members
  • Dec: 19K members
  • Jan: 22K members
  • Feb: 11K members
  • Mar: 16K members
  • Apr: 12K members
  • May: 11K members
  • Jun: 7K members

Topics

  • Relationship
    115 posts in the past month
    #1
    Relationship
    115
  • Dating
    75 posts in the past month
    #2
    Dating
    75
  • Relationships
    46 posts in the past month
    #3
    Relationships
    46
  • Sex
    33 posts in the past month
    #4
    Sex
    33
  • Struggling
    31 posts in the past month
    #5
    Struggling
    31

Flair

  • ✅ Open To Everyone
    168 posts in the past month
    1. My girlfriend wants to put our relationship on hold while she travels to Rome. Apparently I'm "insecure" for having a problem with that. I need the opinion of other men. How do you see it?
    2. My fiance brought up a prenup before I could and it wasn't what I expected - has anyone else experienced this?
    3. 41 m, dating a 36f met online, Friends and family told me she’s ugly but I like her, what to do?
    #1
    ✅ Open To Everyone
    My girlfriend wants to put our relationship on hold while she travels to Rome. Apparently I'm "insecure" for having a problem with that. I need the opinion of other men. How do you see it? · My fiance brought up a prenup before I could and it wasn't what I expected - has anyone else experienced this? · 41 m, dating a 36f met online, Friends and family told me she’s ugly but I like her, what to do?
    168
  • Men’s Input Only
    31 posts in the past month
    1. If a girl would ask you to go swimming as a first meet up would you realise she's interested in you or just see her as a new swimming buddy?
    2. My male teammates keep telling me I ruined my body with a breast reduction and should get implants. How would you handle this?
    3. Is my way of flirting or talking to guys at bars/clubs weird? How would you perceive it?
    #2
    Men’s Input Only
    If a girl would ask you to go swimming as a first meet up would you realise she's interested in you or just see her as a new swimming buddy? · My male teammates keep telling me I ruined my body with a breast reduction and should get implants. How would you handle this? · Is my way of flirting or talking to guys at bars/clubs weird? How would you perceive it?
    31

Product recommendations

  • razor
    3 posts in the past month
    1. What should I look for in an electronic razor, and what brand would you recommend?
    2. Please recommend a Reasonable razor blade/shaver?
    3. What razor you recommend for someone who has to shave a couple times a week?
    #1
    razor
    What should I look for in an electronic razor, and what brand would you recommend? · Please recommend a Reasonable razor blade/shaver? · What razor you recommend for someone who has to shave a couple times a week?
    3
  • beard trimmer
    2 posts in the past month
    1. Hey guys, can you recommend a good beard trimmer?
    2. What beard trimmers do you recommend and why?
    #2
    beard trimmer
    Hey guys, can you recommend a good beard trimmer? · What beard trimmers do you recommend and why?
    2
  • underwear
    2 posts in the past month
    1. Can anyone recommend underwear for well-endowed men?
    2. What underwear do you recommend?
    #3
    underwear
    Can anyone recommend underwear for well-endowed men? · What underwear do you recommend?
    2
  • workout routine
    2 posts in the past month
    1. Can anyone recommend a new workout routine for someone looking to switch things up?
    2. Can anyone recommend a new workout routine for someone looking to switch things up?
    #4
    workout routine
    Can anyone recommend a new workout routine for someone looking to switch things up? · Can anyone recommend a new workout routine for someone looking to switch things up?
    2

Frequently asked questions

Who is r/AskMenAdvice for?
Best for Relationships enthusiasts looking for a Reddit-based community with forum discussion.
Is r/AskMenAdvice free to join?
This listing is not marked as paid-only. Access rules and any fees are decided by the community.
How many members does r/AskMenAdvice have?
Roughly 815K members, based on figures reported by the community or its host. Member counts are approximate and change over time.
What platform is r/AskMenAdvice on?
r/AskMenAdvice runs on Reddit. Reddit communities (or "subreddits") are forum-based groups on the popular social news aggregation, web content rating, and discussion website Reddit. Reddit is commonly known as "the front page of the internet". Users submit content to the site such as links, text posts, and images, which are then voted up or down and discussed by other members. From investing Reddit communities, to professional ones, to ones just for laughs, you're likely to find a community for you on Reddit.
What topics does r/AskMenAdvice cover?
On the Hive Index, r/AskMenAdvice is organized under Relationships.
How do I join r/AskMenAdvice?
You can join r/AskMenAdvice by clicking this link, or pressing the "Go to community" button above.
What are the Relationships communities like?
Communities for people navigating dating, partnerships, marriage, and the dynamics of personal relationships. Reddit has the largest and most active communities here, spanning advice for long-distance couples, relationship challenges, and general discussion about dating and love, with some Discord servers for more real-time conversation.