r/AskMenAdvice

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About r/AskMenAdvice

A space to ask for men's advice about personal situations.

The community at a glance

r/AskMenAdvice is a Subreddit for Relationships with roughly 810K members. It has been around since 2014. It uses a forum format for communication. It is the 4th largest community in the Relationships topic page.

Roughly 180K members have joined in the past year. Popular discussion topics include Relationship, Dating, and Relationships. Product recommendations often mention razor, beard trimmer, and underwear.

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Established 2014
810K Members

Community Topics

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Subreddit Analysis

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Yearly: +180K members
Growth: +28.5% / year

Member growth over time

All time (yearly)

  • 2015: 39 members
  • 2016: 270 members
  • 2017: 2K members
  • 2018: 2K members
  • 2019: 3K members
  • 2020: 17K members
  • 2021: 26K members
  • 2023: 11K members
  • 2024: 161K members
  • 2025: 512K members
  • 2026: 76K members

Past year (monthly)

  • Jul: 17K members
  • Aug: 16K members
  • Sep: 18K members
  • Oct: 9K members
  • Nov: 17K members
  • Dec: 19K members
  • Jan: 22K members
  • Feb: 11K members
  • Mar: 16K members
  • Apr: 12K members
  • May: 11K members
  • Jun: 3K members

Topics

  • Relationship
    115 posts in the past month
    #1
    Relationship
    115
  • Dating
    75 posts in the past month
    #2
    Dating
    75
  • Relationships
    46 posts in the past month
    #3
    Relationships
    46
  • Sex
    33 posts in the past month
    #4
    Sex
    33
  • Struggling
    31 posts in the past month
    #5
    Struggling
    31

Flair

  • ✅ Open To Everyone
    160 posts in the past month
    1. Girlfriend of 4 years suddenly believes men should pay more and admitted she's 'accepting' me as a compromise. Would you break up?
    2. My girlfriend wants a threesome with a woman - how to proceed carefully?
    3. Wife visited her ex. Did she cheat?
    #1
    ✅ Open To Everyone
    Girlfriend of 4 years suddenly believes men should pay more and admitted she's 'accepting' me as a compromise. Would you break up? · My girlfriend wants a threesome with a woman - how to proceed carefully? · Wife visited her ex. Did she cheat?
    160
  • Men’s Input Only
    40 posts in the past month
    1. Wife revealed several things that still sting, how should I get past it?
    2. I'm 38, single no kids. I've been told that men my age wont be interested in me now because they can have younger girls & my fertility window is nearly closed. Is this true? The main consensus?
    3. Saw a naughty message on my husband's phone, do I confront him?
    #2
    Men’s Input Only
    Wife revealed several things that still sting, how should I get past it? · I'm 38, single no kids. I've been told that men my age wont be interested in me now because they can have younger girls & my fertility window is nearly closed. Is this true? The main consensus? · Saw a naughty message on my husband's phone, do I confront him?
    40

Product recommendations

  • razor
    3 posts in the past month
    1. What should I look for in an electronic razor, and what brand would you recommend?
    2. Please recommend a Reasonable razor blade/shaver?
    3. What razor you recommend for someone who has to shave a couple times a week?
    #1
    razor
    What should I look for in an electronic razor, and what brand would you recommend? · Please recommend a Reasonable razor blade/shaver? · What razor you recommend for someone who has to shave a couple times a week?
    3
  • beard trimmer
    2 posts in the past month
    1. Hey guys, can you recommend a good beard trimmer?
    2. What beard trimmers do you recommend and why?
    #2
    beard trimmer
    Hey guys, can you recommend a good beard trimmer? · What beard trimmers do you recommend and why?
    2
  • underwear
    2 posts in the past month
    1. Can anyone recommend underwear for well-endowed men?
    2. What underwear do you recommend?
    #3
    underwear
    Can anyone recommend underwear for well-endowed men? · What underwear do you recommend?
    2
  • workout routine
    2 posts in the past month
    1. Can anyone recommend a new workout routine for someone looking to switch things up?
    2. Can anyone recommend a new workout routine for someone looking to switch things up?
    #4
    workout routine
    Can anyone recommend a new workout routine for someone looking to switch things up? · Can anyone recommend a new workout routine for someone looking to switch things up?
    2
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Frequently asked questions

Who is r/AskMenAdvice for?
Best for Relationships enthusiasts looking for a Reddit-based community with forum discussion.
Is r/AskMenAdvice free to join?
This listing is not marked as paid-only. Access rules and any fees are decided by the community.
How many members does r/AskMenAdvice have?
Roughly 810K members, based on figures reported by the community or its host. Member counts are approximate and change over time.
What platform is r/AskMenAdvice on?
r/AskMenAdvice runs on Reddit. Reddit communities (or "subreddits") are forum-based groups on the popular social news aggregation, web content rating, and discussion website Reddit. Reddit is commonly known as "the front page of the internet". Users submit content to the site such as links, text posts, and images, which are then voted up or down and discussed by other members. From investing Reddit communities, to professional ones, to ones just for laughs, you're likely to find a community for you on Reddit.
What topics does r/AskMenAdvice cover?
On the Hive Index, r/AskMenAdvice is organized under Relationships.
How do I join r/AskMenAdvice?
You can join r/AskMenAdvice by clicking this link, or pressing the "Go to community" button above.
What are the Relationships communities like?
Communities for people navigating dating, partnerships, marriage, and the dynamics of personal relationships. Reddit has the largest and most active communities here, spanning advice for long-distance couples, relationship challenges, and general discussion about dating and love, with some Discord servers for more real-time conversation.
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