17 Online Communities for Lesbians
Updated 7/30/2026
r/latebloomerlesbians
on reddit
Some of us are married to men, some of us are dating them, and some of us are chronically single. But we well have one thing in common: we are late to the coming out game. A place for queer, gay, bi, pan, lesbian, trans and questioning humans to share, give advice, and receive support! We welcome discussions that explore what life looks like or could look like as a “late bloomer” lesbian. This includes talk around sexuality, sensuality, life, friendships, random thoughts, fun, and more.142K members
ForumChat111 views / month

r/olderlesbians
on reddit
An inclusive place for Older Lesbians to talk about issues important to us, dispense wisdom and swap stories.12K members
Forum26 views / month

r/ActualLesbiansOver25
on reddit
We're lesbians over 25 who felt like the sub r/ActualLesbians was excellent, inclusive of all WLW, did a good job of enforcing no TERFs, & wanted to replicate that for the 25+ crowd. Simply put, WLW life in adulthood is much different, and as much as we're a part of r/ActualLesbians, we wanted a space where WLW 25+ can discuss more specific 25+ things separate from teens or the younger crowd. We do NOT tolerate TERFs, anti-trans rhetoric, or any form of bigotry.53K members
Forum22 views / month

r/actuallesbians
on reddit
/r/actuallesbians — a place for cis and trans lesbians, bisexual girls, chicks who like chicks, bi-curious folks, dykes, butches, femmes, girls who kiss girls, birls, bois, aces, anyone in the LGBT+ community, or anyone else interested! We're not a militant or exclusive group, feel free to join up!657K members
Forum16 views / month
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Autostraddle
A news and entertainment site for LGBTQ+ women and other trans people. Covers dating, fashion, politics, television, film and whimsy with a thriving online community of smart, engaged queer folks.Forum10 views / month

r/LesbianGamers
on reddit
A place for gaming discussions for and by lesbians, bisexual women, and transfemme non-binary people. This subreddit is not for discussing men. There are places for that. This community is for discussions centered around our attraction to women as women and gaming! We are currently not accepting minors as members of the community due to our safety concerns about Reddit.115K members
Forum21 views / month

r/lesbiangang
on reddit
A safe place for all lesbians to be themselves! Just as all other sexualities have their own personalized subreddits, lesbians deserve their own cozy little corner of the internet to be safe from lesbophobia and to share in our unique experiences! Please be sure to be respectful and to take a look at the rules. Enjoy your stay!25K members
Forum13 views / month

r/lesbian
on reddit
This is a place for lesbian interests such as all things U-Haul and nothing else. This community is for lesbians aged 18+.127K members
Forum13 views / month
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SHOE Lesbian Community
The international social networking site made by lesbians. Create your own profile, upload photos, videos and playlists, write blogs, chat with others, and browse lesbian personals. 100% girl powered!513K members
ForumChat11 views / month
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LesbianEarth
Real community for Lesbian+ and Queer Women. Events, friendship, culture, connection. Online and in person from Albuquerque to beyond. Retreats, music nights, speed friending, hikes, and community events.ForumEvents8 views / month

r/LesbianActually
on reddit
Lesbian Actually is a place to discuss WLW life and culture.389K members
Forum7 views / month

r/lesbianfashionadvice
on reddit
A place to discuss Sapphic fashion! Masculine, feminine, anything in between-- for all queer women, this is the place.117K members
Forum6 views / month

r/WLW
on reddit
A text-only, discussion-focused subreddit for women loving women.42K members
Forum6 views / month

r/LesbianBookClub
on reddit
Books! Everyone interested in Lesbian Books is welcome here. Book recommendations, discussions, and reviews are welcome. Posting to promote your group, book, or subreddit is allowed once every month. Promotional posts may be removed at the moderators discretion.78K members
Forum11 views / month

r/Actuallylesbian
on reddit
AyL is a discussion based community focused on the L in LGBT+.26K members
Forum7 views / month

r/dykesgonemild
on reddit
A place to post SFW pictures of ourselves.84K members
Forum11 views / month
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Lesbian Connection Magazine
The free worldwide forum of news and ideas for, by and about lesbians. Operating since 1974. A pay-what-you-can magazine and community connecting lesbians globally.Forum33 views / month
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