About r/lesbianfashionadvice
A place to discuss Sapphic fashion! Masculine, feminine, anything in between-- for all queer women, this is the place.
The community at a glance
r/lesbianfashionadvice is a Subreddit for Lesbians with roughly 117K members. It uses a forum format for communication. On the Hive Index it ranks #9 in the Lesbian communities list.
Roughly 11K members have joined in the past year. Popular discussion topics include Looking For, Struggling With, and Style. Common discussion themes are Advice Requests and Solution Requests. Product recommendations often mention jewelry, shoes, and button down shirts.
Community Topics
Community Features
This community has a forum
Subreddit Analysis
via GummySearchMember growth over time
All time (yearly)
- 2013: 509 members
- 2014: 481 members
- 2015: 569 members
- 2016: 450 members
- 2017: 1K members
- 2018: 5K members
- 2019: 11K members
- 2020: 8K members
- 2021: 7K members
- 2022: 9K members
- 2024: 57K members
- 2025: 9K members
- 2026: 7K members
Past year (monthly)
- Aug: 818 members
- Sep: 493 members
- Oct: 579 members
- Nov: 926 members
- Dec: 1K members
- Jan: 1K members
- Feb: 870 members
- Mar: 1K members
- Apr: 926 members
- May: 978 members
- Jun: 1K members
- Jul: 738 members
Themes
- Advice Requests15 posts in the past month
- Dress Keyhole
- trying something new...
- Suited lesbians, I beseech ye. Is this fit the best I can hope for with my proportions?
#115Advice RequestsDress Keyhole · trying something new... · Suited lesbians, I beseech ye. Is this fit the best I can hope for with my proportions? - Solution Requests7 posts in the past month
- Help me find my GF her perfect formal dress!!!
- Hi! Looking for US based brands for fun swimwear with options for shorts
- In love with these floral hoops! Where can I find more cute indie earrings like this?
#27Solution RequestsHelp me find my GF her perfect formal dress!!! · Hi! Looking for US based brands for fun swimwear with options for shorts · In love with these floral hoops! Where can I find more cute indie earrings like this? - Ideas1 post in the past month
- Casually building world suppression plans in sandals
#31IdeasCasually building world suppression plans in sandals
Topics
- Looking For35 posts in the past month#135Looking For
- Struggling With13 posts in the past month#213Struggling With
- Style11 posts in the past month#311Style
- Outfit10 posts in the past month#410Outfit
- Haircut7 posts in the past month#57Haircut
Flair
- OOTD40 posts in the past month
- Nothing like an old pair of Levi’s to make my lil butt look cute 😎
- I became a dad this month. Dressing a bit more like a parent
- Pride parade w friends hehe
#140OOTDNothing like an old pair of Levi’s to make my lil butt look cute 😎 · I became a dad this month. Dressing a bit more like a parent · Pride parade w friends hehe - Honest Advice Wanted34 posts in the past month
- I was at work today and my gaydar was going off with this one girl, do yall think she also clocked me that I am gay?
- This weeks fits 👀
- This jacket does some heavy lifting for most of my fits
#234Honest Advice WantedI was at work today and my gaydar was going off with this one girl, do yall think she also clocked me that I am gay? · This weeks fits 👀 · This jacket does some heavy lifting for most of my fits - Discussion15 posts in the past month
- Yay or nay on this dress?
- Transphobia in here?
- I recently made this skirt from an old bedsheet, does it work with styling like this?
#315DiscussionYay or nay on this dress? · Transphobia in here? · I recently made this skirt from an old bedsheet, does it work with styling like this? - Hair10 posts in the past month
- Curls and allll
- I literally could've kissed my hairstylist earlier
- I finally went platinum blonde, and I'm so glad I did 😊
#410HairCurls and allll · I literally could've kissed my hairstylist earlier · I finally went platinum blonde, and I'm so glad I did 😊 - Other3 posts in the past month
- Can I find such a top somewhere?
- Simple way to style with this jacket?
- Help! Good looking women's work trousers.
#53OtherCan I find such a top somewhere? · Simple way to style with this jacket? · Help! Good looking women's work trousers.
Product recommendations
- jewelry5 posts in the past month
- The best jewelry
- The best jewelry
- Jewelry Recs
#15jewelryThe best jewelry · The best jewelry · Jewelry Recs - shoes5 posts in the past month
- What shoes/runners would go best with this type of fit?
- Attended a wedding yesterday with my girlfriend, in LOVE with my shoes. Tomboytoes 10/10, highly recommend.
- Help? Shoe recs
#25shoesWhat shoes/runners would go best with this type of fit? · Attended a wedding yesterday with my girlfriend, in LOVE with my shoes. Tomboytoes 10/10, highly recommend. · Help? Shoe recs - button down shirts4 posts in the past month
- Best button down summer shirts for masc lesbians
- Can y’all recommend good places to buy button ups? This is my only cool one & I’m getting sick of it.
- Recs for long-sleeve button-ups?
#34button down shirtsBest button down summer shirts for masc lesbians · Can y’all recommend good places to buy button ups? This is my only cool one & I’m getting sick of it. · Recs for long-sleeve button-ups? - swimsuits3 posts in the past month
- One piece swimsuit recs
- masc/nb lesbian bathing suit recs
- Swimsuit recs?
#43swimsuitsOne piece swimsuit recs · masc/nb lesbian bathing suit recs · Swimsuit recs? - suits2 posts in the past month
- Suits in the UK. Looking for something along these lines for a friends wedding. Where is affordable that you can recommend? Would prefer an actual shop than online. Thanks!
- Suit shopping recs
#52suitsSuits in the UK. Looking for something along these lines for a friends wedding. Where is affordable that you can recommend? Would prefer an actual shop than online. Thanks! · Suit shopping recs
Frequently asked questions
- Who is r/lesbianfashionadvice for?
- Best for Lesbians enthusiasts looking for a Reddit-based community with forum discussion.
- Is r/lesbianfashionadvice free to join?
- This listing is not marked as paid-only. Access rules and any fees are decided by the community.
- How many members does r/lesbianfashionadvice have?
- Roughly 117K members, based on figures reported by the community or its host. Member counts are approximate and change over time.
- What platform is r/lesbianfashionadvice on?
- r/lesbianfashionadvice runs on Reddit. Reddit communities (or "subreddits") are forum-based groups on the popular social news aggregation, web content rating, and discussion website Reddit. Reddit is commonly known as "the front page of the internet". Users submit content to the site such as links, text posts, and images, which are then voted up or down and discussed by other members. From investing Reddit communities, to professional ones, to ones just for laughs, you're likely to find a community for you on Reddit.
- What topics does r/lesbianfashionadvice cover?
- On the Hive Index, r/lesbianfashionadvice is organized under Lesbians.
- How do I join r/lesbianfashionadvice?
- You can join r/lesbianfashionadvice by clicking this link, or pressing the "Go to community" button above.
- What are the Lesbian communities like?
- Communities for lesbian and sapphic women covering social connection, dating, identity, and interests. Discord servers and subreddits provide spaces for general chat, dating advice, cultural discussion, and support, with communities ranging from casual social to interest-specific like gaming, books, and fitness.
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