About r/lesbianfashionadvice
A place to discuss Sapphic fashion! Masculine, feminine, anything in between-- for all queer women, this is the place.
The community at a glance
r/lesbianfashionadvice is a Subreddit for Lesbians with roughly 120K members. It uses a forum format for communication. On the Hive Index it ranks #8 in the Lesbian communities list.
Roughly 12K members have joined in the past year. Popular discussion topics include Fashion, Style, and Looking For. Common discussion themes are Advice Requests and Solution Requests. Product recommendations often mention jewelry, shoes, and button down shirts.
Community Topics
Community Features
This community has a forum
Subreddit Analysis
via GummySearchMember growth over time
All time (yearly)
- 2013: 509 members
- 2014: 481 members
- 2015: 569 members
- 2016: 450 members
- 2017: 1K members
- 2018: 5K members
- 2019: 11K members
- 2020: 8K members
- 2021: 7K members
- 2022: 9K members
- 2024: 57K members
- 2025: 9K members
- 2026: 10K members
Past year (monthly)
- Dec: 1K members
- Jan: 1K members
- Feb: 870 members
- Mar: 1K members
- Apr: 926 members
- May: 978 members
- Jun: 1K members
- Jul: 769 members
- Aug: 868 members
- Sep: 1K members
- Oct: 840 members
- Nov: 293 members
Themes
- Advice Requests9 posts in the past month
- Date Night Makeup and Outfit
- Best places to shop for this suit vibe?
- Shoes: comfortable for walking long distances, understated, appropriate for office and casual use?
#19Advice RequestsDate Night Makeup and Outfit · Best places to shop for this suit vibe? · Shoes: comfortable for walking long distances, understated, appropriate for office and casual use? - Solution Requests3 posts in the past month
- For the office sapphics: I'm in search of professional shoes
- Help finding these pants for my girlfriend 🥹💕
- Seeking bra recommendations
#23Solution RequestsFor the office sapphics: I'm in search of professional shoes · Help finding these pants for my girlfriend 🥹💕 · Seeking bra recommendations - Ideas1 post in the past month
- I want to incorporate my split-dye into a Halloween costume! Give me ideas? Ideally concepts over specific characters
#31IdeasI want to incorporate my split-dye into a Halloween costume! Give me ideas? Ideally concepts over specific characters
Topics
- Fashion51 posts in the past month
- Thank you for all your fashion advice the other day !
#151FashionThank you for all your fashion advice the other day ! - Style36 posts in the past month
- Trying to find my style somewhere between femme and masc — any tips?
- Changes in style as aging
#236StyleTrying to find my style somewhere between femme and masc — any tips? · Changes in style as aging - Looking For33 posts in the past month#333Looking For
- Outfit30 posts in the past month
- Date Night Makeup and Outfit
- Outfits of the weak
- Last hoco outfit inspo help
#430OutfitDate Night Makeup and Outfit · Outfits of the weak · Last hoco outfit inspo help - Struggling With12 posts in the past month#512Struggling With
Flair
- OOTD33 posts in the past month
- Masc suit wedding guest attire
- Gaining Confidence
- posting this jacket here too because it goes hard
#133OOTDMasc suit wedding guest attire · Gaining Confidence · posting this jacket here too because it goes hard - Honest Advice Wanted20 posts in the past month
- Going to a sapphic Halloween party - do you think anyone would know who I am?
- A baby butch finally independent and trying to find something Radically. Damn. Gay
- Giving part of my Halloween costume a test run. Never worn anything like this before in public, especially as an AMAB person...
#220Honest Advice WantedGoing to a sapphic Halloween party - do you think anyone would know who I am? · A baby butch finally independent and trying to find something Radically. Damn. Gay · Giving part of my Halloween costume a test run. Never worn anything like this before in public, especially as an AMAB person... - Discussion6 posts in the past month
- Trying to find my style somewhere between femme and masc — any tips?
- Lost a bunch of weight now having issues finding shirts and tanks
- Best places to shop for this suit vibe?
#36DiscussionTrying to find my style somewhere between femme and masc — any tips? · Lost a bunch of weight now having issues finding shirts and tanks · Best places to shop for this suit vibe? - Hair5 posts in the past month
- I did it!
- new haircut! (+ fit pic)
- Does this cut suit me?
#45HairI did it! · new haircut! (+ fit pic) · Does this cut suit me? - Other3 posts in the past month
- Thrifted these spiral loafers! I can’t wait to style them!! 🌀
- Help finding these pants for my girlfriend 🥹💕
- Obsession..
#53OtherThrifted these spiral loafers! I can’t wait to style them!! 🌀 · Help finding these pants for my girlfriend 🥹💕 · Obsession..
Product recommendations
- jewelry5 posts in the past month
- The best jewelry
- The best jewelry
- Jewelry Recs
#15jewelryThe best jewelry · The best jewelry · Jewelry Recs - shoes5 posts in the past month
- What shoes/runners would go best with this type of fit?
- Attended a wedding yesterday with my girlfriend, in LOVE with my shoes. Tomboytoes 10/10, highly recommend.
- Help? Shoe recs
#25shoesWhat shoes/runners would go best with this type of fit? · Attended a wedding yesterday with my girlfriend, in LOVE with my shoes. Tomboytoes 10/10, highly recommend. · Help? Shoe recs - button down shirts4 posts in the past month
- Best button down summer shirts for masc lesbians
- Can y’all recommend good places to buy button ups? This is my only cool one & I’m getting sick of it.
- Recs for long-sleeve button-ups?
#34button down shirtsBest button down summer shirts for masc lesbians · Can y’all recommend good places to buy button ups? This is my only cool one & I’m getting sick of it. · Recs for long-sleeve button-ups? - swimsuits3 posts in the past month
- One piece swimsuit recs
- masc/nb lesbian bathing suit recs
- Swimsuit recs?
#43swimsuitsOne piece swimsuit recs · masc/nb lesbian bathing suit recs · Swimsuit recs? - suits2 posts in the past month
- Suits in the UK. Looking for something along these lines for a friends wedding. Where is affordable that you can recommend? Would prefer an actual shop than online. Thanks!
- Suit shopping recs
#52suitsSuits in the UK. Looking for something along these lines for a friends wedding. Where is affordable that you can recommend? Would prefer an actual shop than online. Thanks! · Suit shopping recs
Frequently asked questions
- Who is r/lesbianfashionadvice for?
- Best for Lesbians enthusiasts looking for a Reddit-based community with forum discussion.
- Is r/lesbianfashionadvice free to join?
- This listing is not marked as paid-only. Access rules and any fees are decided by the community.
- How many members does r/lesbianfashionadvice have?
- Roughly 120K members, based on figures reported by the community or its host. Member counts are approximate and change over time.
- What platform is r/lesbianfashionadvice on?
- r/lesbianfashionadvice runs on Reddit. Reddit communities (or "subreddits") are forum-based groups on the popular social news aggregation, web content rating, and discussion website Reddit. Reddit is commonly known as "the front page of the internet". Users submit content to the site such as links, text posts, and images, which are then voted up or down and discussed by other members. From investing Reddit communities, to professional ones, to ones just for laughs, you're likely to find a community for you on Reddit.
- What topics does r/lesbianfashionadvice cover?
- On the Hive Index, r/lesbianfashionadvice is organized under Lesbians.
- How do I join r/lesbianfashionadvice?
- You can join r/lesbianfashionadvice by clicking this link, or pressing the "Go to community" button above.
- What are the Lesbian communities like?
- Communities for lesbian and sapphic women covering social connection, dating, identity, and interests. Discord servers and subreddits provide spaces for general chat, dating advice, cultural discussion, and support, with communities ranging from casual social to interest-specific like gaming, books, and fitness.
Monthly Stats
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- Views /mo (+29%)
- 7
- Visitors /mo (0%)
- 2
- Referrals /mo
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