About r/lesbianfashionadvice
A place to discuss Sapphic fashion! Masculine, feminine, anything in between-- for all queer women, this is the place.
The community at a glance
r/lesbianfashionadvice is a Subreddit for Lesbians with roughly 117K members. It uses a forum format for communication. It is the 6th largest community in the Lesbian topic page.
Roughly 11K members have joined in the past year. Popular discussion topics include Looking For, Struggling With, and Style. Common discussion themes are Advice Requests and Solution Requests. Product recommendations often mention jewelry, shoes, and button down shirts.
Community Topics
Community Features
This community has a forum
Subreddit Analysis
via GummySearchMember growth over time
All time (yearly)
- 2013: 509 members
- 2014: 481 members
- 2015: 569 members
- 2016: 450 members
- 2017: 1K members
- 2018: 5K members
- 2019: 11K members
- 2020: 8K members
- 2021: 7K members
- 2022: 9K members
- 2024: 57K members
- 2025: 9K members
- 2026: 7K members
Past year (monthly)
- Sep: 493 members
- Oct: 579 members
- Nov: 926 members
- Dec: 1K members
- Jan: 1K members
- Feb: 870 members
- Mar: 1K members
- Apr: 926 members
- May: 978 members
- Jun: 1K members
- Jul: 769 members
- Aug: 478 members
Themes
- Advice Requests17 posts in the past month
- Urgent help: Pride outfit for tmr?
- How can I be more comfortable wearing the clothes I like and not worry about being seen as a man as much?
- I don’t wear dresses often, how can I style this? Should I accept that this piece just isn’t for me?
#117Advice RequestsUrgent help: Pride outfit for tmr? · How can I be more comfortable wearing the clothes I like and not worry about being seen as a man as much? · I don’t wear dresses often, how can I style this? Should I accept that this piece just isn’t for me? - Solution Requests2 posts in the past month
- Help me find my GF her perfect formal dress!!!
- Need help finding blazers/suits in the UK
#22Solution RequestsHelp me find my GF her perfect formal dress!!! · Need help finding blazers/suits in the UK
Topics
- Looking For35 posts in the past month#135Looking For
- Struggling With13 posts in the past month#213Struggling With
- Style11 posts in the past month#311Style
- Outfit10 posts in the past month#410Outfit
- Haircut7 posts in the past month#57Haircut
Flair
- OOTD47 posts in the past month
- coming out to myself has upped my style game dramatically
- Went for a tropical look for my bestie b day how I do yall
- Just 1 of the millions of Spider-Man Mascs 🕸️
#147OOTDcoming out to myself has upped my style game dramatically · Went for a tropical look for my bestie b day how I do yall · Just 1 of the millions of Spider-Man Mascs 🕸️ - Honest Advice Wanted30 posts in the past month
- Are hip/drop leg bags like this cringe or suspicious for an outdoorsy butch?
- Lesbian trans women fashion
- This weeks fits 👀
#230Honest Advice WantedAre hip/drop leg bags like this cringe or suspicious for an outdoorsy butch? · Lesbian trans women fashion · This weeks fits 👀 - Hair7 posts in the past month
- I literally could've kissed my hairstylist earlier
- I finally went platinum blonde, and I'm so glad I did 😊
- Unhappy abt hair?
#37HairI literally could've kissed my hairstylist earlier · I finally went platinum blonde, and I'm so glad I did 😊 · Unhappy abt hair? - Discussion5 posts in the past month
- So TERFs just spend all day monitoring Lesbian subreddits for any post by a trans person to downvote it?
- Which swimsuit looks the best?
- Favorite tank tops?
#45DiscussionSo TERFs just spend all day monitoring Lesbian subreddits for any post by a trans person to downvote it? · Which swimsuit looks the best? · Favorite tank tops? - Positive Comments Only3 posts in the past month
- Sapphic Gym Fit
- I mostly use dark colors because I don't dare to wear lighter ones
- I guess purple with black goes well ?
#53Positive Comments OnlySapphic Gym Fit · I mostly use dark colors because I don't dare to wear lighter ones · I guess purple with black goes well ?
Product recommendations
- jewelry5 posts in the past month
- The best jewelry
- The best jewelry
- Jewelry Recs
#15jewelryThe best jewelry · The best jewelry · Jewelry Recs - shoes5 posts in the past month
- What shoes/runners would go best with this type of fit?
- Attended a wedding yesterday with my girlfriend, in LOVE with my shoes. Tomboytoes 10/10, highly recommend.
- Help? Shoe recs
#25shoesWhat shoes/runners would go best with this type of fit? · Attended a wedding yesterday with my girlfriend, in LOVE with my shoes. Tomboytoes 10/10, highly recommend. · Help? Shoe recs - button down shirts4 posts in the past month
- Best button down summer shirts for masc lesbians
- Can y’all recommend good places to buy button ups? This is my only cool one & I’m getting sick of it.
- Recs for long-sleeve button-ups?
#34button down shirtsBest button down summer shirts for masc lesbians · Can y’all recommend good places to buy button ups? This is my only cool one & I’m getting sick of it. · Recs for long-sleeve button-ups? - swimsuits3 posts in the past month
- One piece swimsuit recs
- masc/nb lesbian bathing suit recs
- Swimsuit recs?
#43swimsuitsOne piece swimsuit recs · masc/nb lesbian bathing suit recs · Swimsuit recs? - suits2 posts in the past month
- Suits in the UK. Looking for something along these lines for a friends wedding. Where is affordable that you can recommend? Would prefer an actual shop than online. Thanks!
- Suit shopping recs
#52suitsSuits in the UK. Looking for something along these lines for a friends wedding. Where is affordable that you can recommend? Would prefer an actual shop than online. Thanks! · Suit shopping recs
Frequently asked questions
- Who is r/lesbianfashionadvice for?
- Best for Lesbians enthusiasts looking for a Reddit-based community with forum discussion.
- Is r/lesbianfashionadvice free to join?
- This listing is not marked as paid-only. Access rules and any fees are decided by the community.
- How many members does r/lesbianfashionadvice have?
- Roughly 117K members, based on figures reported by the community or its host. Member counts are approximate and change over time.
- What platform is r/lesbianfashionadvice on?
- r/lesbianfashionadvice runs on Reddit. Reddit communities (or "subreddits") are forum-based groups on the popular social news aggregation, web content rating, and discussion website Reddit. Reddit is commonly known as "the front page of the internet". Users submit content to the site such as links, text posts, and images, which are then voted up or down and discussed by other members. From investing Reddit communities, to professional ones, to ones just for laughs, you're likely to find a community for you on Reddit.
- What topics does r/lesbianfashionadvice cover?
- On the Hive Index, r/lesbianfashionadvice is organized under Lesbians.
- How do I join r/lesbianfashionadvice?
- You can join r/lesbianfashionadvice by clicking this link, or pressing the "Go to community" button above.
- What are the Lesbian communities like?
- Communities for lesbian and sapphic women covering social connection, dating, identity, and interests. Discord servers and subreddits provide spaces for general chat, dating advice, cultural discussion, and support, with communities ranging from casual social to interest-specific like gaming, books, and fitness.
Monthly Stats
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