r/actuallesbians

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About r/actuallesbians

/r/actuallesbians — a place for cis and trans lesbians, bisexual girls, chicks who like chicks, bi-curious folks, dykes, butches, femmes, girls who kiss girls, birls, bois, aces, anyone in the LGBT+ community, or anyone else interested! We're not a militant or exclusive group, feel free to join up!

The community at a glance

r/actuallesbians is a Subreddit for Lesbians with roughly 657K members. It uses a forum format for communication. On the Hive Index it ranks #4 in the Lesbian communities list.

Roughly 79K members have joined in the past year. Popular discussion topics include Lesbian, Looking For A, and Struggling. Product recommendations often mention book recs.

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657K Members

Community Topics

Community Features

Forum

This community has a forum

Subreddit Analysis

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Yearly: +79K members
Growth: +13.7% / year

Member growth over time

All time (yearly)

  • 2013: 12K members
  • 2014: 12K members
  • 2015: 9K members
  • 2016: 17K members
  • 2017: 22K members
  • 2020: 216K members
  • 2021: 75K members
  • 2023: 121K members
  • 2024: 54K members
  • 2025: 44K members
  • 2026: 61K members

Past year (monthly)

  • Sep: 3K members
  • Oct: 2K members
  • Nov: 5K members
  • Dec: 6K members
  • Jan: 7K members
  • Feb: 7K members
  • Mar: 8K members
  • Apr: 8K members
  • May: 9K members
  • Jun: 8K members
  • Jul: 8K members
  • Aug: 5K members

Topics

  • Lesbian
    89 posts in the past month
    #1
    Lesbian
    89
  • Looking For A
    43 posts in the past month
    #2
    Looking For A
    43
  • Struggling
    39 posts in the past month
    #3
    Struggling
    39
  • Relationship
    36 posts in the past month
    #4
    Relationship
    36
  • Dating
    26 posts in the past month
    #5
    Dating
    26

Flair

  • Question
    8 posts in the past month
    1. Meeting other wlw
    2. Any wlw book recommendations? :}
    3. Is it more comfortable to wear mens boxers or boxers designed for women?
    #1
    Question
    Meeting other wlw · Any wlw book recommendations? :} · Is it more comfortable to wear mens boxers or boxers designed for women?
    8
  • Link
    5 posts in the past month
    1. what does this mean
    2. Ali, 27F 🇵🇭 | Bi 💗💜💙 Here to meet new people, have good conversations, and see where things go. I’m into music, travel, and late-night talks.
    3. I don't usually make posts, but I'm struggling.
    #2
    Link
    what does this mean · Ali, 27F 🇵🇭 | Bi 💗💜💙 Here to meet new people, have good conversations, and see where things go. I’m into music, travel, and late-night talks. · I don't usually make posts, but I'm struggling.
    5
  • Satire/Humor
    4 posts in the past month
    1. Lesbian cars?
    2. ❤️‍🔥32f SoCal tipsy ❤️‍🔥
    3. End me
    #3
    Satire/Humor
    Lesbian cars? · ❤️‍🔥32f SoCal tipsy ❤️‍🔥 · End me
    4
  • Image
    3 posts in the past month
    1. Lesbian beer! Les-beer-an! 🍻
    2. All the time.
    3. Heading to P Town today
    #4
    Image
    Lesbian beer! Les-beer-an! 🍻 · All the time. · Heading to P Town today
    3
  • Support
    3 posts in the past month
    1. Trans isolation in a s e asian chat with only friends I have
    2. What do you wear on a first date?
    3. This homoerotic friendship is killing me 😭😭😭😭
    #5
    Support
    Trans isolation in a s e asian chat with only friends I have · What do you wear on a first date? · This homoerotic friendship is killing me 😭😭😭😭
    3

Product recommendations

  • book recs
    6 posts in the past month
    1. Can anyone recommend sapphic romance books?
    2. Book recs?
    3. Book recs
    #1
    book recs
    Can anyone recommend sapphic romance books? · Book recs? · Book recs
    6
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Frequently asked questions

Who is r/actuallesbians for?
Best for Lesbians enthusiasts looking for a Reddit-based community with forum discussion.
Is r/actuallesbians free to join?
This listing is not marked as paid-only. Access rules and any fees are decided by the community.
How many members does r/actuallesbians have?
Roughly 657K members, based on figures reported by the community or its host. Member counts are approximate and change over time.
What platform is r/actuallesbians on?
r/actuallesbians runs on Reddit. Reddit communities (or "subreddits") are forum-based groups on the popular social news aggregation, web content rating, and discussion website Reddit. Reddit is commonly known as "the front page of the internet". Users submit content to the site such as links, text posts, and images, which are then voted up or down and discussed by other members. From investing Reddit communities, to professional ones, to ones just for laughs, you're likely to find a community for you on Reddit.
What topics does r/actuallesbians cover?
On the Hive Index, r/actuallesbians is organized under Lesbians.
How do I join r/actuallesbians?
You can join r/actuallesbians by clicking this link, or pressing the "Go to community" button above.
What are the Lesbian communities like?
Communities for lesbian and sapphic women covering social connection, dating, identity, and interests. Discord servers and subreddits provide spaces for general chat, dating advice, cultural discussion, and support, with communities ranging from casual social to interest-specific like gaming, books, and fitness.
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