About r/actuallesbians
/r/actuallesbians — a place for cis and trans lesbians, bisexual girls, chicks who like chicks, bi-curious folks, dykes, butches, femmes, girls who kiss girls, birls, bois, aces, anyone in the LGBT+ community, or anyone else interested! We're not a militant or exclusive group, feel free to join up!
The community at a glance
r/actuallesbians is a Subreddit for Lesbians with roughly 673K members. It uses a forum format for communication. On the Hive Index it ranks #4 in the Lesbian communities list.
Roughly 89K members have joined in the past year. Popular discussion topics include Lesbian, Looking For A, and Struggling. Product recommendations often mention book recs.
Community Topics
Community Features
This community has a forum
Subreddit Analysis
via GummySearchMember growth over time
All time (yearly)
- 2013: 12K members
- 2014: 12K members
- 2015: 9K members
- 2016: 17K members
- 2017: 22K members
- 2020: 216K members
- 2021: 75K members
- 2023: 121K members
- 2024: 54K members
- 2025: 44K members
- 2026: 77K members
Past year (monthly)
- Nov: 5K members
- Dec: 6K members
- Jan: 7K members
- Feb: 7K members
- Mar: 8K members
- Apr: 8K members
- May: 9K members
- Jun: 8K members
- Jul: 8K members
- Aug: 8K members
- Sep: 7K members
- Oct: 5K members
Topics
- Lesbian89 posts in the past month#189Lesbian
- Looking For A43 posts in the past month#243Looking For A
- Struggling39 posts in the past month#339Struggling
- Relationship36 posts in the past month#436Relationship
- Dating26 posts in the past month#526Dating
Flair
- Image22 posts in the past month
- risqué kiss cam
- Girlfriends way of flirting 😂
- I love tits sm
#122Imagerisqué kiss cam · Girlfriends way of flirting 😂 · I love tits sm - Question19 posts in the past month
- Anyone know anything about this new anime? It looks hella gay but anime tends to be deceiving/disappointing
- rate my dating profile(s)?
- Would you date some one with little experiance?
#219QuestionAnyone know anything about this new anime? It looks hella gay but anime tends to be deceiving/disappointing · rate my dating profile(s)? · Would you date some one with little experiance? - Link9 posts in the past month
- Your BG3 Girlfriend Says A LOT About You! - by Sappho The Witch
- Stunt woman and athlete Relna Brewer Mcrea, 1946. (I *need* more small, mighty brats!)
- Attracted to Women, or Just One Woman?
#39LinkYour BG3 Girlfriend Says A LOT About You! - by Sappho The Witch · Stunt woman and athlete Relna Brewer Mcrea, 1946. (I *need* more small, mighty brats!) · Attracted to Women, or Just One Woman? - Venting6 posts in the past month
- Butch Rant
- 🛐
- Was it casual when
#46VentingButch Rant · 🛐 · Was it casual when - Support6 posts in the past month
- I think I have a new crush
- tales of a lonely queer in delaware
- Does anyone on here has gaps in their teeth?!
#56SupportI think I have a new crush · tales of a lonely queer in delaware · Does anyone on here has gaps in their teeth?!
Product recommendations
- book recs6 posts in the past month
- Can anyone recommend sapphic romance books?
- Book recs?
- Book recs
#16book recsCan anyone recommend sapphic romance books? · Book recs? · Book recs
Community Reviews
Frequently asked questions
- Who is r/actuallesbians for?
- Best for Lesbians enthusiasts looking for a Reddit-based community with forum discussion.
- Is r/actuallesbians free to join?
- This listing is not marked as paid-only. Access rules and any fees are decided by the community.
- How many members does r/actuallesbians have?
- Roughly 673K members, based on figures reported by the community or its host. Member counts are approximate and change over time.
- What platform is r/actuallesbians on?
- r/actuallesbians runs on Reddit. Reddit communities (or "subreddits") are forum-based groups on the popular social news aggregation, web content rating, and discussion website Reddit. Reddit is commonly known as "the front page of the internet". Users submit content to the site such as links, text posts, and images, which are then voted up or down and discussed by other members. From investing Reddit communities, to professional ones, to ones just for laughs, you're likely to find a community for you on Reddit.
- What topics does r/actuallesbians cover?
- On the Hive Index, r/actuallesbians is organized under Lesbians.
- How do I join r/actuallesbians?
- You can join r/actuallesbians by clicking this link, or pressing the "Go to community" button above.
- What are the Lesbian communities like?
- Communities for lesbian and sapphic women covering social connection, dating, identity, and interests. Discord servers and subreddits provide spaces for general chat, dating advice, cultural discussion, and support, with communities ranging from casual social to interest-specific like gaming, books, and fitness.
Monthly Stats
- 22
- Views /mo (-19%)
- 19
- Visitors /mo (0%)
- 5
- Referrals /mo (-17%)
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