r/ActualLesbiansOver25

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About r/ActualLesbiansOver25

We're lesbians over 25 who felt like the sub r/ActualLesbians was excellent, inclusive of all WLW, did a good job of enforcing no TERFs, & wanted to replicate that for the 25+ crowd. Simply put, WLW life in adulthood is much different, and as much as we're a part of r/ActualLesbians, we wanted a space where WLW 25+ can discuss more specific 25+ things separate from teens or the younger crowd. We do NOT tolerate TERFs, anti-trans rhetoric, or any form of bigotry.

The community at a glance

r/ActualLesbiansOver25 is a Subreddit for LGBTQIA+ with roughly 51K members. It has been around since 2019. It uses a forum format for communication.

Roughly 18K members have joined in the past year. Popular discussion topics include Dating, Lesbian, and Advice. Product recommendations often mention apps and lesbian films.

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Established 2019
51K Members

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Subreddit Analysis

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Yearly: +18K members
Growth: +52.2% / year

Member growth over time

All time (yearly)

  • 2021: 3K members
  • 2023: 10K members
  • 2024: 10K members
  • 2025: 16K members
  • 2026: 10K members

Past year (monthly)

  • Aug: 1K members
  • Sep: 867 members
  • Oct: 1K members
  • Nov: 2K members
  • Dec: 1K members
  • Jan: 1K members
  • Feb: 1K members
  • Mar: 1K members
  • Apr: 2K members
  • May: 2K members
  • Jun: 2K members
  • Jul: 1K members

Topics

  • Dating
    80 posts in the past month
    #1
    Dating
    80
  • Lesbian
    38 posts in the past month
    #2
    Lesbian
    38
  • Advice
    28 posts in the past month
    #3
    Advice
    28
  • Relationships
    26 posts in the past month
    #4
    Relationships
    26
  • Struggling
    26 posts in the past month
    #5
    Struggling
    26

Flair

  • need advice
    36 posts in the past month
    1. Is dating in your mid-30s really this hard, or am I doing something wrong? 😅
    2. Does anyone else feel kind of stuck dating?
    3. Hinge Rant
    #1
    need advice
    Is dating in your mid-30s really this hard, or am I doing something wrong? 😅 · Does anyone else feel kind of stuck dating? · Hinge Rant
    36
  • dating
    19 posts in the past month
    1. How to stay grounded in the early stages of dating?
    2. Why does this bother me?
    3. dating break realizations
    #2
    dating
    How to stay grounded in the early stages of dating? · Why does this bother me? · dating break realizations
    19
  • Other
    15 posts in the past month
    1. Bay Area - Gay Bars?
    2. Do you go to wlw events by yourself?
    3. Calling all Sapphic Fandom Nerds in NYC! 🌈🌈🌈
    #3
    Other
    Bay Area - Gay Bars? · Do you go to wlw events by yourself? · Calling all Sapphic Fandom Nerds in NYC! 🌈🌈🌈
    15
  • general life stuff
    9 posts in the past month
    1. Baby fever 😭🥲
    2. Lord why me? (Why anybody) but especially why me?
    3. Anyone else making dinner late or just me 🤪
    #4
    general life stuff
    Baby fever 😭🥲 · Lord why me? (Why anybody) but especially why me? · Anyone else making dinner late or just me 🤪
    9
  • entertainment
    5 posts in the past month
    1. Thought this is hilarious
    2. ISO book recommendations where the MC is a lesbian but the plot isn't about them being a lesbian
    3. I love them!
    #5
    entertainment
    Thought this is hilarious · ISO book recommendations where the MC is a lesbian but the plot isn't about them being a lesbian · I love them!
    5

Product recommendations

  • apps
    2 posts in the past month
    1. Best app to meet women?
    2. What apps do you recommend for a late bloomer?
    #1
    apps
    Best app to meet women? · What apps do you recommend for a late bloomer?
    2
  • lesbian films
    2 posts in the past month
    1. Recommended lesbian Christmas films that are not children's
    2. Lesbian film/series recs?
    #2
    lesbian films
    Recommended lesbian Christmas films that are not children's · Lesbian film/series recs?
    2
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Frequently asked questions

Who is r/ActualLesbiansOver25 for?
Best for LGBTQIA+ enthusiasts looking for a Reddit-based community with forum discussion.
Is r/ActualLesbiansOver25 free to join?
This listing is not marked as paid-only. Access rules and any fees are decided by the community.
How many members does r/ActualLesbiansOver25 have?
Roughly 51K members, based on figures reported by the community or its host. Member counts are approximate and change over time.
What platform is r/ActualLesbiansOver25 on?
r/ActualLesbiansOver25 runs on Reddit. Reddit communities (or "subreddits") are forum-based groups on the popular social news aggregation, web content rating, and discussion website Reddit. Reddit is commonly known as "the front page of the internet". Users submit content to the site such as links, text posts, and images, which are then voted up or down and discussed by other members. From investing Reddit communities, to professional ones, to ones just for laughs, you're likely to find a community for you on Reddit.
What topics does r/ActualLesbiansOver25 cover?
On the Hive Index, r/ActualLesbiansOver25 is organized under LGBTQIA+.
How do I join r/ActualLesbiansOver25?
You can join r/ActualLesbiansOver25 by clicking this link, or pressing the "Go to community" button above.
What are the LGBTQIA communities like?
Communities for LGBTQIA+ people covering social connection, identity, mental health, and advocacy. Discord is a major hub with large and small servers for everything from general queer community to specific identities and interests, alongside subreddits and dedicated platforms for support and discussion.
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