About r/ActualLesbiansOver25
We're lesbians over 25 who felt like the sub r/ActualLesbians was excellent, inclusive of all WLW, did a good job of enforcing no TERFs, & wanted to replicate that for the 25+ crowd. Simply put, WLW life in adulthood is much different, and as much as we're a part of r/ActualLesbians, we wanted a space where WLW 25+ can discuss more specific 25+ things separate from teens or the younger crowd. We do NOT tolerate TERFs, anti-trans rhetoric, or any form of bigotry.
The community at a glance
r/ActualLesbiansOver25 is a Subreddit for LGBTQIA+ and Lesbians with roughly 56K members. It has been around since 2019. It uses a forum format for communication. On the Hive Index it ranks #2 in the Lesbian communities list and #5 in the LGBTQIA communities list.
Roughly 19K members have joined in the past year. Popular discussion topics include Dating, Lesbian, and Advice. Product recommendations often mention apps and lesbian films.
Community Topics
Community Features
This community has a forum
Subreddit Analysis
via GummySearchMember growth over time
All time (yearly)
- 2021: 3K members
- 2023: 10K members
- 2024: 10K members
- 2025: 16K members
- 2026: 15K members
Past year (monthly)
- Nov: 2K members
- Dec: 1K members
- Jan: 1K members
- Feb: 1K members
- Mar: 1K members
- Apr: 2K members
- May: 2K members
- Jun: 2K members
- Jul: 2K members
- Aug: 2K members
- Sep: 1K members
- Oct: 908 members
Topics
- Dating80 posts in the past month#180Dating
- Lesbian38 posts in the past month#238Lesbian
- Advice28 posts in the past month#328Advice
- Relationships26 posts in the past month#426Relationships
- Struggling26 posts in the past month#526Struggling
Flair
- dating35 posts in the past month
- I didn't realize being allergic to animals would limit my dating pool this much
- I was on HER for less than 24 hours, damn it got even worse
- Dumped my gf and all I feel is relief
#135datingI didn't realize being allergic to animals would limit my dating pool this much · I was on HER for less than 24 hours, damn it got even worse · Dumped my gf and all I feel is relief - need advice26 posts in the past month
- Broken-up due to (bio) child wish..
- Why is it so hard to make other lesbian friends?
- Girl I’m talking to thinks we are girlfriends
#226need adviceBroken-up due to (bio) child wish.. · Why is it so hard to make other lesbian friends? · Girl I’m talking to thinks we are girlfriends - general conversation12 posts in the past month
- A little Totoro forest, completely hand-embroidered by me. 🌿🍄❤️
- Looking for friends, voice chat texting etc
- The Venus symbol
#312general conversationA little Totoro forest, completely hand-embroidered by me. 🌿🍄❤️ · Looking for friends, voice chat texting etc · The Venus symbol - general life stuff9 posts in the past month
- Is there any other lesbians here that dont really care for marriage?
- Looking for friendly chat and new connections
- Book advent calendar but for us?
#49general life stuffIs there any other lesbians here that dont really care for marriage? · Looking for friendly chat and new connections · Book advent calendar but for us? - lesbians in the news3 posts in the past month
- Lesbian Bar Project Co-Founder: Purity Politics Could Destroy Our Remaining Spaces
- *DIVA DOWN* Any positive lesbian stories out there? Real ones?
- Great podcast on the lesbian bar discourse
#53lesbians in the newsLesbian Bar Project Co-Founder: Purity Politics Could Destroy Our Remaining Spaces · *DIVA DOWN* Any positive lesbian stories out there? Real ones? · Great podcast on the lesbian bar discourse
Product recommendations
- apps2 posts in the past month
- Best app to meet women?
- What apps do you recommend for a late bloomer?
#12appsBest app to meet women? · What apps do you recommend for a late bloomer? - lesbian films2 posts in the past month
- Recommended lesbian Christmas films that are not children's
- Lesbian film/series recs?
#22lesbian filmsRecommended lesbian Christmas films that are not children's · Lesbian film/series recs?
Frequently asked questions
- Who is r/ActualLesbiansOver25 for?
- Best for LGBTQIA+ and Lesbians enthusiasts looking for a Reddit-based community with forum discussion.
- Is r/ActualLesbiansOver25 free to join?
- This listing is not marked as paid-only. Access rules and any fees are decided by the community.
- How many members does r/ActualLesbiansOver25 have?
- Roughly 56K members, based on figures reported by the community or its host. Member counts are approximate and change over time.
- What platform is r/ActualLesbiansOver25 on?
- r/ActualLesbiansOver25 runs on Reddit. Reddit communities (or "subreddits") are forum-based groups on the popular social news aggregation, web content rating, and discussion website Reddit. Reddit is commonly known as "the front page of the internet". Users submit content to the site such as links, text posts, and images, which are then voted up or down and discussed by other members. From investing Reddit communities, to professional ones, to ones just for laughs, you're likely to find a community for you on Reddit.
- What topics does r/ActualLesbiansOver25 cover?
- On the Hive Index, r/ActualLesbiansOver25 is organized under LGBTQIA+, Lesbians.
- How do I join r/ActualLesbiansOver25?
- You can join r/ActualLesbiansOver25 by clicking this link, or pressing the "Go to community" button above.
- What are the LGBTQIA communities like?
- Communities for LGBTQIA+ people covering social connection, identity, mental health, and advocacy. Discord is a major hub with large and small servers for everything from general queer community to specific identities and interests, alongside subreddits and dedicated platforms for support and discussion.
Monthly Stats
- 50
- Views /mo (+11%)
- 35
- Visitors /mo (+9%)
- 10
- Referrals /mo (+25%)
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