About r/askgaybros
This is where anyone can ask the manly men for their opinions on various topics. Advice. AskReddit style questions. AMA. ELI5. Everything in between.
The community at a glance
r/askgaybros is a Subreddit for LGBTQIA+ with roughly 723K members. It has been around since 2012. It uses a forum format for communication. On the Hive Index it ranks #4 in the LGBTQIA communities list.
Roughly 173K members have joined in the past year. Popular discussion topics include Gay, Relationship, and Sex. Product recommendations often mention underwear and gay movie/show.
Community Topics
Community Features
This community has a forum
Subreddit Analysis
via GummySearchMember growth over time
All time (yearly)
- 2013: 4K members
- 2014: 7K members
- 2015: 8K members
- 2016: 16K members
- 2017: 23K members
- 2018: 54K members
- 2019: 75K members
- 2020: 63K members
- 2021: 49K members
- 2023: 111K members
- 2024: 89K members
- 2025: 110K members
- 2026: 113K members
Past year (monthly)
- Aug: 8K members
- Sep: 8K members
- Oct: 6K members
- Nov: 17K members
- Dec: 15K members
- Jan: 18K members
- Feb: 18K members
- Mar: 20K members
- Apr: 19K members
- May: 19K members
- Jun: 18K members
- Jul: 792 members
Topics
- Gay46 posts in the past month#146Gay
- Relationship24 posts in the past month#224Relationship
- Sex22 posts in the past month#322Sex
- Struggling21 posts in the past month#421Struggling
- Looking For19 posts in the past month#519Looking For
Flair
- Advice37 posts in the past month
- Did your sex drive increase when you when you were finally honest with yourself?
- I want to ask my straight friend to compare
- I think I'm turning bi/gay
#137AdviceDid your sex drive increase when you when you were finally honest with yourself? · I want to ask my straight friend to compare · I think I'm turning bi/gay - Not a question11 posts in the past month
- There are so many men who are secretly gay
- I just ended an FWB after knowing he cheated on his partner with me.
- I am scared of everything
#211Not a questionThere are so many men who are secretly gay · I just ended an FWB after knowing he cheated on his partner with me. · I am scared of everything - Meta2 posts in the past month
- Gay soccer/football fans, who is the most attractive player at the 2026 FIFA World Cup?
- Do gay people watch more reality shows than other demographics?
#32MetaGay soccer/football fans, who is the most attractive player at the 2026 FIFA World Cup? · Do gay people watch more reality shows than other demographics? - Poll2 posts in the past month
- Are you often asked if you're gay?
- 38bi, how do I make them aware
#42PollAre you often asked if you're gay? · 38bi, how do I make them aware - Shitpost1 post in the past month
- What the hottest experience you’ve had?
#51ShitpostWhat the hottest experience you’ve had?
Product recommendations
- underwear9 posts in the past month
- Best underwear for huge cock
- Best brief brands
- Best underwear
#19underwearBest underwear for huge cock · Best brief brands · Best underwear - gay movie/show5 posts in the past month
- Recommend a good gay movie
- If you guys are in need of a gay tv show I’d recommend The Horizon, it’s free on YouTube
- Is there any new gay movies you guys recommend?
#25gay movie/showRecommend a good gay movie · If you guys are in need of a gay tv show I’d recommend The Horizon, it’s free on YouTube · Is there any new gay movies you guys recommend?
Community Reviews
Frequently asked questions
- Who is r/askgaybros for?
- Best for LGBTQIA+ enthusiasts looking for a Reddit-based community with forum discussion.
- Is r/askgaybros free to join?
- This listing is not marked as paid-only. Access rules and any fees are decided by the community.
- How many members does r/askgaybros have?
- Roughly 723K members, based on figures reported by the community or its host. Member counts are approximate and change over time.
- What platform is r/askgaybros on?
- r/askgaybros runs on Reddit. Reddit communities (or "subreddits") are forum-based groups on the popular social news aggregation, web content rating, and discussion website Reddit. Reddit is commonly known as "the front page of the internet". Users submit content to the site such as links, text posts, and images, which are then voted up or down and discussed by other members. From investing Reddit communities, to professional ones, to ones just for laughs, you're likely to find a community for you on Reddit.
- What topics does r/askgaybros cover?
- On the Hive Index, r/askgaybros is organized under LGBTQIA+.
- How do I join r/askgaybros?
- You can join r/askgaybros by clicking this link, or pressing the "Go to community" button above.
- What are the LGBTQIA communities like?
- Communities for LGBTQIA+ people covering social connection, identity, mental health, and advocacy. Discord is a major hub with large and small servers for everything from general queer community to specific identities and interests, alongside subreddits and dedicated platforms for support and discussion.
Monthly Stats
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- Views
- 28
- Visitors
- 12
- Referrals
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