r/LesbianActually

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About r/LesbianActually

Lesbian Actually is a place to discuss WLW life and culture.

The community at a glance

r/LesbianActually is a Subreddit for Lesbians with roughly 403K members. It uses a forum format for communication. It is the 3rd largest community in the Lesbian topic page.

Roughly 68K members have joined in the past year. Popular discussion topics include Lesbian, Dating, and Relationship. Product recommendations often mention lesbian books, book, and toy.

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403K Members

Community Topics

Community Features

Forum

This community has a forum

Subreddit Analysis

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Yearly: +68K members
Growth: +20.1% / year

Member growth over time

All time (yearly)

  • 2017: 5K members
  • 2018: 16K members
  • 2019: 40K members
  • 2020: 61K members
  • 2021: 47K members
  • 2022: 33K members
  • 2023: 43K members
  • 2024: 49K members
  • 2025: 47K members
  • 2026: 58K members

Past year (monthly)

  • Dec: 6K members
  • Jan: 6K members
  • Feb: 5K members
  • Mar: 5K members
  • Apr: 6K members
  • May: 6K members
  • Jun: 6K members
  • Jul: 6K members
  • Aug: 5K members
  • Sep: 5K members
  • Oct: 5K members
  • Nov: 2K members

Topics

  • Lesbian
    90 posts in the past month
    #1
    Lesbian
    90
  • Dating
    77 posts in the past month
    #2
    Dating
    77
  • Relationship
    40 posts in the past month
    #3
    Relationship
    40
  • Love
    29 posts in the past month
    #4
    Love
    29
  • Relationships
    25 posts in the past month
    #5
    Relationships
    25

Flair

  • Questions / Advice Wanted
    26 posts in the past month
    1. Got called a slur because I stated my sexuality
    2. How do I cope with never getting to experience teenage romance?
    3. Gay/Lesbian bars?
    #1
    Questions / Advice Wanted
    Got called a slur because I stated my sexuality · How do I cope with never getting to experience teenage romance? · Gay/Lesbian bars?
    26
  • Relationships / Dating
    24 posts in the past month
    1. What are some red-flag takes specifically regarding lesbians/sexuality that you've seen in past partners?
    2. Kissing techniques
    3. Got dumped about a week ago
    #2
    Relationships / Dating
    What are some red-flag takes specifically regarding lesbians/sexuality that you've seen in past partners? · Kissing techniques · Got dumped about a week ago
    24
  • Life
    10 posts in the past month
    1. I am so tired of the idea that "everyone is bi"
    2. has anyone else given up on love?
    3. Long Hair Butch Struggle
    #3
    Life
    I am so tired of the idea that "everyone is bi" · has anyone else given up on love? · Long Hair Butch Struggle
    10
  • Picture
    7 posts in the past month
    1. HEYYYYY!!! How yall doing!? Tell me everything!
    2. New here 👋🏻
    3. A little late for it, but here's my halloween makeup!
    #4
    Picture
    HEYYYYY!!! How yall doing!? Tell me everything! · New here 👋🏻 · A little late for it, but here's my halloween makeup!
    7
  • Safe Space (Postive Comments Only)
    4 posts in the past month
    1. Refused to print me a copy of a wlw novel
    2. Developed Heterophobia/j
    3. Feeling heartbroken
    #5
    Safe Space (Postive Comments Only)
    Refused to print me a copy of a wlw novel · Developed Heterophobia/j · Feeling heartbroken
    4

Product recommendations

  • lesbian books
    4 posts in the past month
    1. Best lesbian books you’ve ever read?
    2. Can anyone recommends some lesbian books?
    3. Any lesbian books you'd recommend?
    #1
    lesbian books
    Best lesbian books you’ve ever read? · Can anyone recommends some lesbian books? · Any lesbian books you'd recommend?
    4
  • book
    3 posts in the past month
    1. book recs?
    2. Book Recs
    3. SAPPHIC BOOK RECS
    #2
    book
    book recs? · Book Recs · SAPPHIC BOOK RECS
    3
  • toy
    2 posts in the past month
    1. toy recs
    2. toy recs
    #3
    toy
    toy recs · toy recs
    2
  • show
    1 post in the past month
    1. Show recs
    #4
    show
    Show recs
    1
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Frequently asked questions

Who is r/LesbianActually for?
Best for Lesbians enthusiasts looking for a Reddit-based community with forum discussion.
Is r/LesbianActually free to join?
This listing is not marked as paid-only. Access rules and any fees are decided by the community.
How many members does r/LesbianActually have?
Roughly 403K members, based on figures reported by the community or its host. Member counts are approximate and change over time.
What platform is r/LesbianActually on?
r/LesbianActually runs on Reddit. Reddit communities (or "subreddits") are forum-based groups on the popular social news aggregation, web content rating, and discussion website Reddit. Reddit is commonly known as "the front page of the internet". Users submit content to the site such as links, text posts, and images, which are then voted up or down and discussed by other members. From investing Reddit communities, to professional ones, to ones just for laughs, you're likely to find a community for you on Reddit.
What topics does r/LesbianActually cover?
On the Hive Index, r/LesbianActually is organized under Lesbians.
How do I join r/LesbianActually?
You can join r/LesbianActually by clicking this link, or pressing the "Go to community" button above.
What are the Lesbian communities like?
Communities for lesbian and sapphic women covering social connection, dating, identity, and interests. Discord servers and subreddits provide spaces for general chat, dating advice, cultural discussion, and support, with communities ranging from casual social to interest-specific like gaming, books, and fitness.
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