25 Online Communities for Dating
Updated 6/12/2026
DateRoom
on discord
DateRoom | Best Server For Dating! 1st FASTEST GROWING SERVER!4K members
ChatPaid3157 views / month
Lovedate
on discord
Make Some Good Friends And Memories With Us .This Server Is Based For Chill , Social , Games Related Purposes.177K members
ChatPerks2265 views / month
Dater
on discord
Welcome to Dater! Dater is the best social server for Dating, Gaming, Chilling, Anime and more. It's the top 1 growing community! Check out perks and rewards.47K members
ChatPerksEvents769 views / month
BDSM Obedience Academy
on discord
BDSM Obedience Academy is a structured Discord community built around D/s dynamics, psychological dominance, and obedience training. We welcome Dominants, submissives, and switches of all genders who are serious about discipline, behavior modification, and power exchange. Members progress through task-based rituals, public accountability, and rank systems designed to foster trust, devotion, and long-term sadomasochistic relationships. Our Academy blends protocol, kink education, and deep emotional control.6K members
ForumChatPairingEventsCourses940 views / month
Relationships & Dating 18+
on discord
My community is dating discord server which is biggest discord server even without discovery we get 700-800 joins daily not NSFW but strictly 18+ chilll community254K members
ChatEvents675 views / month
Onekiss
on discord
We are a public and inclusive community server that aims to bring everyone together to share, connect, and have fun! We have something for everyone and you’ll never get bored. Our members are friendly and welcoming, and we are always looking for new people to join the family. Come and make friends, join some interesting conversations, and just have a good time with others.8K members
Chat586 views / month
The Cage
The Cage BDSM Community is where people who love BDSM, kink, and fetish connect. Free to join, it brings together real people who value authenticity, shared experiences, and meaningful relationships. With blogs, forums, personal ads, and live chat, it’s a kink-positive place for real conversation and real connection. Join us today.90K members
ForumChatPairingEventsNewsletter669 views / month
Amoura Hub
on discord
Amoura Hub is a clean and friendly social community built for people looking to make real connections in a relaxed environment. It focuses on simple, respectful conversations where members can meet new people, chat freely, and build friendships at their own pace. The server is strictly 18+ and maintains a safe, SFW space with no drama or toxic behavior. Members can enjoy active chats, voice channels, interactive bots, and matchmaking features designed to help people connect naturally.1K members
ChatEvents412 views / month
Facebook Singles Dating
on facebook
Facebook Singles Dating, Join Facebook Singles Dating App to connect with singles who are searching for soulmates and are ready to mingle.640K members
Forum256 views / month
DM Request
on discord
✉️ SEND OR RECEIVE DM REQUESTS! ✉️ Step into a welcoming community where every member can shape their own identity. 🎭 With 150+ self-assignable roles, you can showcase your hobbies, interests, personality, and more.2K members
ChatEvents185 views / month
Parallel RP
on discord
ParallelRP Summer 2024! | 24/7 staff / Female Staff presence & Active Devs | All welcome: egirls, streamers and more! | Custom Drugs & Clothing |Active PD & EMS | Active Gangs & Player Owned Businesses | FEMALE/M STARTER PACKAGE (Limited Time!)501 members
ForumChatPerksEvents122 views / month
Secret Dare
Secret Dare is a Truth or Dare online dating community. With a sexy online Truth or Dare game where you can play with the community using Pictures or Video Chat. You can express your desires and fantasies and meet people to realize them.20K members
Chat40 views / month
Mingle2
Mingle2 Forum is a 100% free online dating site for singles. Join in on the dating conversation with our free dating forum. This community also offers an app for chatting with over 39 million users.39.0M members
ForumChat35 views / month
SALT Christian Dating App Social
SALT is an online community bourne out of our dating app. It's a community of single Christians looking to meet other singles for romance as well as fellowship through our Social network, Table audio events, YouTube third wheel dates, in-person mixers, and SALT _ Life blog.500K members
ForumEventsNewsletter38 views / month
r/dating
on reddit
A subreddit to discuss and explore the dating process and learn from the experiences of others6.2M members
Forum44 views / month
r/OnlineDating
on reddit
Everything about online dating - your amusing stores, advice, and encouragement when you need it.237K members
Forum32 views / month
r/datingoverthirty
on reddit
A subreddit for folks nearing or over 30 who are looking for dating advice.1.2M members
Forum29 views / month
American & Canadian Girl's Single Dating Sites
on facebook
Experience United States of American, Canada single dating sites! Welcome to my group!387K members
Forum29 views / month
r/Tinder
on reddit
A community for discussing the online dating app Tinder. Sharing conversations, reviewing profiles and more.5.9M members
Forum32 views / month
LoveShack.org
is an interpersonal relationship advice and assistance community that confronts personal conflicts, promotes participation in self-discovery and responsibility, and is a place to share dating tips, love advice, and relationship resources.Forum13 views / month
eNotAlone.com
eNotAlone.com is a place for relationship advice, online dating, and long distance relationships.Forum9 views / month
r/dating_advice
on reddit
this sub is for advice about specific dating situations not general debates. posts about relationships longer than 6 months post go to r/relationship_advice or if you are married post to r/marriage4.8M members
Forum15 views / month
Socializer School
on skool
This is THE place to learn how to approach & attract women authentically so you can get a girlfriend in 60-90 days.191 members
ForumPaidCourses3 views / month
international dating & friendship
on facebook
A Facebook group dedicated to international dating and making friends.112K members
Forum19 views / month
Spiritual People Dating & Friends
on facebook
Welcome To Spiritual People Dating And Friendship. As we share in our experiences and a desire to communicate with like minded people, this group is about getting to know people who are spiritual awaken at different levels in conscious awareness. It's about meaningful friendship and relationship.61K members
Forum17 views / month
FAQ
Community size
- Tiny: 0 communities (<20 members)
- Small: 0 communities (20-100 members)
- Medium: 2 communities (100-1,000 members)
- Large: 5 communities (1,000-10,000 members)
- Huge: 4 communities (10,000-100,000 members)
- Massive: 7 communities (100,000-1M members)
- Gigantic: 5 communities (1M+ members)
Community features
Community platforms
- Discord: 9 communities
- Reddit: 5 communities
- Facebook: 4 communities
- Skool: 1 communities