9 Dating communities on Discord
Updated 6/12/2026
DateRoom
on discord
DateRoom | Best Server For Dating! 1st FASTEST GROWING SERVER!4K members
ChatPaid2975 views / month
Lovedate
on discord
Make Some Good Friends And Memories With Us .This Server Is Based For Chill , Social , Games Related Purposes.177K members
ChatPerks2082 views / month
BDSM Obedience Academy
on discord
BDSM Obedience Academy is a structured Discord community built around D/s dynamics, psychological dominance, and obedience training. We welcome Dominants, submissives, and switches of all genders who are serious about discipline, behavior modification, and power exchange. Members progress through task-based rituals, public accountability, and rank systems designed to foster trust, devotion, and long-term sadomasochistic relationships. Our Academy blends protocol, kink education, and deep emotional control.6K members
ForumChatPairingEventsCourses830 views / month
Onekiss
on discord
We are a public and inclusive community server that aims to bring everyone together to share, connect, and have fun! We have something for everyone and you’ll never get bored. Our members are friendly and welcoming, and we are always looking for new people to join the family. Come and make friends, join some interesting conversations, and just have a good time with others.8K members
Chat661 views / month
Dater
on discord
Welcome to Dater! Dater is the best social server for Dating, Gaming, Chilling, Anime and more. It's the top 1 growing community! Check out perks and rewards.47K members
ChatPerksEvents574 views / month
Amoura Hub
on discord
Amoura Hub is a clean and friendly social community built for people looking to make real connections in a relaxed environment. It focuses on simple, respectful conversations where members can meet new people, chat freely, and build friendships at their own pace. The server is strictly 18+ and maintains a safe, SFW space with no drama or toxic behavior. Members can enjoy active chats, voice channels, interactive bots, and matchmaking features designed to help people connect naturally.1K members
ChatEvents361 views / month
Relationships & Dating 18+
on discord
My community is dating discord server which is biggest discord server even without discovery we get 700-800 joins daily not NSFW but strictly 18+ chilll community254K members
ChatEvents181 views / month
Parallel RP
on discord
ParallelRP Summer 2024! | 24/7 staff / Female Staff presence & Active Devs | All welcome: egirls, streamers and more! | Custom Drugs & Clothing |Active PD & EMS | Active Gangs & Player Owned Businesses | FEMALE/M STARTER PACKAGE (Limited Time!)501 members
ForumChatPerksEvents122 views / month
DM Request
on discord
✉️ SEND OR RECEIVE DM REQUESTS! ✉️ Step into a welcoming community where every member can shape their own identity. 🎭 With 150+ self-assignable roles, you can showcase your hobbies, interests, personality, and more.500 members
ChatEvents16 views / month
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Community size
- Tiny: 0 communities (<20 members)
- Small: 0 communities (20-100 members)
- Medium: 2 communities (100-1,000 members)
- Large: 4 communities (1,000-10,000 members)
- Huge: 1 communities (10,000-100,000 members)
- Massive: 2 communities (100,000-1M members)
- Gigantic: 0 communities (1M+ members)