About r/OnlineDating
Everything about online dating - your amusing stores, advice, and encouragement when you need it.
The community at a glance
r/OnlineDating is a Subreddit for Dating with roughly 237K members. It uses a forum format for communication. It is the 10th largest community in the Dating topic page.
Roughly 65K members have joined in the past year. Popular discussion topics include Dating, Dating Apps, and Struggling. Common discussion themes are Advice Requests and Solution Requests. Product recommendations often mention dating app.
Community Topics
Community Features
This community has a forum
Subreddit Analysis
via GummySearchMember growth over time
All time (yearly)
- 2013: 45 members
- 2014: 114 members
- 2015: 317 members
- 2016: 626 members
- 2017: 1K members
- 2018: 2K members
- 2019: 5K members
- 2020: 20K members
- 2023: 84K members
- 2024: 42K members
- 2025: 43K members
- 2026: 38K members
Past year (monthly)
- Jul: 4K members
- Aug: 4K members
- Sep: 3K members
- Oct: 3K members
- Nov: 6K members
- Dec: 7K members
- Jan: 8K members
- Feb: 5K members
- Mar: 6K members
- Apr: 6K members
- May: 7K members
- Jun: 5K members
Themes
- Advice Requests7 posts in the past month
- Where can I find women that put effort?
- How to kindly tell someone you don’t want to talk anymore?
- How to deal with dating someone hotter than me
#17Advice RequestsWhere can I find women that put effort? · How to kindly tell someone you don’t want to talk anymore? · How to deal with dating someone hotter than me - Solution Requests4 posts in the past month
- Best tinder alternative where conversations actually go somewhere real?
- Any good apps?
- Are there any apps that are completely free?
#24Solution RequestsBest tinder alternative where conversations actually go somewhere real? · Any good apps? · Are there any apps that are completely free? - Pain & Anger1 post in the past month
- Ghosted after multiple dates
#31Pain & AngerGhosted after multiple dates
Topics
- Dating18 posts in the past month
- "I don't know what I want," WE MET ON A DATING APP!!
- talking to a guys who's dating to marry
- Why do a lot of guys ask me how my online dating experience is going?
#118Dating"I don't know what I want," WE MET ON A DATING APP!! · talking to a guys who's dating to marry · Why do a lot of guys ask me how my online dating experience is going? - Dating Apps16 posts in the past month
- How can I get Hinge or Tinder to show me more girls in my league?
- Best tinder alternative where conversations actually go somewhere real?
- Is Tinder all about hookups or sex only?
#216Dating AppsHow can I get Hinge or Tinder to show me more girls in my league? · Best tinder alternative where conversations actually go somewhere real? · Is Tinder all about hookups or sex only? - Struggling15 posts in the past month#315Struggling
- Frustrating14 posts in the past month#414Frustrating
- Hard Time13 posts in the past month#513Hard Time
Product recommendations
- dating app29 posts in the past month
- Best (mainstream) dating app for a Autistic/ADHD or Neurodivergent person?
- What’s the best dating app to meet goth and or alt girls?
- What’s the best dating app to meet goth and or alt girls?
#129dating appBest (mainstream) dating app for a Autistic/ADHD or Neurodivergent person? · What’s the best dating app to meet goth and or alt girls? · What’s the best dating app to meet goth and or alt girls?
Community Reviews
Frequently asked questions
- Who is r/OnlineDating for?
- Best for Dating enthusiasts looking for a Reddit-based community with forum discussion.
- Is r/OnlineDating free to join?
- This listing is not marked as paid-only. Access rules and any fees are decided by the community.
- How many members does r/OnlineDating have?
- Roughly 237K members, based on figures reported by the community or its host. Member counts are approximate and change over time.
- What platform is r/OnlineDating on?
- r/OnlineDating runs on Reddit. Reddit communities (or "subreddits") are forum-based groups on the popular social news aggregation, web content rating, and discussion website Reddit. Reddit is commonly known as "the front page of the internet". Users submit content to the site such as links, text posts, and images, which are then voted up or down and discussed by other members. From investing Reddit communities, to professional ones, to ones just for laughs, you're likely to find a community for you on Reddit.
- What topics does r/OnlineDating cover?
- On the Hive Index, r/OnlineDating is organized under Dating.
- How do I join r/OnlineDating?
- You can join r/OnlineDating by clicking this link, or pressing the "Go to community" button above.
- What are the Dating communities like?
- Communities for people looking to make connections and navigate modern dating. Discord hosts many of the biggest servers ranging from casual social spaces to more structured communities, with millions of members across the top servers for people seeking conversation and connection.
Monthly Stats
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- Views
- 21
- Visitors
- 12
- Referrals
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