r/OnlineDating

Community Overview

About r/OnlineDating

Everything about online dating - your amusing stores, advice, and encouragement when you need it.

The community at a glance

r/OnlineDating is a Subreddit for Dating with roughly 246K members. It uses a forum format for communication.

Roughly 69K members have joined in the past year. Popular discussion topics include Matches, Looking For Relationship, and Hookup. Common discussion themes are Pain & Anger and Advice Requests. Product recommendations often mention dating app.

On Reddit
246K Members

Community Features

This community has a forum

Subreddit Analysis

via GummySearch
Yearly: +69K members
Growth: +38.9% / year

Member growth over time

All time (yearly)

  • 2013: 45 members
  • 2014: 114 members
  • 2015: 317 members
  • 2016: 626 members
  • 2017: 1K members
  • 2018: 2K members
  • 2019: 5K members
  • 2020: 20K members
  • 2023: 84K members
  • 2024: 42K members
  • 2025: 43K members
  • 2026: 46K members

Past year (monthly)

  • Sep: 3K members
  • Oct: 3K members
  • Nov: 6K members
  • Dec: 7K members
  • Jan: 8K members
  • Feb: 5K members
  • Mar: 6K members
  • Apr: 6K members
  • May: 7K members
  • Jun: 7K members
  • Jul: 7K members
  • Aug: 233 members

Themes

  • Pain & Anger
    1 post in the past month
    1. The dating apps are hell on earth
    #1
    Pain & Anger
    The dating apps are hell on earth
    1
  • Advice Requests
    1 post in the past month
    1. How to navigate cross-cultural/cross-racial dating preferences?
    #2
    Advice Requests
    How to navigate cross-cultural/cross-racial dating preferences?
    1

Topics

  • Matches
    4 posts in the past month
    1. 26M in wheelchair no matches
    2. I have a lot of matches, but zero interest from women in conversation
    #1
    Matches
    26M in wheelchair no matches · I have a lot of matches, but zero interest from women in conversation
    4
  • Looking For Relationship
    3 posts in the past month
    #2
    Looking For Relationship
    3
  • Hookup
    2 posts in the past month
    #3
    Hookup
    2
  • Women
    2 posts in the past month
    1. I have a lot of matches, but zero interest from women in conversation
    #4
    Women
    I have a lot of matches, but zero interest from women in conversation
    2
  • Conversation
    2 posts in the past month
    1. I have a lot of matches, but zero interest from women in conversation
    2. One sided conversation
    #5
    Conversation
    I have a lot of matches, but zero interest from women in conversation · One sided conversation
    2

Product recommendations

  • dating app
    29 posts in the past month
    1. Best (mainstream) dating app for a Autistic/ADHD or Neurodivergent person?
    2. What’s the best dating app to meet goth and or alt girls?
    3. What’s the best dating app to meet goth and or alt girls?
    #1
    dating app
    Best (mainstream) dating app for a Autistic/ADHD or Neurodivergent person? · What’s the best dating app to meet goth and or alt girls? · What’s the best dating app to meet goth and or alt girls?
    29

Frequently asked questions

Who is r/OnlineDating for?
Best for Dating enthusiasts looking for a Reddit-based community with forum discussion.
Is r/OnlineDating free to join?
This listing is not marked as paid-only. Access rules and any fees are decided by the community.
How many members does r/OnlineDating have?
Roughly 246K members, based on figures reported by the community or its host. Member counts are approximate and change over time.
What platform is r/OnlineDating on?
r/OnlineDating runs on Reddit. Reddit communities (or "subreddits") are forum-based groups on the popular social news aggregation, web content rating, and discussion website Reddit. Reddit is commonly known as "the front page of the internet". Users submit content to the site such as links, text posts, and images, which are then voted up or down and discussed by other members. From investing Reddit communities, to professional ones, to ones just for laughs, you're likely to find a community for you on Reddit.
What topics does r/OnlineDating cover?
On the Hive Index, r/OnlineDating is organized under Dating.
How do I join r/OnlineDating?
You can join r/OnlineDating by clicking this link, or pressing the "Go to community" button above.
What are the Dating communities like?
Communities for people looking to make connections and navigate modern dating. Discord hosts many of the biggest servers ranging from casual social spaces to more structured communities, with millions of members across the top servers for people seeking conversation and connection.