r/datingoverthirty

Community Overview

About r/datingoverthirty

A subreddit for folks nearing or over 30 who are looking for dating advice.

The community at a glance

r/datingoverthirty is a Subreddit for Dating with roughly 1.2M members. It uses a forum format for communication. It is the 5th largest community in the Dating topic page.

Roughly 45K members have joined in the past year. Popular discussion topics include Hard Time, Struggling, and Frustration. Common discussion themes are Advice Requests. Product recommendations often mention dating apps.

On Reddit
1.2M Members

Community Features

This community has a forum

Subreddit Analysis

via GummySearch
Yearly: +45K members
Growth: +4.0% / year

Member growth over time

All time (yearly)

  • 2015: 4 members
  • 2016: 3K members
  • 2017: 10K members
  • 2018: 37K members
  • 2019: 66K members
  • 2020: 86K members
  • 2023: 884K members
  • 2024: 32K members
  • 2025: 27K members
  • 2026: 38K members

Past year (monthly)

  • Dec: 4K members
  • Jan: 5K members
  • Feb: 4K members
  • Mar: 4K members
  • Apr: 4K members
  • May: 4K members
  • Jun: 3K members
  • Jul: 4K members
  • Aug: 4K members
  • Sep: 3K members
  • Oct: 3K members
  • Nov: 1K members

Themes

  • Advice Requests
    5 posts in the past month
    1. Single, but the thought of social events exhausts me. Anyone else in the same boat?
    2. Person I've Been Seeing For a Month Has Cut Down Her Texting Considerably In The Last Few Days - When Should I ask Her If Everything Is Okay?
    3. Struggling to continue planning dates.. any advice?
    #1
    Advice Requests
    Single, but the thought of social events exhausts me. Anyone else in the same boat? · Person I've Been Seeing For a Month Has Cut Down Her Texting Considerably In The Last Few Days - When Should I ask Her If Everything Is Okay? · Struggling to continue planning dates.. any advice?
    5

Topics

  • Hard Time
    52 posts in the past month
    #1
    Hard Time
    52
  • Struggling
    27 posts in the past month
    #2
    Struggling
    27
  • Frustration
    26 posts in the past month
    #3
    Frustration
    26
  • Relationship
    25 posts in the past month
    #4
    Relationship
    25
  • Dating
    23 posts in the past month
    1. Dating someone in his 50s and with 2 older kids...?
    #5
    Dating
    Dating someone in his 50s and with 2 older kids...?
    23

Product recommendations

  • dating apps
    9 posts in the past month
    1. What are the best dating apps to use these days?
    2. Best dating apps/site?
    3. Best dating apps/site?
    #1
    dating apps
    What are the best dating apps to use these days? · Best dating apps/site? · Best dating apps/site?
    9

Frequently asked questions

Who is r/datingoverthirty for?
Best for Dating enthusiasts looking for a Reddit-based community with forum discussion.
Is r/datingoverthirty free to join?
This listing is not marked as paid-only. Access rules and any fees are decided by the community.
How many members does r/datingoverthirty have?
Roughly 1.2M members, based on figures reported by the community or its host. Member counts are approximate and change over time.
What platform is r/datingoverthirty on?
r/datingoverthirty runs on Reddit. Reddit communities (or "subreddits") are forum-based groups on the popular social news aggregation, web content rating, and discussion website Reddit. Reddit is commonly known as "the front page of the internet". Users submit content to the site such as links, text posts, and images, which are then voted up or down and discussed by other members. From investing Reddit communities, to professional ones, to ones just for laughs, you're likely to find a community for you on Reddit.
What topics does r/datingoverthirty cover?
On the Hive Index, r/datingoverthirty is organized under Dating.
How do I join r/datingoverthirty?
You can join r/datingoverthirty by clicking this link, or pressing the "Go to community" button above.
What are the Dating communities like?
Communities for people looking to make connections and navigate modern dating. Discord hosts many of the biggest servers ranging from casual social spaces to more structured communities, with millions of members across the top servers for people seeking conversation and connection.