r/datingoverthirty

Community Overview

About r/datingoverthirty

A subreddit for folks nearing or over 30 who are looking for dating advice.

The community at a glance

r/datingoverthirty is a Subreddit for Dating with roughly 1.2M members. It uses a forum format for communication. It is the 5th largest community in the Dating topic page.

Roughly 38K members have joined in the past year. Popular discussion topics include Hard Time, Struggling, and Dating. Common discussion themes are Advice Requests and Pain & Anger. Product recommendations often mention dating apps.

On Reddit
1.2M Members

Community Features

This community has a forum

Subreddit Analysis

via GummySearch
Yearly: +38K members
Growth: +3.3% / year

Member growth over time

All time (yearly)

  • 2015: 4 members
  • 2016: 3K members
  • 2017: 10K members
  • 2018: 37K members
  • 2019: 66K members
  • 2020: 86K members
  • 2023: 884K members
  • 2024: 32K members
  • 2025: 27K members
  • 2026: 22K members

Past year (monthly)

  • Jul: 2K members
  • Aug: 2K members
  • Sep: 1K members
  • Oct: 2K members
  • Nov: 4K members
  • Dec: 4K members
  • Jan: 5K members
  • Feb: 4K members
  • Mar: 4K members
  • Apr: 4K members
  • May: 4K members
  • Jun: 3K members

Themes

  • Advice Requests
    20 posts in the past month
    1. Dating a guy whose much more social/extroverted then you
    2. Advice for dealing with loneliness but keeping an open heart?
    3. When highly accomplished people struggle with dating, what chance does the average person have?
    #1
    Advice Requests
    Dating a guy whose much more social/extroverted then you · Advice for dealing with loneliness but keeping an open heart? · When highly accomplished people struggle with dating, what chance does the average person have?
    20
  • Pain & Anger
    5 posts in the past month
    1. Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - June 15, 2026
    2. Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - June 20, 2026
    3. Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - May 31, 2026
    #2
    Pain & Anger
    Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - June 15, 2026 · Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - June 20, 2026 · Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - May 31, 2026
    5

Topics

  • Hard Time
    73 posts in the past month
    #1
    Hard Time
    73
  • Struggling
    47 posts in the past month
    #2
    Struggling
    47
  • Dating
    47 posts in the past month
    1. Dating a guy whose much more social/extroverted then you
    2. When highly accomplished people struggle with dating, what chance does the average person have?
    3. Is this early dating lie a dealbreaker?
    #3
    Dating
    Dating a guy whose much more social/extroverted then you · When highly accomplished people struggle with dating, what chance does the average person have? · Is this early dating lie a dealbreaker?
    47
  • Time
    30 posts in the past month
    #4
    Time
    30
  • Struggle
    28 posts in the past month
    #5
    Struggle
    28

Product recommendations

  • dating apps
    9 posts in the past month
    1. What are the best dating apps to use these days?
    2. Best dating apps/site?
    3. Best dating apps/site?
    #1
    dating apps
    What are the best dating apps to use these days? · Best dating apps/site? · Best dating apps/site?
    9

Frequently asked questions

Who is r/datingoverthirty for?
Best for Dating enthusiasts looking for a Reddit-based community with forum discussion.
Is r/datingoverthirty free to join?
This listing is not marked as paid-only. Access rules and any fees are decided by the community.
How many members does r/datingoverthirty have?
Roughly 1.2M members, based on figures reported by the community or its host. Member counts are approximate and change over time.
What platform is r/datingoverthirty on?
r/datingoverthirty runs on Reddit. Reddit communities (or "subreddits") are forum-based groups on the popular social news aggregation, web content rating, and discussion website Reddit. Reddit is commonly known as "the front page of the internet". Users submit content to the site such as links, text posts, and images, which are then voted up or down and discussed by other members. From investing Reddit communities, to professional ones, to ones just for laughs, you're likely to find a community for you on Reddit.
What topics does r/datingoverthirty cover?
On the Hive Index, r/datingoverthirty is organized under Dating.
How do I join r/datingoverthirty?
You can join r/datingoverthirty by clicking this link, or pressing the "Go to community" button above.
What are the Dating communities like?
Communities for people looking to make connections and navigate modern dating. Discord hosts many of the biggest servers ranging from casual social spaces to more structured communities, with millions of members across the top servers for people seeking conversation and connection.