r/loveafterporn

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🄻🄾🅅🄴 🄰🄵🅃🄴🅁 🄿🄾🅁🄽 - sᴜᴘᴘᴏʀᴛ ғᴏʀ ᴘᴀʀᴛɴᴇʀs ᴏғ ᴘᴏʀɴ & sᴇx ᴀᴅᴅɪᴄᴛs. ❤️️ WE ARE GOING TO LOVE YOU UNTIL YOU LOVE YOURSELF! ❤️️ sᴇx & ᴘᴏʀɴ ᴀᴅᴅɪᴄᴛɪᴏɴ ᴀʀᴇ ɢʀᴏᴡɪɴɢ ᴇᴘɪᴅᴇᴍɪᴄs & ᴘᴀʀᴛɴᴇʀs ɴᴇᴇᴅ ᴀ ʀᴇsᴏᴜʀᴄᴇ ᴊᴜsᴛ ᴀs ᴍᴜᴄʜ ᴀs ᴛʜᴇ ᴀᴅᴅɪᴄᴛ. ʜᴇʀᴇ ʏᴏᴜ ᴄᴀɴ ғɪɴᴅ ᴘᴀʀᴛɴᴇʀs & ᴇx-ᴘᴀʀᴛɴᴇʀs ɪɴ ᴀʟʟ sᴛᴀɢᴇs ᴏғ ᴅɪsᴄᴏᴠᴇʀʏ & ʀᴇᴄᴏᴠᴇʀʏ, ᴀs ᴡᴇʟʟ ᴀs ᴠᴀʀɪᴏᴜs ʀᴇsᴏᴜʀᴄᴇs ᴏɴ ᴛʜᴇ sɪᴅᴇʙᴀʀ/ᴀʙᴏᴜᴛ ᴛᴀʙ. ᴘʟᴇᴀsᴇ ғᴇᴇʟ ғʀᴇᴇ ᴛᴏ ᴛᴇʟʟ ʏᴏᴜʀ sᴛᴏʀʏ, ᴠᴇɴᴛ ᴏʀ ᴀsᴋ ғᴏʀ ᴀᴅᴠɪᴄᴇ.

The community at a glance

r/loveafterporn is a Subreddit for Mental Health and Relationships with roughly 113K members. It has been around since 2018. It uses a forum format for communication. On the Hive Index it ranks #7 in the Relationships communities list.

Roughly 28K members have joined in the past year. Popular discussion topics include Porn Use, Relationship, and Addiction. Common discussion themes are Advice Requests and Pain & Anger. Product recommendations often mention accountability app, monitoring app, and porn block.

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Established 2018
113K Members

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Yearly: +28K members
Growth: +32.2% / year

Member growth over time

All time (yearly)

  • 2020: 13K members
  • 2021: 8K members
  • 2022: 14K members
  • 2023: 15K members
  • 2024: 21K members
  • 2025: 22K members
  • 2026: 20K members

Past year (monthly)

  • Oct: 1K members
  • Nov: 3K members
  • Dec: 3K members
  • Jan: 3K members
  • Feb: 2K members
  • Mar: 3K members
  • Apr: 3K members
  • May: 2K members
  • Jun: 2K members
  • Jul: 2K members
  • Aug: 2K members
  • Sep: 504 members

Themes

  • Advice Requests
    22 posts in the past month
    1. How to deal with the sadness of realizing we have to live like this?
    2. How can they make things right with you?
    3. How do you guys manage the feeling that you pushed him to it?
    #1
    Advice Requests
    How to deal with the sadness of realizing we have to live like this? · How can they make things right with you? · How do you guys manage the feeling that you pushed him to it?
    22
  • Pain & Anger
    17 posts in the past month
    1. The Documentary Brain After Porn Triggered Me
    2. I hate him.
    3. I am hurting.
    #2
    Pain & Anger
    The Documentary Brain After Porn Triggered Me · I hate him. · I am hurting.
    17

Topics

  • Porn Use
    7 posts in the past month
    1. Is his porn use problematic?
    2. Porn Use Killing Our Sex Life
    #1
    Porn Use
    Is his porn use problematic? · Porn Use Killing Our Sex Life
    7
  • Relationship
    6 posts in the past month
    1. He’s in a new relationship
    #2
    Relationship
    He’s in a new relationship
    6
  • Addiction
    4 posts in the past month
    1. Need Advice: Partner with Addiction
    2. Not coping well, and struggling with my own addictions
    #3
    Addiction
    Need Advice: Partner with Addiction · Not coping well, and struggling with my own addictions
    4
  • Children
    4 posts in the past month
    1. I’ve been indefinitely holding off having children due to my PA husband and I’m panicking
    #4
    Children
    I’ve been indefinitely holding off having children due to my PA husband and I’m panicking
    4
  • Leaving
    4 posts in the past month
    1. The Final Straw
    2. He’s trying to bargain with me because I want to leave
    3. help, do i finally leave??
    #5
    Leaving
    The Final Straw · He’s trying to bargain with me because I want to leave · help, do i finally leave??
    4

Flair

  • :Advice: ᴀᴅᴠɪᴄᴇ ᴡᴀɴᴛᴇᴅ
    42 posts in the past month
    1. I don’t know how much longer I can live in this constant back and forth
    2. When I have to ask it doesn’t feel the same
    3. The Beach/Pool
    #1
    :Advice: ᴀᴅᴠɪᴄᴇ ᴡᴀɴᴛᴇᴅ
    I don’t know how much longer I can live in this constant back and forth · When I have to ask it doesn’t feel the same · The Beach/Pool
    42
  • :SeekingSupport: sᴇᴇᴋɪɴɢ sᴜᴘᴘᴏʀᴛ
    22 posts in the past month
    1. Porn to cheating pipeline
    2. I am hurting.
    3. so disappointed
    #2
    :SeekingSupport: sᴇᴇᴋɪɴɢ sᴜᴘᴘᴏʀᴛ
    Porn to cheating pipeline · I am hurting. · so disappointed
    22
  • ᴅᴇsᴛʀᴏʏᴇᴅ :snoo_tableflip::table_flip:
    19 posts in the past month
    1. I want to wear a paper bag over my head
    2. Anyone else feels the same?
    3. I don’t think I can survive this
    #3
    ᴅᴇsᴛʀᴏʏᴇᴅ :snoo_tableflip::table_flip:
    I want to wear a paper bag over my head · Anyone else feels the same? · I don’t think I can survive this
    19
  • :snoo_biblethump: sᴀᴅ
    18 posts in the past month
    1. he loves me, but he can't make me feel loved.
    2. Not good enough
    3. everyone including him is constantly trying to get me to go to the beach
    #4
    :snoo_biblethump: sᴀᴅ
    he loves me, but he can't make me feel loved. · Not good enough · everyone including him is constantly trying to get me to go to the beach
    18
  • :Question: ɢᴇɴᴇʀᴀʟ ǫᴜᴇsᴛɪᴏɴ
    18 posts in the past month
    1. Has anyone started seeing their partner as ugly?
    2. Americans, is this normal or am I being gaslighted?
    3. Worst version of yourself ?
    #5
    :Question: ɢᴇɴᴇʀᴀʟ ǫᴜᴇsᴛɪᴏɴ
    Has anyone started seeing their partner as ugly? · Americans, is this normal or am I being gaslighted? · Worst version of yourself ?
    18

Product recommendations

  • accountability app
    13 posts in the past month
    1. Best accountability app for the new iPhone?
    2. Best iPhone accountability
    3. Best accountability apps for iPhones?
    #1
    accountability app
    Best accountability app for the new iPhone? · Best iPhone accountability · Best accountability apps for iPhones?
    13
  • monitoring app
    7 posts in the past month
    1. Best app for monitoring?
    2. Best monitoring app for iOS?
    3. Best monitoring app for Android?
    #2
    monitoring app
    Best app for monitoring? · Best monitoring app for iOS? · Best monitoring app for Android?
    7
  • porn block
    3 posts in the past month
    1. Please can you recommend the best porn block for android. It’s ok if it’s paid for. Help!
    2. What is the best porn blocker
    3. Please can you recommend the best porn block for android. It’s ok if it’s paid for. Help!
    #3
    porn block
    Please can you recommend the best porn block for android. It’s ok if it’s paid for. Help! · What is the best porn blocker · Please can you recommend the best porn block for android. It’s ok if it’s paid for. Help!
    3
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Frequently asked questions

Who is r/loveafterporn for?
Best for Mental Health and Relationships enthusiasts looking for a Reddit-based community with forum discussion.
Is r/loveafterporn free to join?
This listing is not marked as paid-only. Access rules and any fees are decided by the community.
How many members does r/loveafterporn have?
Roughly 113K members, based on figures reported by the community or its host. Member counts are approximate and change over time.
What platform is r/loveafterporn on?
r/loveafterporn runs on Reddit. Reddit communities (or "subreddits") are forum-based groups on the popular social news aggregation, web content rating, and discussion website Reddit. Reddit is commonly known as "the front page of the internet". Users submit content to the site such as links, text posts, and images, which are then voted up or down and discussed by other members. From investing Reddit communities, to professional ones, to ones just for laughs, you're likely to find a community for you on Reddit.
What topics does r/loveafterporn cover?
On the Hive Index, r/loveafterporn is organized under Mental Health, Relationships.
How do I join r/loveafterporn?
You can join r/loveafterporn by clicking this link, or pressing the "Go to community" button above.
What are the Mental Health communities like?
Communities for people navigating anxiety, depression, bipolar disorder, loneliness, trauma, and everyday mental health challenges. Find online support groups, peer support networks, and online therapy resources. Reddit has some of the largest and most active mental health communities on the internet, with Discord servers offering real-time peer support.
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