What are relationships communities?

Communities for people navigating dating, partnerships, marriage, and the dynamics of personal relationships. Reddit has the largest and most active communities here, spanning advice for long-distance couples, relationship challenges, and general discussion about dating and love, with some Discord servers for more real-time conversation.

Where do most relationships communities live?

Reddit is the most common platform in this report (47% of 17 listings).

Are most of these communities free?

71% are free to join. The rest require payment, an application, or both.

How big is a typical relationships community?

Among listings with public size data, the average is 1.1M members and the median is 129K. The median is usually the better signal for a typical group because a few large ones inflate the average.

What do these communities usually include?

Forum is the most common (71%). Others that show up often include live chat and paid community.

How does Hive Index collect this data?

Listings are submitted by community builders and researchers, reviewed for relevance, and updated with platform, feature, member, review, and traffic data where available.

Where can I see the full list?

The full directory is on Hive Index's Relationships topic page, where you can filter by platform, size, features, and more.

Relationships Communities Report: Stats, Platforms,...

Executive Summary

We analyzed 17 relationships communities listed on Hive Index to understand where people gather, what these groups offer, and which communities attract the most interest.

The big picture: relationships has many smaller groups and a few very large outliers pulling averages up.

Source: Hive Index community database · Updated periodically

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Communities: 17
Platforms: 5
Avg members: 1.1M
Median members: 129K

Where Relationships Communities Are Hosted

Reddit
8(47%)
Skool
5(29%)
Independent Platforms
2(12%)
Telegram
1(6%)
Discord
1(6%)

Format mix

Forum / feed-based
10(59%)
Private membership
5(29%)
Chat communities
2(12%)

Forum / feed-based is most common (59%), but private membership is also well represented (29%).

Reddit leads, but Skool and Independent Platforms also represent meaningful shares.

Audience Size & Access

Community size

Tiny
<20 members
0(0%)
Small
20-100 members
1(6%)
Medium
100-1,000 members
1(6%)
Large
1,000-10,000 members
2(12%)
Huge
10,000-100,000 members
2(12%)
Massive
100,000-1M members
5(29%)
Gigantic
1M+ members
3(18%)

3 communities have unknown member counts.

Free vs paid

The average is much higher than the median (1.1M vs 129K), which usually means a few large groups are pulling the average up.

How Relationships Differs From Other Categories

Relationships is less free-to-join, larger, and more paid or gated, compared with typical Hive Index topics.

Metric	Relationships	Hive Index average
Free to join	71%	84%
Median members	129K	25K
Average members	1.1M	673K
Paid or apply-to-join	29%	16%
Live chat	41%	41%
Discord share	6%	17%

Feature Mix

Common features appear in at least 15% of listings.

Common Features

Forum
71%
Live Chat
41%
Paid Community
29%

Niche Features

Courses
12%
Member Perks
12%
Newsletter
6%
Online/Offline Events
6%
Pairing
6%
Requires Application
6%

Forum appears on 71% of listings.

What Visitors Click

Outbound clicks / mo: 122

Platform supply vs. clicks

Platform	Communities	Share of communities	Outbound clicks	Share of clicks
Reddit	8	47%	16	13%
Skool	5	29%	1	1%
Independent Platforms	2	12%	7	6%
Telegram	1	6%	31	25%
Discord	1	6%	67	55%

Share is calculated within this topic.

Discord gets 55% of clicks but only 6% of listings, so visitors click it more than you'd expect from supply alone.

Most-clicked formats

Chat communities
98(80%)
Forum / feed-based
23(19%)
Private membership
1(1%)

Most-clicked features

Live Chat
101(83%)
Courses
68(56%)
Paid Community
68(56%)
Forum
24(20%)

Most-clicked size ranges

Gigantic
12(10%)
Massive
4(3%)
Medium
1(1%)

Top-clicked listings

Secret Society Premium
67(55%)
Real-Chat Talk Worldwide
31(25%)
r/dating
9(7%)

Most clicks go to chat communities and forum / feed-based communities.

Trends

Founded year

2008

2013

2014

2018

2021

10 communities have no founding year on file.

Most listed groups were founded around 2013.

Methodology & FAQ

Methodology

This report uses communities in the Hive Index database tagged as Relationships. We exclude removed or suppressed listings. Member counts, traffic, features, reviews, and ratings may vary by source and are updated periodically.

•This is a smaller slice of Hive Index's database, so read trends as directional.

FAQ

: Communities for people navigating dating, partnerships, marriage, and the dynamics of personal relationships. Reddit has the largest and most active communities here, spanning advice for long-distance couples, relationship challenges, and general discussion about dating and love, with some Discord servers for more real-time conversation.
: Reddit is the most common platform in this report (47% of 17 listings).
: 71% are free to join. The rest require payment, an application, or both.
: Among listings with public size data, the average is 1.1M members and the median is 129K. The median is usually the better signal for a typical group because a few large ones inflate the average.
: Forum is the most common (71%). Others that show up often include live chat and paid community.
: Listings are submitted by community builders and researchers, reviewed for relevance, and updated with platform, feature, member, review, and traffic data where available.
: The full directory is on Hive Index's Relationships topic page, where you can filter by platform, size, features, and more.

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