r/AskMenOver30

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About r/AskMenOver30

AskMenOver30 is a place for supportive and friendly conversations relevant to men over 30.

The community at a glance

r/AskMenOver30 is a Subreddit for Relationships with roughly 717K members. It has been around since 2013. It uses a forum format for communication. It is the 5th largest community in the Relationships topic page.

Roughly 87K members have joined in the past year. Popular discussion topics include Struggling, Struggles, and Relationships. Product recommendations often mention books, boxer briefs, and shampoo.

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Established 2013
717K Members

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Yearly: +87K members
Growth: +13.8% / year

Member growth over time

All time (yearly)

  • 2014: 5K members
  • 2015: 5K members
  • 2016: 5K members
  • 2017: 12K members
  • 2018: 54K members
  • 2019: 40K members
  • 2020: 13K members
  • 2021: 194K members
  • 2022: 111K members
  • 2023: 20K members
  • 2024: 90K members
  • 2025: 122K members
  • 2026: 44K members

Past year (monthly)

  • Aug: 7K members
  • Sep: 5K members
  • Oct: 5K members
  • Nov: 12K members
  • Dec: 8K members
  • Jan: 10K members
  • Feb: 6K members
  • Mar: 7K members
  • Apr: 6K members
  • May: 6K members
  • Jun: 7K members
  • Jul: 2K members

Topics

  • Struggling
    43 posts in the past month
    #1
    Struggling
    43
  • Struggles
    37 posts in the past month
    #2
    Struggles
    37
  • Relationships
    29 posts in the past month
    #3
    Relationships
    29
  • Career
    27 posts in the past month
    #4
    Career
    27
  • Relationship
    25 posts in the past month
    #5
    Relationship
    25

Flair

  • Life
    17 posts in the past month
    1. Is 38 too old to start over? Divorced, no job, no savings, and starting from absolute zero.
    2. Worried about my wife, how do y’all cope with what you can’t fix?
    3. Have any of you taken an alternative path or taken a genuinely reckless leap in your 30s and had it work out?
    #1
    Life
    Is 38 too old to start over? Divorced, no job, no savings, and starting from absolute zero. · Worried about my wife, how do y’all cope with what you can’t fix? · Have any of you taken an alternative path or taken a genuinely reckless leap in your 30s and had it work out?
    17
  • General
    14 posts in the past month
    1. Men with flat stomach, how do you keep it that way?
    2. There are always questions of what you should do in your 30's or 40's. What should people in their mid 30's be doing?
    3. Men, which one are you: an early bird who's up before the sun, or someone who'd happily sleep in whenever possible?
    #2
    General
    Men with flat stomach, how do you keep it that way? · There are always questions of what you should do in your 30's or 40's. What should people in their mid 30's be doing? · Men, which one are you: an early bird who's up before the sun, or someone who'd happily sleep in whenever possible?
    14
  • Romance/dating
    12 posts in the past month
    1. I’m talking to a girl who broke up with her ex 4 months ago and I’m spiraling over the red flags. Am I overthinking this?
    2. Honestly I dont even know where to begin
    3. Is our relationship over? What should I do next?
    #3
    Romance/dating
    I’m talking to a girl who broke up with her ex 4 months ago and I’m spiraling over the red flags. Am I overthinking this? · Honestly I dont even know where to begin · Is our relationship over? What should I do next?
    12
  • Physical Health & Aging
    9 posts in the past month
    1. Hey, are you otherwise healthy guys almost always mildly in pain?
    2. My parents are nearing their 70s. What activities do you recommend so I can get them to be more physically active?
    3. Men over 40: Is having heart palpitations a normal thing?
    #4
    Physical Health & Aging
    Hey, are you otherwise healthy guys almost always mildly in pain? · My parents are nearing their 70s. What activities do you recommend so I can get them to be more physically active? · Men over 40: Is having heart palpitations a normal thing?
    9
  • Career Jobs Work
    6 posts in the past month
    1. Does anyone else actually enjoy climbing the corporate ladder?
    2. 33 and changing careers
    3. Constant Analysis of Being in The “Wrong” Career. How do you get over it? What would you do in my situation?
    #5
    Career Jobs Work
    Does anyone else actually enjoy climbing the corporate ladder? · 33 and changing careers · Constant Analysis of Being in The “Wrong” Career. How do you get over it? What would you do in my situation?
    6

Product recommendations

  • books
    10 posts in the past month
    1. What books would you recommend for a man (early 40s) to read to gain sexual confidence?
    2. Recommended books for Men
    3. Can Anyone Recommend Books or Videos About Online Dating?
    #1
    books
    What books would you recommend for a man (early 40s) to read to gain sexual confidence? · Recommended books for Men · Can Anyone Recommend Books or Videos About Online Dating?
    10
  • boxer briefs
    8 posts in the past month
    1. Guys that switched back to briefs, are there any brands you recommend?
    2. Guys that switched back to briefs, are there any brands you recommend?
    3. Men that switched back to briefs, are there any brands you recommend?
    #2
    boxer briefs
    Guys that switched back to briefs, are there any brands you recommend? · Guys that switched back to briefs, are there any brands you recommend? · Men that switched back to briefs, are there any brands you recommend?
    8
  • shampoo
    2 posts in the past month
    1. Best shampoo and conditioner for thickening?
    2. Can you recommend a decent shampoo?
    #3
    shampoo
    Best shampoo and conditioner for thickening? · Can you recommend a decent shampoo?
    2
  • torch
    2 posts in the past month
    1. Which torch would you recommend for a dad with 2 kids - generic use
    2. Which torch would you recommend?
    #4
    torch
    Which torch would you recommend for a dad with 2 kids - generic use · Which torch would you recommend?
    2
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Frequently asked questions

Who is r/AskMenOver30 for?
Best for Relationships enthusiasts looking for a Reddit-based community with forum discussion.
Is r/AskMenOver30 free to join?
This listing is not marked as paid-only. Access rules and any fees are decided by the community.
How many members does r/AskMenOver30 have?
Roughly 717K members, based on figures reported by the community or its host. Member counts are approximate and change over time.
What platform is r/AskMenOver30 on?
r/AskMenOver30 runs on Reddit. Reddit communities (or "subreddits") are forum-based groups on the popular social news aggregation, web content rating, and discussion website Reddit. Reddit is commonly known as "the front page of the internet". Users submit content to the site such as links, text posts, and images, which are then voted up or down and discussed by other members. From investing Reddit communities, to professional ones, to ones just for laughs, you're likely to find a community for you on Reddit.
What topics does r/AskMenOver30 cover?
On the Hive Index, r/AskMenOver30 is organized under Relationships.
How do I join r/AskMenOver30?
You can join r/AskMenOver30 by clicking this link, or pressing the "Go to community" button above.
What are the Relationships communities like?
Communities for people navigating dating, partnerships, marriage, and the dynamics of personal relationships. Reddit has the largest and most active communities here, spanning advice for long-distance couples, relationship challenges, and general discussion about dating and love, with some Discord servers for more real-time conversation.
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