r/AskMenOver30

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About r/AskMenOver30

AskMenOver30 is a place for supportive and friendly conversations relevant to men over 30.

The community at a glance

r/AskMenOver30 is a Subreddit for Relationships with roughly 711K members. It has been around since 2013. It uses a forum format for communication. It is the 5th largest community in the Relationships topic page.

Roughly 85K members have joined in the past year. Popular discussion topics include Struggling, Struggles, and Relationships. Product recommendations often mention books, boxer briefs, and shampoo.

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Established 2013
711K Members

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Yearly: +85K members
Growth: +13.6% / year

Member growth over time

All time (yearly)

  • 2014: 5K members
  • 2015: 5K members
  • 2016: 5K members
  • 2017: 12K members
  • 2018: 54K members
  • 2019: 40K members
  • 2020: 13K members
  • 2021: 194K members
  • 2022: 111K members
  • 2023: 20K members
  • 2024: 90K members
  • 2025: 122K members
  • 2026: 38K members

Past year (monthly)

  • Jul: 7K members
  • Aug: 7K members
  • Sep: 5K members
  • Oct: 5K members
  • Nov: 12K members
  • Dec: 8K members
  • Jan: 10K members
  • Feb: 6K members
  • Mar: 7K members
  • Apr: 6K members
  • May: 6K members
  • Jun: 3K members

Topics

  • Struggling
    43 posts in the past month
    #1
    Struggling
    43
  • Struggles
    37 posts in the past month
    #2
    Struggles
    37
  • Relationships
    29 posts in the past month
    #3
    Relationships
    29
  • Career
    27 posts in the past month
    #4
    Career
    27
  • Relationship
    25 posts in the past month
    #5
    Relationship
    25

Flair

  • Life
    39 posts in the past month
    1. I’m 37 and feel like my life as I know it is over
    2. Married men, what are some things your wife does to make you happy?
    3. Post 30: How do you view women . Has your respective changed then what it was in your 20s.
    #1
    Life
    I’m 37 and feel like my life as I know it is over · Married men, what are some things your wife does to make you happy? · Post 30: How do you view women . Has your respective changed then what it was in your 20s.
    39
  • Physical Health & Aging
    31 posts in the past month
    1. Anyone else feeling this as 30+ male
    2. Former fat guys, how did you become disciplined enough to lose the weight?
    3. Men who regularly work out and hit the gym: can you still lift as heavy as you could when you were younger, or has your max actually gone up over the years?
    #2
    Physical Health & Aging
    Anyone else feeling this as 30+ male · Former fat guys, how did you become disciplined enough to lose the weight? · Men who regularly work out and hit the gym: can you still lift as heavy as you could when you were younger, or has your max actually gone up over the years?
    31
  • Career Jobs Work
    28 posts in the past month
    1. Should I buy the small company I work for?
    2. Men who spent years prioritising work, what did you learn?
    3. 36m, 100k income but HATE my job. . Any of you guys in my spot take a pay cut to manage stress? How’d it go?
    #3
    Career Jobs Work
    Should I buy the small company I work for? · Men who spent years prioritising work, what did you learn? · 36m, 100k income but HATE my job. . Any of you guys in my spot take a pay cut to manage stress? How’d it go?
    28
  • General
    24 posts in the past month
    1. Men what was your "I'm getting old moment"
    2. Where are we 30+ men buying jeans nowadays?
    3. How do I escape the matrix?
    #4
    General
    Men what was your "I'm getting old moment" · Where are we 30+ men buying jeans nowadays? · How do I escape the matrix?
    24
  • Mental health experiences
    13 posts in the past month
    1. In 4 days, I will have lived longer than my father. Im not sure how to feel but Ive stayed anxious.
    2. If you're a man victim of rape by a woman can I ask you something?
    3. Do you regret having kids?
    #5
    Mental health experiences
    In 4 days, I will have lived longer than my father. Im not sure how to feel but Ive stayed anxious. · If you're a man victim of rape by a woman can I ask you something? · Do you regret having kids?
    13

Product recommendations

  • books
    10 posts in the past month
    1. What books would you recommend for a man (early 40s) to read to gain sexual confidence?
    2. Recommended books for Men
    3. Can Anyone Recommend Books or Videos About Online Dating?
    #1
    books
    What books would you recommend for a man (early 40s) to read to gain sexual confidence? · Recommended books for Men · Can Anyone Recommend Books or Videos About Online Dating?
    10
  • boxer briefs
    8 posts in the past month
    1. Guys that switched back to briefs, are there any brands you recommend?
    2. Guys that switched back to briefs, are there any brands you recommend?
    3. Men that switched back to briefs, are there any brands you recommend?
    #2
    boxer briefs
    Guys that switched back to briefs, are there any brands you recommend? · Guys that switched back to briefs, are there any brands you recommend? · Men that switched back to briefs, are there any brands you recommend?
    8
  • shampoo
    2 posts in the past month
    1. Best shampoo and conditioner for thickening?
    2. Can you recommend a decent shampoo?
    #3
    shampoo
    Best shampoo and conditioner for thickening? · Can you recommend a decent shampoo?
    2
  • torch
    2 posts in the past month
    1. Which torch would you recommend for a dad with 2 kids - generic use
    2. Which torch would you recommend?
    #4
    torch
    Which torch would you recommend for a dad with 2 kids - generic use · Which torch would you recommend?
    2
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Frequently asked questions

Who is r/AskMenOver30 for?
Best for Relationships enthusiasts looking for a Reddit-based community with forum discussion.
Is r/AskMenOver30 free to join?
This listing is not marked as paid-only. Access rules and any fees are decided by the community.
How many members does r/AskMenOver30 have?
Roughly 711K members, based on figures reported by the community or its host. Member counts are approximate and change over time.
What platform is r/AskMenOver30 on?
r/AskMenOver30 runs on Reddit. Reddit communities (or "subreddits") are forum-based groups on the popular social news aggregation, web content rating, and discussion website Reddit. Reddit is commonly known as "the front page of the internet". Users submit content to the site such as links, text posts, and images, which are then voted up or down and discussed by other members. From investing Reddit communities, to professional ones, to ones just for laughs, you're likely to find a community for you on Reddit.
What topics does r/AskMenOver30 cover?
On the Hive Index, r/AskMenOver30 is organized under Relationships.
How do I join r/AskMenOver30?
You can join r/AskMenOver30 by clicking this link, or pressing the "Go to community" button above.
What are the Relationships communities like?
Communities for people navigating dating, partnerships, marriage, and the dynamics of personal relationships. Reddit has the largest and most active communities here, spanning advice for long-distance couples, relationship challenges, and general discussion about dating and love, with some Discord servers for more real-time conversation.
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