r/AskMenOver30

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About r/AskMenOver30

AskMenOver30 is a place for supportive and friendly conversations relevant to men over 30.

The community at a glance

r/AskMenOver30 is a Subreddit for Relationships with roughly 724K members. It has been around since 2013. It uses a forum format for communication. It is the 5th largest community in the Relationships topic page.

Roughly 90K members have joined in the past year. Popular discussion topics include Struggling, Struggles, and Relationships. Product recommendations often mention books, boxer briefs, and shampoo.

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Established 2013
724K Members

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Subreddit Analysis

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Yearly: +90K members
Growth: +14.2% / year

Member growth over time

All time (yearly)

  • 2014: 5K members
  • 2015: 5K members
  • 2016: 5K members
  • 2017: 12K members
  • 2018: 54K members
  • 2019: 40K members
  • 2020: 13K members
  • 2021: 194K members
  • 2022: 111K members
  • 2023: 20K members
  • 2024: 90K members
  • 2025: 122K members
  • 2026: 52K members

Past year (monthly)

  • Aug: 7K members
  • Sep: 5K members
  • Oct: 5K members
  • Nov: 12K members
  • Dec: 8K members
  • Jan: 10K members
  • Feb: 6K members
  • Mar: 7K members
  • Apr: 6K members
  • May: 6K members
  • Jun: 7K members
  • Jul: 9K members

Topics

  • Struggling
    43 posts in the past month
    #1
    Struggling
    43
  • Struggles
    37 posts in the past month
    #2
    Struggles
    37
  • Relationships
    29 posts in the past month
    #3
    Relationships
    29
  • Career
    27 posts in the past month
    #4
    Career
    27
  • Relationship
    25 posts in the past month
    #5
    Relationship
    25

Flair

  • Life
    7 posts in the past month
    1. 32 and not sure what I want in life anymore after years of trauma/wearing a mask, anyone been through it?
    2. Can your hobbies/interests change as you get older?
    3. Trying not to conflict
    #1
    Life
    32 and not sure what I want in life anymore after years of trauma/wearing a mask, anyone been through it? · Can your hobbies/interests change as you get older? · Trying not to conflict
    7
  • General
    6 posts in the past month
    1. Anyone else feel like some dudes assume every man is as horny as they are?
    2. Books every nearly 30y/o male should read?
    3. 52M waking up strictly at 4:00 AM after 5 hours of sleep. Anyone else deal with this?
    #2
    General
    Anyone else feel like some dudes assume every man is as horny as they are? · Books every nearly 30y/o male should read? · 52M waking up strictly at 4:00 AM after 5 hours of sleep. Anyone else deal with this?
    6
  • Mental health experiences
    6 posts in the past month
    1. 29M thinking about therapy for the first time; worried it won't get my situation
    2. Is it fine to not be very intelligent?
    3. How can I stop regretting small and big decisions?”
    #3
    Mental health experiences
    29M thinking about therapy for the first time; worried it won't get my situation · Is it fine to not be very intelligent? · How can I stop regretting small and big decisions?”
    6
  • Romance/dating
    5 posts in the past month
    1. Need Mens perspective. 35F 39M
    2. I can’t handle rejection anymore
    3. Can someone want you but not actually be interested in you?
    #4
    Romance/dating
    Need Mens perspective. 35F 39M · I can’t handle rejection anymore · Can someone want you but not actually be interested in you?
    5
  • Physical Health & Aging
    5 posts in the past month
    1. What's the best ways to work out at home?
    2. Is it usually people that have bad habits that say they're getting old past 30 and do they even know it?
    3. I’m 40 with a full head of hair and people keep telling me I should cut
    #5
    Physical Health & Aging
    What's the best ways to work out at home? · Is it usually people that have bad habits that say they're getting old past 30 and do they even know it? · I’m 40 with a full head of hair and people keep telling me I should cut
    5

Product recommendations

  • books
    10 posts in the past month
    1. What books would you recommend for a man (early 40s) to read to gain sexual confidence?
    2. Recommended books for Men
    3. Can Anyone Recommend Books or Videos About Online Dating?
    #1
    books
    What books would you recommend for a man (early 40s) to read to gain sexual confidence? · Recommended books for Men · Can Anyone Recommend Books or Videos About Online Dating?
    10
  • boxer briefs
    8 posts in the past month
    1. Guys that switched back to briefs, are there any brands you recommend?
    2. Guys that switched back to briefs, are there any brands you recommend?
    3. Men that switched back to briefs, are there any brands you recommend?
    #2
    boxer briefs
    Guys that switched back to briefs, are there any brands you recommend? · Guys that switched back to briefs, are there any brands you recommend? · Men that switched back to briefs, are there any brands you recommend?
    8
  • shampoo
    2 posts in the past month
    1. Best shampoo and conditioner for thickening?
    2. Can you recommend a decent shampoo?
    #3
    shampoo
    Best shampoo and conditioner for thickening? · Can you recommend a decent shampoo?
    2
  • torch
    2 posts in the past month
    1. Which torch would you recommend for a dad with 2 kids - generic use
    2. Which torch would you recommend?
    #4
    torch
    Which torch would you recommend for a dad with 2 kids - generic use · Which torch would you recommend?
    2
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Frequently asked questions

Who is r/AskMenOver30 for?
Best for Relationships enthusiasts looking for a Reddit-based community with forum discussion.
Is r/AskMenOver30 free to join?
This listing is not marked as paid-only. Access rules and any fees are decided by the community.
How many members does r/AskMenOver30 have?
Roughly 724K members, based on figures reported by the community or its host. Member counts are approximate and change over time.
What platform is r/AskMenOver30 on?
r/AskMenOver30 runs on Reddit. Reddit communities (or "subreddits") are forum-based groups on the popular social news aggregation, web content rating, and discussion website Reddit. Reddit is commonly known as "the front page of the internet". Users submit content to the site such as links, text posts, and images, which are then voted up or down and discussed by other members. From investing Reddit communities, to professional ones, to ones just for laughs, you're likely to find a community for you on Reddit.
What topics does r/AskMenOver30 cover?
On the Hive Index, r/AskMenOver30 is organized under Relationships.
How do I join r/AskMenOver30?
You can join r/AskMenOver30 by clicking this link, or pressing the "Go to community" button above.
What are the Relationships communities like?
Communities for people navigating dating, partnerships, marriage, and the dynamics of personal relationships. Reddit has the largest and most active communities here, spanning advice for long-distance couples, relationship challenges, and general discussion about dating and love, with some Discord servers for more real-time conversation.
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