r/AskMenOver30

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About r/AskMenOver30

AskMenOver30 is a place for supportive and friendly conversations relevant to men over 30.

The community at a glance

r/AskMenOver30 is a Subreddit for Relationships with roughly 736K members. It has been around since 2013. It uses a forum format for communication. It is the 5th largest community in the Relationships topic page.

Roughly 88K members have joined in the past year. Popular discussion topics include Struggling, Struggles, and Relationships. Product recommendations often mention books, boxer briefs, and shampoo.

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Established 2013
736K Members

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Yearly: +88K members
Growth: +13.6% / year

Member growth over time

All time (yearly)

  • 2014: 5K members
  • 2015: 5K members
  • 2016: 5K members
  • 2017: 12K members
  • 2018: 54K members
  • 2019: 40K members
  • 2020: 13K members
  • 2021: 194K members
  • 2022: 111K members
  • 2023: 20K members
  • 2024: 90K members
  • 2025: 122K members
  • 2026: 63K members

Past year (monthly)

  • Oct: 5K members
  • Nov: 12K members
  • Dec: 8K members
  • Jan: 10K members
  • Feb: 6K members
  • Mar: 7K members
  • Apr: 6K members
  • May: 6K members
  • Jun: 7K members
  • Jul: 10K members
  • Aug: 6K members
  • Sep: 4K members

Topics

  • Struggling
    43 posts in the past month
    #1
    Struggling
    43
  • Struggles
    37 posts in the past month
    #2
    Struggles
    37
  • Relationships
    29 posts in the past month
    #3
    Relationships
    29
  • Career
    27 posts in the past month
    #4
    Career
    27
  • Relationship
    25 posts in the past month
    #5
    Relationship
    25

Flair

  • Life
    15 posts in the past month
    1. Do you think Chris Rock was right?
    2. Fatherless men seeking a rite of passage in late 30s early 40s
    3. Do you ever still think about that woman who got away? How do you deal with it?
    #1
    Life
    Do you think Chris Rock was right? · Fatherless men seeking a rite of passage in late 30s early 40s · Do you ever still think about that woman who got away? How do you deal with it?
    15
  • Mental health experiences
    9 posts in the past month
    1. My middle-aged male friends can't distinguish between AI and non-AI content anymore. Why is this happening?
    2. How can I help my friend curb his drinking?
    3. Books/resources for a man with zero sex drive and no libido (who wants to get it back)
    #2
    Mental health experiences
    My middle-aged male friends can't distinguish between AI and non-AI content anymore. Why is this happening? · How can I help my friend curb his drinking? · Books/resources for a man with zero sex drive and no libido (who wants to get it back)
    9
  • General
    7 posts in the past month
    1. Why are so many young men gambling?
    2. Did any of you go from a total failure in their 20s to having a decent/good life in their 30s and above? If yes, how?
    3. Anyone involved in something like Rotary or Kiwanis?
    #3
    General
    Why are so many young men gambling? · Did any of you go from a total failure in their 20s to having a decent/good life in their 30s and above? If yes, how? · Anyone involved in something like Rotary or Kiwanis?
    7
  • Physical Health & Aging
    7 posts in the past month
    1. Men who have had multiple male relatives die 'early', do you think about your own mortality and whether or not you'll make it to old age?
    2. Non Obvious Things That Helped With Weight Loss?
    3. Coping with extreme fear of death/mortality?
    #4
    Physical Health & Aging
    Men who have had multiple male relatives die 'early', do you think about your own mortality and whether or not you'll make it to old age? · Non Obvious Things That Helped With Weight Loss? · Coping with extreme fear of death/mortality?
    7
  • Friendships/Community
    5 posts in the past month
    1. How do you deal with increasing isolation in your 30s (and beyond)?
    2. male friend is cutting off contact to his family – how do i support?
    3. Did any of you struggle with friendships in your teens and 20s and then get better at it once you reached your 30s?
    #5
    Friendships/Community
    How do you deal with increasing isolation in your 30s (and beyond)? · male friend is cutting off contact to his family – how do i support? · Did any of you struggle with friendships in your teens and 20s and then get better at it once you reached your 30s?
    5

Product recommendations

  • books
    10 posts in the past month
    1. What books would you recommend for a man (early 40s) to read to gain sexual confidence?
    2. Recommended books for Men
    3. Can Anyone Recommend Books or Videos About Online Dating?
    #1
    books
    What books would you recommend for a man (early 40s) to read to gain sexual confidence? · Recommended books for Men · Can Anyone Recommend Books or Videos About Online Dating?
    10
  • boxer briefs
    8 posts in the past month
    1. Guys that switched back to briefs, are there any brands you recommend?
    2. Guys that switched back to briefs, are there any brands you recommend?
    3. Men that switched back to briefs, are there any brands you recommend?
    #2
    boxer briefs
    Guys that switched back to briefs, are there any brands you recommend? · Guys that switched back to briefs, are there any brands you recommend? · Men that switched back to briefs, are there any brands you recommend?
    8
  • shampoo
    2 posts in the past month
    1. Best shampoo and conditioner for thickening?
    2. Can you recommend a decent shampoo?
    #3
    shampoo
    Best shampoo and conditioner for thickening? · Can you recommend a decent shampoo?
    2
  • torch
    2 posts in the past month
    1. Which torch would you recommend for a dad with 2 kids - generic use
    2. Which torch would you recommend?
    #4
    torch
    Which torch would you recommend for a dad with 2 kids - generic use · Which torch would you recommend?
    2
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Frequently asked questions

Who is r/AskMenOver30 for?
Best for Relationships enthusiasts looking for a Reddit-based community with forum discussion.
Is r/AskMenOver30 free to join?
This listing is not marked as paid-only. Access rules and any fees are decided by the community.
How many members does r/AskMenOver30 have?
Roughly 736K members, based on figures reported by the community or its host. Member counts are approximate and change over time.
What platform is r/AskMenOver30 on?
r/AskMenOver30 runs on Reddit. Reddit communities (or "subreddits") are forum-based groups on the popular social news aggregation, web content rating, and discussion website Reddit. Reddit is commonly known as "the front page of the internet". Users submit content to the site such as links, text posts, and images, which are then voted up or down and discussed by other members. From investing Reddit communities, to professional ones, to ones just for laughs, you're likely to find a community for you on Reddit.
What topics does r/AskMenOver30 cover?
On the Hive Index, r/AskMenOver30 is organized under Relationships.
How do I join r/AskMenOver30?
You can join r/AskMenOver30 by clicking this link, or pressing the "Go to community" button above.
What are the Relationships communities like?
Communities for people navigating dating, partnerships, marriage, and the dynamics of personal relationships. Reddit has the largest and most active communities here, spanning advice for long-distance couples, relationship challenges, and general discussion about dating and love, with some Discord servers for more real-time conversation.
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