17 LGBTQIA chat communities
Updated 5/13/2026
r/BisexualMen
on reddit
This page is a supportive place for bisexual, bicurious, polysexual, and pansexual men (whether they be cis, trans, or nonbinary), even those who are unsure of their orientation or questioning it. Give and get advice, rant, and share your struggles and victories.81K members
ForumChat101 views / month

r/latebloomerlesbians
on reddit
Some of us are married to men, some of us are dating them, and some of us are chronically single. But we well have one thing in common: we are late to the coming out game. A place for queer, gay, bi, pan, lesbian, trans and questioning humans to share, give advice, and receive support! We welcome discussions that explore what life looks like or could look like as a “late bloomer” lesbian. This includes talk around sexuality, sensuality, life, friendships, random thoughts, fun, and more.142K members
ForumChat94 views / month

r/gaymers
on reddit
Gaymers has been forced to re-open after our protest of the assassination of 3rd party applications. Gaymers is a place for LGBTQIA gamers of all stripes to share their nerdery & geekery.311K members
ForumChat55 views / month

LGBTQ Marketers
on slack
We are a community for LGBTQ+ digital marketers to network, find support, and share knowledge. All levels of career experience welcome. Meet your queer peers here!147 members
ChatJobs25 views / month
Queer in AI
on slack
More than 500 folks are in the Queer in AI slack community. Our slack consists of dedicated channels for research, advice, announcements and discussion of many topics.500 members
ChatEventsNewsletter15 views / month
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Gay+ Men Meditating
on discord
A friendly and safe group for gay+ (gay, bisexual, bi-curious) men who practice meditation and yoga to make friends, support and encourage each other and to practice yoga and meditation together online.733 members
ChatApply17 views / month

r/AskGayBrosOver30
on reddit
AskGaybrosOver30 is first and foremost a community where unstraight men over 30 can ask advice from each other. We have requirements for posting and some topics like politics, trans issues, and religion are restricted. Please read the post linked in rule 1 for more information.167K members
ForumChat14 views / month

Hexagon UX
on slack
Hexagon is a non-profit aimed to empower and support womxn and non-binary folx in UX through community, events, and mentorship.8K members
ChatApplyPairingEvents10 views / month

r/MTFButch
on reddit
A space for all trans butches, dykes, bois, soft butches, futches, all types of trans women who present more masculine. Memes, selfies, rants, or anything else you think would be relevant! Join our discord! https://discord.gg/YFwKxe5NpV14K members
ForumChat8 views / month
LGBTQ in Technology
on slack
A space for LGBTQ people in technology to chat and support each other. We strive to keep it safe, positive, and confidential.Chat8 views / month
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Out In Tech
Out in Tech is the world’s largest non-profit community of LGBTQ+ tech leaders. We create opportunities for our 40,000 members to advance their careers, grow their networks, and leverage tech for social change.40K members
ChatPairingEventsNewsletterJobs11 views / month

Rainbow Developers
on slack
Welcome to Rainbow Devs, a vibrant community of passionate developers committed to embracing diversity and creativity in the world of coding! Our mission is to foster an inclusive space where developers of all backgrounds can collaborate, learn, and shine in their coding journey. We believe that diversity strengthens our code, making it more innovative and impactful.75 members
ChatPairingEventsCourses4 views / month

My Gay Flatmate
We help LGBT people to find LGBT homes.2K members
ChatPairingJobs6 views / month

r/FTMOver30
on reddit
A place for FTM/FTN/FTX folk over 30 to come together for support and discussion. If your life experiences better align with those who are usually over 30, you're welcome here. Over 50? Try joining r/FTMOver50 also!22K members
ForumChat7 views / month

r/detrans
on reddit
Welcome all detransitioners/desisters and self-questioners. Please self-identify your detrans status with user flair, or your content will be removed (medical or legal professionals, please message mods for an exception). Post anything about gender detransition. Ask questions, share memes, inspire, vent, wonder, etc. Abide by our rules (listed in the right rail below) - Discord invites temporarily paused.64K members
ForumChat14 views / month

Aro Rodeo
on discord
Howdy partner, Aro Rodeo is a safe community for asexual and aromantic individuals and allies. Stop by to socialize, meet friends and relax.531 members
Chat8 views / month
LGBTQ in Tech
on slack
The LGBTQ in Technology Slack is a space for LGBTQ people in technology to chat and support each other. We strive to keep it safe, positive, and confidential. Friends and allies: we appreciate your support, but this space is for us.Chat8 views / month
FAQ
Community size
- Tiny: 0 communities (<20 members)
- Small: 1 communities (20-100 members)
- Medium: 4 communities (100-1,000 members)
- Large: 2 communities (1,000-10,000 members)
- Huge: 5 communities (10,000-100,000 members)
- Massive: 3 communities (100,000-1M members)
- Gigantic: 0 communities (1M+ members)
Community features
- 17Live ChatReal-time chat for members
- 7ForumThreaded discussions and forum-style posts
- 4Online/Offline EventsHosts online or offline events
- 4PairingMatches members for intros, accountability, or networking
- 3Job BoardIncludes jobs, hiring, or opportunity posts
Community platforms
- Reddit: 51 communities
- Slack: 6 communities
- Discord: 2 communities
- Facebook: 2 communities
