r/BisexualMen

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About r/BisexualMen

This page is a supportive place for bisexual, bicurious, polysexual, and pansexual men (whether they be cis, trans, or nonbinary), even those who are unsure of their orientation or questioning it. Give and get advice, rant, and share your struggles and victories.

The community at a glance

r/BisexualMen is a Subreddit for LGBTQIA+ with roughly 78K members. It has been around since 2019. It has both a forum and a live chat communication style. On the Hive Index it ranks #2 in the LGBTQIA communities list.

Roughly 17K members have joined in the past year. Popular discussion topics include Bisexual, Bisexuality, and Relationships. Product recommendations often mention dating apps.

On Reddit
Established 2019
78K Members

Community Topics

Community Features

Forum

This community has a forum

Chat

This community has a realtime chat

Subreddit Analysis

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Yearly: +17K members
Growth: +27.2% / year

Member growth over time

All time (yearly)

  • 2020: 8K members
  • 2021: 11K members
  • 2023: 23K members
  • 2024: 9K members
  • 2025: 12K members
  • 2026: 10K members

Past year (monthly)

  • Jul: 970 members
  • Aug: 1K members
  • Sep: 760 members
  • Oct: 705 members
  • Nov: 2K members
  • Dec: 2K members
  • Jan: 2K members
  • Feb: 2K members
  • Mar: 2K members
  • Apr: 2K members
  • May: 2K members
  • Jun: 1K members

Topics

  • Bisexual
    29 posts in the past month
    #1
    Bisexual
    29
  • Bisexuality
    24 posts in the past month
    #2
    Bisexuality
    24
  • Relationships
    16 posts in the past month
    #3
    Relationships
    16
  • Coming Out
    11 posts in the past month
    #4
    Coming Out
    11
  • Attraction
    11 posts in the past month
    #5
    Attraction
    11

Flair

  • Advice
    40 posts in the past month
    1. Curious guys: how do you manage your bi-cycle
    2. Married but Bi or gay?
    3. Have other bi guys found themselves using gay hookups as easy validation?
    #1
    Advice
    Curious guys: how do you manage your bi-cycle · Married but Bi or gay? · Have other bi guys found themselves using gay hookups as easy validation?
    40
  • Question
    25 posts in the past month
    1. Bi Dads? 🤔
    2. Showering with a straight friend
    3. Anyone get curious in their 40s?
    #2
    Question
    Bi Dads? 🤔 · Showering with a straight friend · Anyone get curious in their 40s?
    25
  • Experience
    15 posts in the past month
    1. I (F) had sex with a bisexual man and it changed my life
    2. Upside Down Pineapple = Swingers?!
    3. Being bisexual is somehow feeling too queer and not queer enough at the exact same time.
    #3
    Experience
    I (F) had sex with a bisexual man and it changed my life · Upside Down Pineapple = Swingers?! · Being bisexual is somehow feeling too queer and not queer enough at the exact same time.
    15
  • Venting
    12 posts in the past month
    1. There is literally nothing good said about bisexual men on the internet compared to women
    2. Why are the men in straight porn so damn ugly?
    3. Where are the gentle men?
    #4
    Venting
    There is literally nothing good said about bisexual men on the internet compared to women · Why are the men in straight porn so damn ugly? · Where are the gentle men?
    12
  • Coming Out
    10 posts in the past month
    1. Finally :)
    2. It turns me on when my sexual orientation is revealed
    3. 21M Finally feeling accepting of myself during this pride month and going absolutely feral 🤭
    #5
    Coming Out
    Finally :) · It turns me on when my sexual orientation is revealed · 21M Finally feeling accepting of myself during this pride month and going absolutely feral 🤭
    10

Product recommendations

  • dating apps
    2 posts in the past month
    1. Best Dating Apps in the UK
    2. Trying to get some courage in setting up my online dating profile. It gets a bit overwhelming with the different options. Which ones do you guys recommend?
    #1
    dating apps
    Best Dating Apps in the UK · Trying to get some courage in setting up my online dating profile. It gets a bit overwhelming with the different options. Which ones do you guys recommend?
    2
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Frequently asked questions

Who is r/BisexualMen for?
Best for LGBTQIA+ enthusiasts looking for a Reddit-based community with forum discussion, live chat.
Is r/BisexualMen free to join?
This listing is not marked as paid-only. Access rules and any fees are decided by the community.
How many members does r/BisexualMen have?
Roughly 78K members, based on figures reported by the community or its host. Member counts are approximate and change over time.
What platform is r/BisexualMen on?
r/BisexualMen runs on Reddit. Reddit communities (or "subreddits") are forum-based groups on the popular social news aggregation, web content rating, and discussion website Reddit. Reddit is commonly known as "the front page of the internet". Users submit content to the site such as links, text posts, and images, which are then voted up or down and discussed by other members. From investing Reddit communities, to professional ones, to ones just for laughs, you're likely to find a community for you on Reddit.
What topics does r/BisexualMen cover?
On the Hive Index, r/BisexualMen is organized under LGBTQIA+.
How do I join r/BisexualMen?
You can join r/BisexualMen by clicking this link, or pressing the "Go to community" button above.
What are the LGBTQIA communities like?
Communities for LGBTQIA+ people covering social connection, identity, mental health, and advocacy. Discord is a major hub with large and small servers for everything from general queer community to specific identities and interests, alongside subreddits and dedicated platforms for support and discussion.
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