r/BisexualMen

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About r/BisexualMen

This page is a supportive place for bisexual, bicurious, polysexual, and pansexual men (whether they be cis, trans, or nonbinary), even those who are unsure of their orientation or questioning it. Give and get advice, rant, and share your struggles and victories.

The community at a glance

r/BisexualMen is a Subreddit for LGBTQIA+ with roughly 82K members. It has been around since 2019. It has both a forum and a live chat communication style. On the Hive Index it ranks #1 in the LGBTQIA communities list.

Roughly 18K members have joined in the past year. Popular discussion topics include Bisexual, Bisexuality, and Relationships. Product recommendations often mention dating apps.

On Reddit
Established 2019
82K Members

Community Topics

Community Features

Forum

This community has a forum

Chat

This community has a realtime chat

Subreddit Analysis

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Yearly: +18K members
Growth: +27.9% / year

Member growth over time

All time (yearly)

  • 2020: 8K members
  • 2021: 11K members
  • 2023: 23K members
  • 2024: 9K members
  • 2025: 12K members
  • 2026: 13K members

Past year (monthly)

  • Oct: 705 members
  • Nov: 2K members
  • Dec: 2K members
  • Jan: 2K members
  • Feb: 2K members
  • Mar: 2K members
  • Apr: 2K members
  • May: 2K members
  • Jun: 2K members
  • Jul: 2K members
  • Aug: 1K members
  • Sep: 332 members

Topics

  • Bisexual
    29 posts in the past month
    #1
    Bisexual
    29
  • Bisexuality
    24 posts in the past month
    #2
    Bisexuality
    24
  • Relationships
    16 posts in the past month
    #3
    Relationships
    16
  • Coming Out
    11 posts in the past month
    #4
    Coming Out
    11
  • Attraction
    11 posts in the past month
    #5
    Attraction
    11

Flair

  • Question
    32 posts in the past month
    1. I love talking to bisexual men
    2. Do you think there are more bi/curious men around us than we realise?
    3. Would you do a Bi Poly relationship?
    #1
    Question
    I love talking to bisexual men · Do you think there are more bi/curious men around us than we realise? · Would you do a Bi Poly relationship?
    32
  • Advice
    23 posts in the past month
    1. Bisexual in a straight relationship
    2. First Date with a Guy
    3. Considering the option that I might actually be gay, not sure how to handle this
    #2
    Advice
    Bisexual in a straight relationship · First Date with a Guy · Considering the option that I might actually be gay, not sure how to handle this
    23
  • Struggle
    13 posts in the past month
    1. I told the waiter he was cute
    2. Any other bicurious but committed and monogamous guys struggle with their sexuality?
    3. Coming Out
    #3
    Struggle
    I told the waiter he was cute · Any other bicurious but committed and monogamous guys struggle with their sexuality? · Coming Out
    13
  • Venting
    9 posts in the past month
    1. This is frustrating
    2. I don't like being bisexual. I fell that my life would be easy if I was just gay.
    3. BL fantasies and the female gaze
    #4
    Venting
    This is frustrating · I don't like being bisexual. I fell that my life would be easy if I was just gay. · BL fantasies and the female gaze
    9
  • Experience
    8 posts in the past month
    1. To the bi men here: you’re more appreciated than you probably realize
    2. Huge thanks to this sub for refreshing conversations about being bi
    3. how many bi guys only have sex with men?
    #5
    Experience
    To the bi men here: you’re more appreciated than you probably realize · Huge thanks to this sub for refreshing conversations about being bi · how many bi guys only have sex with men?
    8

Product recommendations

  • dating apps
    2 posts in the past month
    1. Best Dating Apps in the UK
    2. Trying to get some courage in setting up my online dating profile. It gets a bit overwhelming with the different options. Which ones do you guys recommend?
    #1
    dating apps
    Best Dating Apps in the UK · Trying to get some courage in setting up my online dating profile. It gets a bit overwhelming with the different options. Which ones do you guys recommend?
    2
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Frequently asked questions

Who is r/BisexualMen for?
Best for LGBTQIA+ enthusiasts looking for a Reddit-based community with forum discussion, live chat.
Is r/BisexualMen free to join?
This listing is not marked as paid-only. Access rules and any fees are decided by the community.
How many members does r/BisexualMen have?
Roughly 82K members, based on figures reported by the community or its host. Member counts are approximate and change over time.
What platform is r/BisexualMen on?
r/BisexualMen runs on Reddit. Reddit communities (or "subreddits") are forum-based groups on the popular social news aggregation, web content rating, and discussion website Reddit. Reddit is commonly known as "the front page of the internet". Users submit content to the site such as links, text posts, and images, which are then voted up or down and discussed by other members. From investing Reddit communities, to professional ones, to ones just for laughs, you're likely to find a community for you on Reddit.
What topics does r/BisexualMen cover?
On the Hive Index, r/BisexualMen is organized under LGBTQIA+.
How do I join r/BisexualMen?
You can join r/BisexualMen by clicking this link, or pressing the "Go to community" button above.
What are the LGBTQIA communities like?
Communities for LGBTQIA+ people covering social connection, identity, mental health, and advocacy. Discord is a major hub with large and small servers for everything from general queer community to specific identities and interests, alongside subreddits and dedicated platforms for support and discussion.
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