About r/BisexualMen
This page is a supportive place for bisexual, bicurious, polysexual, and pansexual men (whether they be cis, trans, or nonbinary), even those who are unsure of their orientation or questioning it. Give and get advice, rant, and share your struggles and victories.
The community at a glance
r/BisexualMen is a Subreddit for LGBTQIA+ with roughly 83K members. It has been around since 2019. It has both a forum and a live chat communication style. On the Hive Index it ranks #2 in the LGBTQIA communities list.
Roughly 18K members have joined in the past year. Popular discussion topics include Bisexual, Bisexuality, and Relationships. Product recommendations often mention dating apps.
Community Topics
Subreddit Analysis
via GummySearchMember growth over time
All time (yearly)
- 2020: 8K members
- 2021: 11K members
- 2023: 23K members
- 2024: 9K members
- 2025: 12K members
- 2026: 15K members
Past year (monthly)
- Nov: 2K members
- Dec: 2K members
- Jan: 2K members
- Feb: 2K members
- Mar: 2K members
- Apr: 2K members
- May: 2K members
- Jun: 2K members
- Jul: 2K members
- Aug: 1K members
- Sep: 1K members
- Oct: 873 members
Topics
- Bisexual29 posts in the past month#129Bisexual
- Bisexuality24 posts in the past month#224Bisexuality
- Relationships16 posts in the past month#316Relationships
- Coming Out11 posts in the past month#411Coming Out
- Attraction11 posts in the past month#511Attraction
Flair
- Question16 posts in the past month
- why does bisexuality in porn exclusively refer to male bisexuality?
- How do you usually respond to people who claim bisexual men 'don't exist' or are 'just in denial'
- Sub for meeting bi men
#116Questionwhy does bisexuality in porn exclusively refer to male bisexuality? · How do you usually respond to people who claim bisexual men 'don't exist' or are 'just in denial' · Sub for meeting bi men - Advice8 posts in the past month
- question for bi men from a bi woman
- Finally accepting myself
- I don’t know how to relate to other men sexually/sensually. Help.
#28Advicequestion for bi men from a bi woman · Finally accepting myself · I don’t know how to relate to other men sexually/sensually. Help. - Venting3 posts in the past month
- I sort of get being rejected by straight women for being a bi guy, but it’s the bi women I really don’t understand
- My fwb of 5 years stopped talking to me because of my success
- How is relationship with your mother and father?
#33VentingI sort of get being rejected by straight women for being a bi guy, but it’s the bi women I really don’t understand · My fwb of 5 years stopped talking to me because of my success · How is relationship with your mother and father? - Celebratory2 posts in the past month
- I like women, but I LOVE men
- just wanna say i love y'all
#42CelebratoryI like women, but I LOVE men · just wanna say i love y'all - Experience1 post in the past month
- I just wore a butt plug
#51ExperienceI just wore a butt plug
Product recommendations
- dating apps2 posts in the past month
- Best Dating Apps in the UK
- Trying to get some courage in setting up my online dating profile. It gets a bit overwhelming with the different options. Which ones do you guys recommend?
#12dating appsBest Dating Apps in the UK · Trying to get some courage in setting up my online dating profile. It gets a bit overwhelming with the different options. Which ones do you guys recommend?
Community Reviews
Frequently asked questions
- Who is r/BisexualMen for?
- Best for LGBTQIA+ enthusiasts looking for a Reddit-based community with forum discussion, live chat.
- Is r/BisexualMen free to join?
- This listing is not marked as paid-only. Access rules and any fees are decided by the community.
- How many members does r/BisexualMen have?
- Roughly 83K members, based on figures reported by the community or its host. Member counts are approximate and change over time.
- What platform is r/BisexualMen on?
- r/BisexualMen runs on Reddit. Reddit communities (or "subreddits") are forum-based groups on the popular social news aggregation, web content rating, and discussion website Reddit. Reddit is commonly known as "the front page of the internet". Users submit content to the site such as links, text posts, and images, which are then voted up or down and discussed by other members. From investing Reddit communities, to professional ones, to ones just for laughs, you're likely to find a community for you on Reddit.
- What topics does r/BisexualMen cover?
- On the Hive Index, r/BisexualMen is organized under LGBTQIA+.
- How do I join r/BisexualMen?
- You can join r/BisexualMen by clicking this link, or pressing the "Go to community" button above.
- What are the LGBTQIA communities like?
- Communities for LGBTQIA+ people covering social connection, identity, mental health, and advocacy. Discord is a major hub with large and small servers for everything from general queer community to specific identities and interests, alongside subreddits and dedicated platforms for support and discussion.
Monthly Stats
- 107
- Views /mo (-12%)
- 77
- Visitors /mo (-1%)
- 20
- Referrals /mo (-39%)
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