r/BisexualMen

Community Overview

About r/BisexualMen

This page is a supportive place for bisexual, bicurious, polysexual, and pansexual men (whether they be cis, trans, or nonbinary), even those who are unsure of their orientation or questioning it. Give and get advice, rant, and share your struggles and victories.

The community at a glance

r/BisexualMen is a Subreddit for LGBTQIA+ with roughly 79K members. It has been around since 2019. It has both a forum and a live chat communication style. On the Hive Index it ranks #2 in the LGBTQIA communities list.

Roughly 17K members have joined in the past year. Popular discussion topics include Bisexual, Bisexuality, and Relationships. Product recommendations often mention dating apps.

On Reddit
Established 2019
79K Members

Community Features

This community has a forum

This community has a realtime chat

Subreddit Analysis

via GummySearch
Yearly: +17K members
Growth: +27.6% / year

Member growth over time

All time (yearly)

  • 2020: 8K members
  • 2021: 11K members
  • 2023: 23K members
  • 2024: 9K members
  • 2025: 12K members
  • 2026: 11K members

Past year (monthly)

  • Aug: 1K members
  • Sep: 760 members
  • Oct: 705 members
  • Nov: 2K members
  • Dec: 2K members
  • Jan: 2K members
  • Feb: 2K members
  • Mar: 2K members
  • Apr: 2K members
  • May: 2K members
  • Jun: 2K members
  • Jul: 624 members

Topics

  • Bisexual
    29 posts in the past month
    #1
    Bisexual
    29
  • Bisexuality
    24 posts in the past month
    #2
    Bisexuality
    24
  • Relationships
    16 posts in the past month
    #3
    Relationships
    16
  • Coming Out
    11 posts in the past month
    #4
    Coming Out
    11
  • Attraction
    11 posts in the past month
    #5
    Attraction
    11

Flair

  • Advice
    14 posts in the past month
    1. There’s more of us than you think…
    2. I give up
    3. How can i explore my sexuality?
    #1
    Advice
    There’s more of us than you think… · I give up · How can i explore my sexuality?
    14
  • Experience
    6 posts in the past month
    1. I’m (m37) married (f37) and had my first experience with a guy
    2. Being socially awkward and horny is often not a good combination.
    3. Understanding preferences
    #2
    Experience
    I’m (m37) married (f37) and had my first experience with a guy · Being socially awkward and horny is often not a good combination. · Understanding preferences
    6
  • Question
    3 posts in the past month
    1. Men in straight relationships
    2. Any love for chubbier guys?
    3. Am I Bi?
    #3
    Question
    Men in straight relationships · Any love for chubbier guys? · Am I Bi?
    3
  • Coming Out
    2 posts in the past month
    1. Feeling frustrated
    2. Over 30 and coming out
    #4
    Coming Out
    Feeling frustrated · Over 30 and coming out
    2
  • Struggle
    1 post in the past month
    1. Wife Accepting of Bisexuality, but Unwilling to Talk About It with Me
    #5
    Struggle
    Wife Accepting of Bisexuality, but Unwilling to Talk About It with Me
    1

Product recommendations

  • dating apps
    2 posts in the past month
    1. Best Dating Apps in the UK
    2. Trying to get some courage in setting up my online dating profile. It gets a bit overwhelming with the different options. Which ones do you guys recommend?
    #1
    dating apps
    Best Dating Apps in the UK · Trying to get some courage in setting up my online dating profile. It gets a bit overwhelming with the different options. Which ones do you guys recommend?
    2

Frequently asked questions

Who is r/BisexualMen for?
Best for LGBTQIA+ enthusiasts looking for a Reddit-based community with forum discussion, live chat.
Is r/BisexualMen free to join?
This listing is not marked as paid-only. Access rules and any fees are decided by the community.
How many members does r/BisexualMen have?
Roughly 79K members, based on figures reported by the community or its host. Member counts are approximate and change over time.
What platform is r/BisexualMen on?
r/BisexualMen runs on Reddit. Reddit communities (or "subreddits") are forum-based groups on the popular social news aggregation, web content rating, and discussion website Reddit. Reddit is commonly known as "the front page of the internet". Users submit content to the site such as links, text posts, and images, which are then voted up or down and discussed by other members. From investing Reddit communities, to professional ones, to ones just for laughs, you're likely to find a community for you on Reddit.
What topics does r/BisexualMen cover?
On the Hive Index, r/BisexualMen is organized under LGBTQIA+.
How do I join r/BisexualMen?
You can join r/BisexualMen by clicking this link, or pressing the "Go to community" button above.
What are the LGBTQIA communities like?
Communities for LGBTQIA+ people covering social connection, identity, mental health, and advocacy. Discord is a major hub with large and small servers for everything from general queer community to specific identities and interests, alongside subreddits and dedicated platforms for support and discussion.

Monthly Stats

149
Views /mo
(+10%)
103
Visitors /mo
(+2%)
31
Referrals /mo
(-16%)

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