r/BisexualMen

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About r/BisexualMen

This page is a supportive place for bisexual, bicurious, polysexual, and pansexual men (whether they be cis, trans, or nonbinary), even those who are unsure of their orientation or questioning it. Give and get advice, rant, and share your struggles and victories.

The community at a glance

r/BisexualMen is a Subreddit for LGBTQIA+ with roughly 82K members. It has been around since 2019. It has both a forum and a live chat communication style. On the Hive Index it ranks #2 in the LGBTQIA communities list.

Roughly 18K members have joined in the past year. Popular discussion topics include Bisexual, Bisexuality, and Relationships. Product recommendations often mention dating apps.

On Reddit
Established 2019
82K Members

Community Topics

Community Features

Forum

This community has a forum

Chat

This community has a realtime chat

Subreddit Analysis

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Yearly: +18K members
Growth: +28.3% / year

Member growth over time

All time (yearly)

  • 2020: 8K members
  • 2021: 11K members
  • 2023: 23K members
  • 2024: 9K members
  • 2025: 12K members
  • 2026: 14K members

Past year (monthly)

  • Nov: 2K members
  • Dec: 2K members
  • Jan: 2K members
  • Feb: 2K members
  • Mar: 2K members
  • Apr: 2K members
  • May: 2K members
  • Jun: 2K members
  • Jul: 2K members
  • Aug: 1K members
  • Sep: 1K members
  • Oct: 24 members

Topics

  • Bisexual
    29 posts in the past month
    #1
    Bisexual
    29
  • Bisexuality
    24 posts in the past month
    #2
    Bisexuality
    24
  • Relationships
    16 posts in the past month
    #3
    Relationships
    16
  • Coming Out
    11 posts in the past month
    #4
    Coming Out
    11
  • Attraction
    11 posts in the past month
    #5
    Attraction
    11

Flair

  • Question
    10 posts in the past month
    1. To the married men out there who found out later in life, how did your spouse take it?
    2. How many of us are basically almost entirely straight except for a thing for twinks?
    3. Advice on opening
    #1
    Question
    To the married men out there who found out later in life, how did your spouse take it? · How many of us are basically almost entirely straight except for a thing for twinks? · Advice on opening
    10
  • Advice
    6 posts in the past month
    1. Update RE: Newlyweds And Husband Came Out As Bi
    2. Curious in my 30s
    3. My “GF” wants me to bottom
    #2
    Advice
    Update RE: Newlyweds And Husband Came Out As Bi · Curious in my 30s · My “GF” wants me to bottom
    6
  • Experience
    5 posts in the past month
    1. Regrets of a bisexual late bloomer....
    2. Im really into men and women sexually but more romantically interested in men
    3. Tea rooms
    #3
    Experience
    Regrets of a bisexual late bloomer.... · Im really into men and women sexually but more romantically interested in men · Tea rooms
    5
  • Coming Out
    3 posts in the past month
    1. Gym Showers and Locker Rooms
    2. Slowly accepting my bisexuality....
    3. Hi im 32 bi only fooled around little with guys interested past never went the full way im single a awhile now but nun of my family ir friends know im.bi and im worried about grinder if someone find ours but im really need to try my bi side out any tips thanks
    #4
    Coming Out
    Gym Showers and Locker Rooms · Slowly accepting my bisexuality.... · Hi im 32 bi only fooled around little with guys interested past never went the full way im single a awhile now but nun of my family ir friends know im.bi and im worried about grinder if someone find ours but im really need to try my bi side out any tips thanks
    3
  • News/blogs
    1 post in the past month
    1. Bi Brazilian popstar kisses Ricky Martin in Rio in the gayest NFL halftime ever
    #5
    News/blogs
    Bi Brazilian popstar kisses Ricky Martin in Rio in the gayest NFL halftime ever
    1

Product recommendations

  • dating apps
    2 posts in the past month
    1. Best Dating Apps in the UK
    2. Trying to get some courage in setting up my online dating profile. It gets a bit overwhelming with the different options. Which ones do you guys recommend?
    #1
    dating apps
    Best Dating Apps in the UK · Trying to get some courage in setting up my online dating profile. It gets a bit overwhelming with the different options. Which ones do you guys recommend?
    2
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Frequently asked questions

Who is r/BisexualMen for?
Best for LGBTQIA+ enthusiasts looking for a Reddit-based community with forum discussion, live chat.
Is r/BisexualMen free to join?
This listing is not marked as paid-only. Access rules and any fees are decided by the community.
How many members does r/BisexualMen have?
Roughly 82K members, based on figures reported by the community or its host. Member counts are approximate and change over time.
What platform is r/BisexualMen on?
r/BisexualMen runs on Reddit. Reddit communities (or "subreddits") are forum-based groups on the popular social news aggregation, web content rating, and discussion website Reddit. Reddit is commonly known as "the front page of the internet". Users submit content to the site such as links, text posts, and images, which are then voted up or down and discussed by other members. From investing Reddit communities, to professional ones, to ones just for laughs, you're likely to find a community for you on Reddit.
What topics does r/BisexualMen cover?
On the Hive Index, r/BisexualMen is organized under LGBTQIA+.
How do I join r/BisexualMen?
You can join r/BisexualMen by clicking this link, or pressing the "Go to community" button above.
What are the LGBTQIA communities like?
Communities for LGBTQIA+ people covering social connection, identity, mental health, and advocacy. Discord is a major hub with large and small servers for everything from general queer community to specific identities and interests, alongside subreddits and dedicated platforms for support and discussion.
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Visitors /mo
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