About r/FTMOver30
A place for FTM/FTN/FTX folk over 30 to come together for support and discussion. If your life experiences better align with those who are usually over 30, you're welcome here. Over 50? Try joining r/FTMOver50 also!
The community at a glance
r/FTMOver30 is a Subreddit for LGBTQIA+ with roughly 22K members. It has been around since 2017. It has both a forum and a live chat communication style.
Roughly 3K members have joined in the past year.
Community Topics
Subreddit Analysis
via GummySearchMember growth over time
All time (yearly)
- 2024: 4K members
- 2025: 3K members
Past year (monthly)
- Nov: 307 members
- Dec: 188 members
- Jan: 108 members
- Oct: 3K members
Flair
- VENT - Advice Welcome22 posts in the past month
- The dreaded bathroom law is coming to my state
- Is being trans really this lonely?
- well i guess i’m fully out at work, explains the looks i’ve been getting
#122VENT - Advice WelcomeThe dreaded bathroom law is coming to my state · Is being trans really this lonely? · well i guess i’m fully out at work, explains the looks i’ve been getting - Need Advice18 posts in the past month
- Not sure if this is allowed...
- Anybody Else Living a Hermit-type Life to keep themselves Safe? (No friends, no dating, no relationships, no hookups?)
- Funny answers to "what's your secret to looking so young!?"
#218Need AdviceNot sure if this is allowed... · Anybody Else Living a Hermit-type Life to keep themselves Safe? (No friends, no dating, no relationships, no hookups?) · Funny answers to "what's your secret to looking so young!?" - Celebratory15 posts in the past month
- Progress the Tranz way ;)
- Met an older trans man at work recently
- Last T injection of 2024
#315CelebratoryProgress the Tranz way ;) · Met an older trans man at work recently · Last T injection of 2024 - HRT Q/A9 posts in the past month
- Weight gain on T
- Question about facial hair.
- Guidance on Hormone Progression Entering Second Year
#49HRT Q/AWeight gain on T · Question about facial hair. · Guidance on Hormone Progression Entering Second Year - Selfies7 posts in the past month
- Selfie Sunday from Jan - Dec. First year identifying fully male. Top surgery. Kicked out from + no contact with family. Happy and safe and growing. Love yall
- Felt dysphoric so I sketched myself using a reference and added facial hair and thickened my eyebrows. Realized this isn’t an impossible goal.
- Day One to 6 months on T
#57SelfiesSelfie Sunday from Jan - Dec. First year identifying fully male. Top surgery. Kicked out from + no contact with family. Happy and safe and growing. Love yall · Felt dysphoric so I sketched myself using a reference and added facial hair and thickened my eyebrows. Realized this isn’t an impossible goal. · Day One to 6 months on T
Community Reviews
Frequently asked questions
- Who is r/FTMOver30 for?
- Best for LGBTQIA+ enthusiasts looking for a Reddit-based community with forum discussion, live chat.
- Is r/FTMOver30 free to join?
- This listing is not marked as paid-only. Access rules and any fees are decided by the community.
- How many members does r/FTMOver30 have?
- Roughly 22K members, based on figures reported by the community or its host. Member counts are approximate and change over time.
- What platform is r/FTMOver30 on?
- r/FTMOver30 runs on Reddit. Reddit communities (or "subreddits") are forum-based groups on the popular social news aggregation, web content rating, and discussion website Reddit. Reddit is commonly known as "the front page of the internet". Users submit content to the site such as links, text posts, and images, which are then voted up or down and discussed by other members. From investing Reddit communities, to professional ones, to ones just for laughs, you're likely to find a community for you on Reddit.
- What topics does r/FTMOver30 cover?
- On the Hive Index, r/FTMOver30 is organized under LGBTQIA+.
- How do I join r/FTMOver30?
- You can join r/FTMOver30 by clicking this link, or pressing the "Go to community" button above.
- What are the LGBTQIA communities like?
- Communities for LGBTQIA+ people covering social connection, identity, mental health, and advocacy. Discord is a major hub with large and small servers for everything from general queer community to specific identities and interests, alongside subreddits and dedicated platforms for support and discussion.
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