BDSM Communities Report

Executive Summary

We analyzed 20 bdsm communities listed on Hive Index to understand where people gather, what these groups offer, and which communities attract the most interest.

The big picture: bdsm listings cluster on Independent Platforms, while a few large groups pull member averages up.

Source: Hive Index community database · Updated periodically

Communities
20
Platforms
5
Avg members
761K
Median members
13K

Where BDSM Communities Are Hosted

  • Independent Platforms: 16 communities (80%)
  • Reddit: 1 communities (5%)
  • Facebook: 1 communities (5%)
  • LinkedIn: 1 communities (5%)
  • Discord: 1 communities (5%)
  • Independent Platforms
    Independent Platforms
    16(80%)
  • Reddit
    1(5%)
  • Facebook
    1(5%)
  • LinkedIn
    1(5%)
  • Discord
    1(5%)

Format mix

  • Forum / feed-based
    18(90%)
  • Other platforms
    1(5%)
  • Chat communities
    1(5%)

Most listings are forum / feed-based (90%).

Independent Platforms leads with 80%, but Reddit also has a meaningful share (5%).

Audience Size & Access

Community size

  • Tiny: 0 communities (0%)
  • Small: 2 communities (10%)
  • Medium: 2 communities (10%)
  • Large: 4 communities (20%)
  • Huge: 4 communities (20%)
  • Massive: 3 communities (15%)
  • Gigantic: 1 communities (5%)
  • Tiny
    <20 members
    0(0%)
  • Small
    20-100 members
    2(10%)
  • Medium
    100-1,000 members
    2(10%)
  • Large
    1,000-10,000 members
    4(20%)
  • Huge
    10,000-100,000 members
    4(20%)
  • Massive
    100,000-1M members
    3(15%)
  • Gigantic
    1M+ members
    1(5%)

4 communities have unknown member counts.

Free vs paid

  • Free to join: 19 communities (95%)
  • Paid or apply-to-join: 1 communities (5%)

The average is much higher than the median (761K vs 13K), which usually means a few large groups are pulling the average up.

How BDSM Differs From Other Categories

BDSM is more free-to-join, and smaller, compared with typical Hive Index topics.

MetricBDSMHive Index average
Free to join95%84%
Median members13K25K
Average members761K672K
Paid or apply-to-join5%16%
Live chat45%41%
Discord share5%18%

Feature Mix

Common features appear in at least 15% of listings.

Common Features

  • Forum: 17 communities (85%)
  • Live Chat: 9 communities (45%)
  • Online/Offline Events: 5 communities (25%)
  • Pairing: 3 communities (15%)
  • Forum
    85%
  • Live Chat
    45%
  • Online/Offline Events
    25%
  • Pairing
    15%

Niche Features

  • Courses: 1 communities (5%)
  • Newsletter: 1 communities (5%)
  • Paid Community: 1 communities (5%)
  • Courses
    5%
  • Newsletter
    5%
  • Paid Community
    5%

Forum appears on 85% of listings.

What Visitors Click

Outbound clicks / mo
1K

Platform supply vs. clicks

PlatformCommunitiesShare of communitiesOutbound clicksShare of clicks
Independent Platforms1680%
1K84%
Reddit15%
212%
Facebook15%
101%
LinkedIn15%
50%
Discord15%
18113%

Share is calculated within this topic.

Independent Platforms hosts 80% of listings and 84% of clicks, so supply and interest line up.

Most-clicked formats

  • Forum / feed-based
    1K(86%)
  • Chat communities
    181(13%)
  • Other platforms
    5(0%)

Most-clicked features

  • Forum
    1K(95%)
  • Live Chat
    1K(79%)
  • Online/Offline Events
    982(73%)
  • Pairing
    921(69%)
  • Newsletter
    723(54%)
  • Courses
    181(13%)

Most-clicked size ranges

  • Huge
    857(64%)
  • Large
    223(17%)
  • Massive
    83(6%)
  • Gigantic
    60(4%)
  • Small
    41(3%)

Top-clicked listings

  • The Cage
    723(54%)
  • BDSM Obedience Academy
    181(13%)
  • The Bound Forum
    89(7%)

Most clicks go to forum / feed-based and chat communities communities.

Community Quality & Ratings

Only 2 communities have ratings so far, so read this as a small sample.

1.0 average rating across 2 communities.

Methodology & FAQ

Methodology

This report uses communities in the Hive Index database tagged as BDSM. We exclude removed or suppressed listings. Member counts, traffic, features, reviews, and ratings may vary by source and are updated periodically.

  • This is a smaller slice of Hive Index's database, so read trends as directional.

FAQ