Community Overview
About r/weddingshaming
A place to shame wedding themes, brides, grooms, wedding party, in-laws, outlaws, guests, Uncle Bob, vendors... you name it, we shame it! Please read the sub rules before posting.
The community at a glance
r/weddingshaming is a Subreddit for drama fans with roughly 1.0M members. It has been around since 2018. It uses a forum format for communication. It is the 10th largest community in the Drama topic page.
Roughly 125K members have joined in the past year. Popular discussion topics include Wedding, Blogger, and Bridesmaid. Common discussion themes are Pain & Anger and Money Talk.
Community Topics
Community Features
This community has a forum
Subreddit Analysis
via GummySearchYearly: +125K members
Growth: +14.2% / year
Member growth over time
All time (yearly)
- 2019: 71K members
- 2020: 92K members
- 2021: 81K members
- 2022: 268K members
- 2023: 90K members
- 2024: 38K members
- 2025: 302K members
- 2026: 64K members
2019
+71K new
2020
+92K new
2021
+81K new
2022
+268K new
2023
+90K new
2024
+38K new
2025
+302K new
2026
+64K new
Past year (monthly)
- Sep: 8K members
- Oct: 7K members
- Nov: 8K members
- Dec: 4K members
- Jan: 5K members
- Feb: 6K members
- Mar: 5K members
- Apr: 5K members
- May: 9K members
- Jun: 17K members
- Jul: 15K members
- Aug: 2K members
September 2025
+8K new
October 2025
+7K new
November 2025
+8K new
December 2025
+4K new
January 2026
+5K new
February 2026
+6K new
March 2026
+5K new
April 2026
+5K new
May 2026
+9K new
June 2026
+17K new
July 2026
+15K new
August 2026
+2K new
Themes
- Pain & Anger20 posts in the past month
- Uninvited to a friend’s wedding due to capacity and now no one is RSVPing to her wedding
- $250 per person. with people i don’t know. in this economy.
- I’ve literally never felt more hurt in my life 😭
#120Pain & AngerUninvited to a friend’s wedding due to capacity and now no one is RSVPing to her wedding · $250 per person. with people i don’t know. in this economy. · I’ve literally never felt more hurt in my life 😭 - Money Talk4 posts in the past month
- I can’t afford my best friend’s bachelorette trip, so she’s going to cut me off.
- Over $2k wedding expenses for best friend who forgot my birthday
- Executive-level colleague is begging for money from the office
#24Money TalkI can’t afford my best friend’s bachelorette trip, so she’s going to cut me off. · Over $2k wedding expenses for best friend who forgot my birthday · Executive-level colleague is begging for money from the office - Advice Requests1 post in the past month
- Crisis averted by telling my friend NOT to wear jeans to our other friend's wedding
#31Advice RequestsCrisis averted by telling my friend NOT to wear jeans to our other friend's wedding
Topics
- Wedding28 posts in the past month
- Uninvited to a friend’s wedding due to capacity and now no one is RSVPing to her wedding
- Haven’t been to a wedding in a while.
- Why do wedding guests think that the couple owe them to attend their wedding
#128WeddingUninvited to a friend’s wedding due to capacity and now no one is RSVPing to her wedding · Haven’t been to a wedding in a while. · Why do wedding guests think that the couple owe them to attend their wedding - Blogger10 posts in the past month
- Blogger: User Profile: God has entered into my body, as a body. my same size. this is holy ghost baptism. I'm Bob Hickman. I love having anal-sexx with men and women with God in my body. God is holy Ghost and horny ghost
- Blogger: User Profile: God has entered into my body, as a body. my same size. this is holy ghost baptism. I'm Bob Hickman. I love having anal-sexx with men and women with God in my body. God is holy Ghost and horny ghost
- Blogger: User Profile: God has entered into my body, as a body. my same size. this is holy ghost baptism. I'm Bob Hickman. I love having anal-sexx with men and women with God in my body. God is holy Ghost and horny ghost
#210BloggerBlogger: User Profile: God has entered into my body, as a body. my same size. this is holy ghost baptism. I'm Bob Hickman. I love having anal-sexx with men and women with God in my body. God is holy Ghost and horny ghost · Blogger: User Profile: God has entered into my body, as a body. my same size. this is holy ghost baptism. I'm Bob Hickman. I love having anal-sexx with men and women with God in my body. God is holy Ghost and horny ghost · Blogger: User Profile: God has entered into my body, as a body. my same size. this is holy ghost baptism. I'm Bob Hickman. I love having anal-sexx with men and women with God in my body. God is holy Ghost and horny ghost - Bridesmaid7 posts in the past month
- She hijacked our girls trip, ghosted me for two years, and has now voluntold me into being her bridesmaid like none of it ever happened!!!
- Spent $1.5k+ to be a bridesmaid and got iced out by the bride on her wedding day
- Bridesmaid tried to steal spotlight
#37BridesmaidShe hijacked our girls trip, ghosted me for two years, and has now voluntold me into being her bridesmaid like none of it ever happened!!! · Spent $1.5k+ to be a bridesmaid and got iced out by the bride on her wedding day · Bridesmaid tried to steal spotlight - Budget6 posts in the past month
- Too poor for our bach party, You get to ride in steerage class
- Bride expects her 17-year-old sister to spend over $1,000 in less than 8 weeks after planning a wedding with less than 6 months’ notice
- Hi I’m getting married in September I Don’t want to spent more than €180🥹 u think these looks cute If u guys have another page to recommend pls do it!
#46BudgetToo poor for our bach party, You get to ride in steerage class · Bride expects her 17-year-old sister to spend over $1,000 in less than 8 weeks after planning a wedding with less than 6 months’ notice · Hi I’m getting married in September I Don’t want to spent more than €180🥹 u think these looks cute If u guys have another page to recommend pls do it! - Dress6 posts in the past month
- Spotted on Vinted while wedding dress shopping
- My Mom Almost Disowned Me Because of My Wedding Dress
- Bridal party dress alterations mishaps
#56DressSpotted on Vinted while wedding dress shopping · My Mom Almost Disowned Me Because of My Wedding Dress · Bridal party dress alterations mishaps
Flair
- Bridezilla/Groomzilla24 posts in the past month
- I was a plus one at a wedding where the bride kept interrupting people's conversations because they weren't "on brand.
- A bridesmaid posted this in my local mums lounge-
- Please, PLEASE have a back up plan for outdoor ceremonies
#124Bridezilla/GroomzillaI was a plus one at a wedding where the bride kept interrupting people's conversations because they weren't "on brand. · A bridesmaid posted this in my local mums lounge- · Please, PLEASE have a back up plan for outdoor ceremonies - Tacky24 posts in the past month
- Someone either eloped or proposed on a famous Lake Superior beach, just to leave their plastic trash behind.
- Sending invite back after RSVP no...
- Former venue worker: Insane Disney themed wedding
#224TackySomeone either eloped or proposed on a famous Lake Superior beach, just to leave their plastic trash behind. · Sending invite back after RSVP no... · Former venue worker: Insane Disney themed wedding - Cringe15 posts in the past month
- Guest in white lace with matching headress
- Uninvited to a friend’s wedding due to capacity and now no one is RSVPing to her wedding
- Haven’t been to a wedding in a while.
#315CringeGuest in white lace with matching headress · Uninvited to a friend’s wedding due to capacity and now no one is RSVPing to her wedding · Haven’t been to a wedding in a while. - Family Drama13 posts in the past month
- I’ve literally never felt more hurt in my life 😭
- I was left out of my brothers wedding party because I’m “too big” but still expected to buy my whole family specific clothes as a regular guest
- Shamed for not attending a wedding that I wasn’t invited to
#413Family DramaI’ve literally never felt more hurt in my life 😭 · I was left out of my brothers wedding party because I’m “too big” but still expected to buy my whole family specific clothes as a regular guest · Shamed for not attending a wedding that I wasn’t invited to - Greedy12 posts in the past month
- Wearing a "banned" wedding colour that was only updated 24 hours before the ceremony
- $250 per person. with people i don’t know. in this economy.
- The owner of our wedding venue in the middle of nowhere bought one of the only local Airbnbs and will be charging $2000/night
#512GreedyWearing a "banned" wedding colour that was only updated 24 hours before the ceremony · $250 per person. with people i don’t know. in this economy. · The owner of our wedding venue in the middle of nowhere bought one of the only local Airbnbs and will be charging $2000/night
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Community Reviews
Frequently asked questions
- Who is r/weddingshaming for?
- Best for drama fans enthusiasts looking for a Reddit-based community with forum discussion.
- Is r/weddingshaming free to join?
- This listing is not marked as paid-only. Access rules and any fees are decided by the community.
- How many members does r/weddingshaming have?
- Roughly 1.0M members, based on figures reported by the community or its host. Member counts are approximate and change over time.
- What platform is r/weddingshaming on?
- r/weddingshaming runs on Reddit. Reddit communities (or "subreddits") are forum-based groups on the popular social news aggregation, web content rating, and discussion website Reddit. Reddit is commonly known as "the front page of the internet". Users submit content to the site such as links, text posts, and images, which are then voted up or down and discussed by other members. From investing Reddit communities, to professional ones, to ones just for laughs, you're likely to find a community for you on Reddit.
- What topics does r/weddingshaming cover?
- On the Hive Index, r/weddingshaming is organized under drama fans.
- How do I join r/weddingshaming?
- You can join r/weddingshaming by clicking this link, or pressing the "Go to community" button above.
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