About r/AmITheAsshole
A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole. See our ~~*Best Of*~~ "Most Controversial" at /r/AITAFiltered!
The community at a glance
r/AmITheAsshole is a Subreddit for drama fans with roughly 24.5M members. It has been around since 2013. It uses a forum format for communication. On the Hive Index it ranks #2 in the Drama communities list.
Roughly 457K members have joined in the past year. Popular discussion topics include Aita, Job, and Friend. Common discussion themes are Pain & Anger and Advice Requests.
Community Topics
Community Features
This community has a forum
Subreddit Analysis
via GummySearchMember growth over time
All time (yearly)
- 2014: 2K members
- 2015: 7K members
- 2016: 6K members
- 2017: 20K members
- 2018: 239K members
- 2019: 1.4M members
- 2020: 846K members
- 2021: 904K members
- 2023: 9.7M members
- 2024: 9.8M members
- 2025: 1.2M members
- 2026: 399K members
Past year (monthly)
- Sep: 0 members
- Oct: 0 members
- Nov: 51K members
- Dec: 43K members
- Jan: 54K members
- Feb: 43K members
- Mar: 50K members
- Apr: 74K members
- May: 58K members
- Jun: 53K members
- Jul: 55K members
- Aug: 13K members
Themes
- Pain & Anger32 posts in the past month
- AITAH for replacing patience with a compromise that backfired?
- AITA for not driving my coworker anymore
- AITA for changing custody?
#132Pain & AngerAITAH for replacing patience with a compromise that backfired? · AITA for not driving my coworker anymore · AITA for changing custody? - Advice Requests9 posts in the past month
- AITAH for wanting my boyfriend to miss watching a live football game?
- AITAH for expecting my GF to step up while Im traveling
- AITA for telling my parents they can’t see my baby anymore if they keep kissing them?
#29Advice RequestsAITAH for wanting my boyfriend to miss watching a live football game? · AITAH for expecting my GF to step up while Im traveling · AITA for telling my parents they can’t see my baby anymore if they keep kissing them? - Self-Promotion2 posts in the past month
- WIBTAH for starting my own jewelry business after working for my mother-in-law’s jewelry company?
- AITA for starting my own press-on nail business without telling my friend first?
#32Self-PromotionWIBTAH for starting my own jewelry business after working for my mother-in-law’s jewelry company? · AITA for starting my own press-on nail business without telling my friend first? - Money Talk1 post in the past month
- AITA For getting mad at my girlfriend for demanding that I take her on multiple dates a week, buy her food whenever she wants, buy her stupid amounts of expensive gifts at the severe expense of my bank account/cost of living, and replacement OEM car parts? Please read carefully.
#41Money TalkAITA For getting mad at my girlfriend for demanding that I take her on multiple dates a week, buy her food whenever she wants, buy her stupid amounts of expensive gifts at the severe expense of my bank account/cost of living, and replacement OEM car parts? Please read carefully.
Topics
- Aita22 posts in the past month#122Aita
- Job11 posts in the past month#211Job
- Friend8 posts in the past month
- AITA for telling my friend it isn’t my responsibility to manage her expectations of me?
#38FriendAITA for telling my friend it isn’t my responsibility to manage her expectations of me? - Family7 posts in the past month#47Family
- Struggling7 posts in the past month#57Struggling
Community Reviews
Frequently asked questions
- Who is r/AmITheAsshole for?
- Best for drama fans enthusiasts looking for a Reddit-based community with forum discussion.
- Is r/AmITheAsshole free to join?
- This listing is not marked as paid-only. Access rules and any fees are decided by the community.
- How many members does r/AmITheAsshole have?
- Roughly 24.5M members, based on figures reported by the community or its host. Member counts are approximate and change over time.
- What platform is r/AmITheAsshole on?
- r/AmITheAsshole runs on Reddit. Reddit communities (or "subreddits") are forum-based groups on the popular social news aggregation, web content rating, and discussion website Reddit. Reddit is commonly known as "the front page of the internet". Users submit content to the site such as links, text posts, and images, which are then voted up or down and discussed by other members. From investing Reddit communities, to professional ones, to ones just for laughs, you're likely to find a community for you on Reddit.
- What topics does r/AmITheAsshole cover?
- On the Hive Index, r/AmITheAsshole is organized under drama fans.
- How do I join r/AmITheAsshole?
- You can join r/AmITheAsshole by clicking this link, or pressing the "Go to community" button above.
- What are the Drama communities like?
- Communities for internet drama, snark, gossip, revenge stories, and all the juicy content that keeps you scrolling.
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