About r/FTMMen
A support and community oriented space for binary FTM men.
The community at a glance
r/FTMMen is a Subreddit for LGBTQIA+ with roughly 61K members. It has been around since 2018. It uses a forum format for communication.
Roughly 12K members have joined in the past year. Popular discussion topics include Testosterone, Hate, and Stealth. Product recommendations often mention packer, binder, and stp.
Community Topics
Community Features
This community has a forum
Subreddit Analysis
via GummySearchMember growth over time
All time (yearly)
- 2019: 5K members
- 2020: 5K members
- 2021: 7K members
- 2023: 17K members
- 2024: 7K members
- 2025: 8K members
- 2026: 9K members
Past year (monthly)
- Oct: 364 members
- Nov: 1K members
- Dec: 1K members
- Jan: 1K members
- Feb: 1K members
- Mar: 1K members
- Apr: 1K members
- May: 1K members
- Jun: 1K members
- Jul: 1K members
- Aug: 1K members
- Sep: 318 members
Topics
- Testosterone21 posts in the past month#121Testosterone
- Hate19 posts in the past month#219Hate
- Stealth11 posts in the past month#311Stealth
- Struggling11 posts in the past month#411Struggling
- Top Surgery11 posts in the past month#511Top Surgery
Flair
- Vent/Rant43 posts in the past month
- I am the same thing as a cis man.
- Realizing how few people actually see me as male despite medically transitioning
- The Complete unwillingness to sacrifice anything is annoying
#143Vent/RantI am the same thing as a cis man. · Realizing how few people actually see me as male despite medically transitioning · The Complete unwillingness to sacrifice anything is annoying - Help/support30 posts in the past month
- Insurance companies "quiet quitting" Trans people
- Husband outed me/ misgendered me telling old stories
- my dad introduced me as his daughter to someone on my dorm floor im cooked
#230Help/supportInsurance companies "quiet quitting" Trans people · Husband outed me/ misgendered me telling old stories · my dad introduced me as his daughter to someone on my dorm floor im cooked - Discussion27 posts in the past month
- ABCD (Anybody But Cis Dudes)?
- please don't use "afab" for everyone.
- “Trans people change our genders; we know we can’t change our sexes”
#327DiscussionABCD (Anybody But Cis Dudes)? · please don't use "afab" for everyone. · “Trans people change our genders; we know we can’t change our sexes” - Dysphoria Related Content15 posts in the past month
- PSA: voice training isn't just for trans women
- Considering pursuing limb lengthening surgery
- What's the funniest nonsensical thing you get dysphoria about?
#415Dysphoria Related ContentPSA: voice training isn't just for trans women · Considering pursuing limb lengthening surgery · What's the funniest nonsensical thing you get dysphoria about? - Positivity/Good Vibes7 posts in the past month
- Just immigrated to the EU from a shithole country, holy shit I'm a human being now
- Top surgery made me finally feel gay.
- I finally had my intake at a gender clinic, and two months sooner then planned!
#57Positivity/Good VibesJust immigrated to the EU from a shithole country, holy shit I'm a human being now · Top surgery made me finally feel gay. · I finally had my intake at a gender clinic, and two months sooner then planned!
Product recommendations
- packer11 posts in the past month
- When going through airports, is it best to wear a sock packer, silicone packer or nothing at all if I want to avoid being patted down?
- Best underwear type for MyPack strap?
- What do you guys recommend will hold a packer in place?
#111packerWhen going through airports, is it best to wear a sock packer, silicone packer or nothing at all if I want to avoid being patted down? · Best underwear type for MyPack strap? · What do you guys recommend will hold a packer in place? - binder6 posts in the past month
- What’s the best binder brand for having a flat AND masculine looking chest
- What is the best binder out there that helps guys on t with severe dysphoria? And with big chest on guys who are 5’2 or 5’3.
- Lost my binder of 4 years, what do you recommend besides underworks?
#26binderWhat’s the best binder brand for having a flat AND masculine looking chest · What is the best binder out there that helps guys on t with severe dysphoria? And with big chest on guys who are 5’2 or 5’3. · Lost my binder of 4 years, what do you recommend besides underworks? - stp5 posts in the past month
- Recommended STP for bigger guys?
- Would you recommend the calexotics STP?
- What STP do you use and recommend?
#35stpRecommended STP for bigger guys? · Would you recommend the calexotics STP? · What STP do you use and recommend?
Community Reviews
Frequently asked questions
- Who is r/FTMMen for?
- Best for LGBTQIA+ enthusiasts looking for a Reddit-based community with forum discussion.
- Is r/FTMMen free to join?
- This listing is not marked as paid-only. Access rules and any fees are decided by the community.
- How many members does r/FTMMen have?
- Roughly 61K members, based on figures reported by the community or its host. Member counts are approximate and change over time.
- What platform is r/FTMMen on?
- r/FTMMen runs on Reddit. Reddit communities (or "subreddits") are forum-based groups on the popular social news aggregation, web content rating, and discussion website Reddit. Reddit is commonly known as "the front page of the internet". Users submit content to the site such as links, text posts, and images, which are then voted up or down and discussed by other members. From investing Reddit communities, to professional ones, to ones just for laughs, you're likely to find a community for you on Reddit.
- What topics does r/FTMMen cover?
- On the Hive Index, r/FTMMen is organized under LGBTQIA+.
- How do I join r/FTMMen?
- You can join r/FTMMen by clicking this link, or pressing the "Go to community" button above.
- What are the LGBTQIA communities like?
- Communities for LGBTQIA+ people covering social connection, identity, mental health, and advocacy. Discord is a major hub with large and small servers for everything from general queer community to specific identities and interests, alongside subreddits and dedicated platforms for support and discussion.
Added 11/12/2021
Monthly Stats
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- 6
- Visitors /mo
- 1
- Referrals /mo
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