r/FTMMen

Community Overview

About r/FTMMen

A support and community oriented space for binary FTM men.

The community at a glance

r/FTMMen is a Subreddit for LGBTQIA+ with roughly 58K members. It has been around since 2018. It uses a forum format for communication.

Roughly 12K members have joined in the past year. Popular discussion topics include Testosterone, Hate, and Stealth. Product recommendations often mention packer, binder, and stp.

On Reddit
Established 2018
58K Members

Community Features

This community has a forum

Subreddit Analysis

via GummySearch
Yearly: +12K members
Growth: +24.8% / year

Member growth over time

All time (yearly)

  • 2019: 5K members
  • 2020: 5K members
  • 2021: 7K members
  • 2023: 17K members
  • 2024: 7K members
  • 2025: 8K members
  • 2026: 7K members

Past year (monthly)

  • Jul: 982 members
  • Aug: 674 members
  • Sep: 768 members
  • Oct: 364 members
  • Nov: 1K members
  • Dec: 1K members
  • Jan: 1K members
  • Feb: 1K members
  • Mar: 1K members
  • Apr: 1K members
  • May: 1K members
  • Jun: 869 members

Topics

  • Testosterone
    21 posts in the past month
    #1
    Testosterone
    21
  • Hate
    19 posts in the past month
    #2
    Hate
    19
  • Stealth
    11 posts in the past month
    #3
    Stealth
    11
  • Struggling
    11 posts in the past month
    #4
    Struggling
    11
  • Top Surgery
    11 posts in the past month
    #5
    Top Surgery
    11

Flair

  • Vent/Rant
    47 posts in the past month
    1. For the love of god, stop calling me a tboy
    2. Not a fan of the line “I learned to accept myself” when referring to being non-op
    3. “Wanting to pass just upholds cis-normative structures”
    #1
    Vent/Rant
    For the love of god, stop calling me a tboy · Not a fan of the line “I learned to accept myself” when referring to being non-op · “Wanting to pass just upholds cis-normative structures”
    47
  • Discussion
    29 posts in the past month
    1. I posted yesterday about trans men from non-Western countries and noticed something interesting.
    2. "I hate men! Wait, not you, I meant CIS men!"
    3. I want a dick so badly
    #2
    Discussion
    I posted yesterday about trans men from non-Western countries and noticed something interesting. · "I hate men! Wait, not you, I meant CIS men!" · I want a dick so badly
    29
  • Help/support
    23 posts in the past month
    1. Girl I'm seeing won't date cis men but will date trans men
    2. Believable excuse for not going to a public onsen
    3. My brother causes me so much dysphoria
    #3
    Help/support
    Girl I'm seeing won't date cis men but will date trans men · Believable excuse for not going to a public onsen · My brother causes me so much dysphoria
    23
  • Positivity/Good Vibes
    20 posts in the past month
    1. Unexpectedly affirming moment at my wife’s gynecologist today
    2. After 13 years, I no longer have gender dysphoria
    3. I'm going to be a dad!
    #4
    Positivity/Good Vibes
    Unexpectedly affirming moment at my wife’s gynecologist today · After 13 years, I no longer have gender dysphoria · I'm going to be a dad!
    20
  • Dysphoria Related Content
    14 posts in the past month
    1. Stop the phallo hate!!
    2. Really resent how people treat being FTM like it's its own gender identity.
    3. I hate when they asks if there is any 'cis men' when it is a freaking rythm game.
    #5
    Dysphoria Related Content
    Stop the phallo hate!! · Really resent how people treat being FTM like it's its own gender identity. · I hate when they asks if there is any 'cis men' when it is a freaking rythm game.
    14

Product recommendations

  • packer
    11 posts in the past month
    1. When going through airports, is it best to wear a sock packer, silicone packer or nothing at all if I want to avoid being patted down?
    2. Best underwear type for MyPack strap?
    3. What do you guys recommend will hold a packer in place?
    #1
    packer
    When going through airports, is it best to wear a sock packer, silicone packer or nothing at all if I want to avoid being patted down? · Best underwear type for MyPack strap? · What do you guys recommend will hold a packer in place?
    11
  • binder
    6 posts in the past month
    1. What’s the best binder brand for having a flat AND masculine looking chest
    2. What is the best binder out there that helps guys on t with severe dysphoria? And with big chest on guys who are 5’2 or 5’3.
    3. Lost my binder of 4 years, what do you recommend besides underworks?
    #2
    binder
    What’s the best binder brand for having a flat AND masculine looking chest · What is the best binder out there that helps guys on t with severe dysphoria? And with big chest on guys who are 5’2 or 5’3. · Lost my binder of 4 years, what do you recommend besides underworks?
    6
  • stp
    5 posts in the past month
    1. Recommended STP for bigger guys?
    2. Would you recommend the calexotics STP?
    3. What STP do you use and recommend?
    #3
    stp
    Recommended STP for bigger guys? · Would you recommend the calexotics STP? · What STP do you use and recommend?
    5

Frequently asked questions

Who is r/FTMMen for?
Best for LGBTQIA+ enthusiasts looking for a Reddit-based community with forum discussion.
Is r/FTMMen free to join?
This listing is not marked as paid-only. Access rules and any fees are decided by the community.
How many members does r/FTMMen have?
Roughly 58K members, based on figures reported by the community or its host. Member counts are approximate and change over time.
What platform is r/FTMMen on?
r/FTMMen runs on Reddit. Reddit communities (or "subreddits") are forum-based groups on the popular social news aggregation, web content rating, and discussion website Reddit. Reddit is commonly known as "the front page of the internet". Users submit content to the site such as links, text posts, and images, which are then voted up or down and discussed by other members. From investing Reddit communities, to professional ones, to ones just for laughs, you're likely to find a community for you on Reddit.
What topics does r/FTMMen cover?
On the Hive Index, r/FTMMen is organized under LGBTQIA+.
How do I join r/FTMMen?
You can join r/FTMMen by clicking this link, or pressing the "Go to community" button above.
What are the LGBTQIA communities like?
Communities for LGBTQIA+ people covering social connection, identity, mental health, and advocacy. Discord is a major hub with large and small servers for everything from general queer community to specific identities and interests, alongside subreddits and dedicated platforms for support and discussion.

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