About r/BeyondTheBump
A place for new parents, new parents to be, and old parents who want to help out. Posts focusing on the transition into living with your new little one and any issues that may come up. Ranting and gushing is welcome!
The community at a glance
r/BeyondTheBump is a Subreddit for Parents with roughly 806K members. It has been around since 2012. It uses a forum format for communication. On the Hive Index it ranks #9 in the Parenting communities list.
Roughly 50K members have joined in the past year. Popular discussion topics include Struggling, Postpartum, and Baby. Common discussion themes are Pain & Anger and Advice Requests. Product recommendations often mention stroller, formula, and high chair.
Community Topics
Community Features
This community has a forum
Subreddit Analysis
via GummySearchMember growth over time
All time (yearly)
- 2013: 4K members
- 2014: 5K members
- 2015: 6K members
- 2016: 11K members
- 2017: 15K members
- 2020: 107K members
- 2021: 183K members
- 2023: 347K members
- 2024: 49K members
- 2025: 47K members
- 2026: 29K members
Past year (monthly)
- Aug: 4K members
- Sep: 3K members
- Oct: 2K members
- Nov: 5K members
- Dec: 5K members
- Jan: 6K members
- Feb: 4K members
- Mar: 5K members
- Apr: 4K members
- May: 4K members
- Jun: 4K members
- Jul: 2K members
Themes
- Pain & Anger32 posts in the past month
- 16 years of marriage. 5 kids. Found out this morning my husband has been having an affair.
- Daycare screwed up... not sure if I should warn others or just move on
- I need a hug my wife who was struggling with post partum tried meth because of her stupid father
#132Pain & Anger16 years of marriage. 5 kids. Found out this morning my husband has been having an affair. · Daycare screwed up... not sure if I should warn others or just move on · I need a hug my wife who was struggling with post partum tried meth because of her stupid father - Advice Requests23 posts in the past month
- Can I fly to the UK to get inpatient psychiatric help with my baby?
- What’s your fav new baby non essential under $50?
- When Did You Start Feeling Like Yourself Again?
#223Advice RequestsCan I fly to the UK to get inpatient psychiatric help with my baby? · What’s your fav new baby non essential under $50? · When Did You Start Feeling Like Yourself Again?
Topics
- Struggling21 posts in the past month#121Struggling
- Postpartum21 posts in the past month#221Postpartum
- Baby14 posts in the past month
- Baby below 1% with bloody stools, ped like 🤷🏻♀️
#314BabyBaby below 1% with bloody stools, ped like 🤷🏻♀️ - Hate13 posts in the past month#413Hate
- Sleep9 posts in the past month#59Sleep
Flair
- Advice36 posts in the past month
- I had my first baby almost 1 year ago. Here’s everything I wish I knew if I did it again!
- How do I deal with my toddler lying to the cashier that I'm stealing??
- Warning about Paraguard Copper IUD… ugh.
#136AdviceI had my first baby almost 1 year ago. Here’s everything I wish I knew if I did it again! · How do I deal with my toddler lying to the cashier that I'm stealing?? · Warning about Paraguard Copper IUD… ugh. - Rant/Rave25 posts in the past month
- Husband woke baby up
- PSA: Partners can/should help with nights, even when exclusively nursing
- I feel blindsided
#225Rant/RaveHusband woke baby up · PSA: Partners can/should help with nights, even when exclusively nursing · I feel blindsided - Discussion23 posts in the past month
- No Shame or Regrets About TV Time for Toddler
- Why does everyone expect families with newborns to have visitors?
- Opinions on motherhood you regret before becoming a mom
#323DiscussionNo Shame or Regrets About TV Time for Toddler · Why does everyone expect families with newborns to have visitors? · Opinions on motherhood you regret before becoming a mom - Postpartum Recovery22 posts in the past month
- Pregnancy “side effects” that never left you even after birth?
- 5 days PP and feel like I completely fucked up my life
- Loves a day drink but can’t stop
#422Postpartum RecoveryPregnancy “side effects” that never left you even after birth? · 5 days PP and feel like I completely fucked up my life · Loves a day drink but can’t stop - Sad18 posts in the past month
- My 460 Oz breastmilk stash is ruined. I'm devastated
- I can't breastfeed
- I screamed at my 2 year old.
#518SadMy 460 Oz breastmilk stash is ruined. I'm devastated · I can't breastfeed · I screamed at my 2 year old.
Product recommendations
- stroller4 posts in the past month
- What’s the Best Lightweight Travel Stroller?
- Traveling abroad with 4 month old - looking for stroller recs and general advice!
- Double stroller recs for toddler & infant?
#14strollerWhat’s the Best Lightweight Travel Stroller? · Traveling abroad with 4 month old - looking for stroller recs and general advice! · Double stroller recs for toddler & infant? - formula4 posts in the past month
- Struggling to hit daily recommended formula/puree intake
- Formula Recs
- Recs on cheapest formula options?
#24formulaStruggling to hit daily recommended formula/puree intake · Formula Recs · Recs on cheapest formula options? - high chair3 posts in the past month
- Best high chair for 95th percentile kiddo
- What high chairs do we recommend?!
- High chairs recs?
#33high chairBest high chair for 95th percentile kiddo · What high chairs do we recommend?! · High chairs recs? - diaper3 posts in the past month
- FTM looking for Fragrance Free Diaper Recs
- Looking for diaper recs
- Need diaper recs for a wide bum/hips, please!
#43diaperFTM looking for Fragrance Free Diaper Recs · Looking for diaper recs · Need diaper recs for a wide bum/hips, please! - car seat3 posts in the past month
- Baby seems too small for recommended car seat sizing
- Car seat recs for tiny backseat
- Car seat recs help!
#53car seatBaby seems too small for recommended car seat sizing · Car seat recs for tiny backseat · Car seat recs help!
Community Reviews
Frequently asked questions
- Who is r/BeyondTheBump for?
- Best for Parents enthusiasts looking for a Reddit-based community with forum discussion.
- Is r/BeyondTheBump free to join?
- This listing is not marked as paid-only. Access rules and any fees are decided by the community.
- How many members does r/BeyondTheBump have?
- Roughly 806K members, based on figures reported by the community or its host. Member counts are approximate and change over time.
- What platform is r/BeyondTheBump on?
- r/BeyondTheBump runs on Reddit. Reddit communities (or "subreddits") are forum-based groups on the popular social news aggregation, web content rating, and discussion website Reddit. Reddit is commonly known as "the front page of the internet". Users submit content to the site such as links, text posts, and images, which are then voted up or down and discussed by other members. From investing Reddit communities, to professional ones, to ones just for laughs, you're likely to find a community for you on Reddit.
- What topics does r/BeyondTheBump cover?
- On the Hive Index, r/BeyondTheBump is organized under Parents.
- How do I join r/BeyondTheBump?
- You can join r/BeyondTheBump by clicking this link, or pressing the "Go to community" button above.
- What are the Parenting communities like?
- Communities for parents at all stages, from pregnancy through raising teenagers. Reddit has active subreddits for specific parenting styles and age groups, with Facebook groups drawing hundreds of thousands of members for pregnancy advice, newborn questions, and general parenting discussion.
Monthly Stats
- 27
- Views /mo (+125%)
- 23
- Visitors /mo (+92%)
- 2
- Referrals /mo
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