About r/weddingplanning
Discuss your personal wedding planning here! Please be sure to check out our rules.
The community at a glance
r/weddingplanning is a Subreddit for Wedding with roughly 1.6M members. It uses a forum format for communication. On the Hive Index it ranks #1 in the Wedding communities list.
Roughly 62K members have joined in the past year. Popular discussion topics include Wedding, Venue, and Dress. Common discussion themes are Pain & Anger and Advice Requests. Product recommendations often mention best man, wedding planner, and hair pieces.
Community Topics
Community Features
This community has a forum
Subreddit Analysis
via GummySearchMember growth over time
All time (yearly)
- 2013: 6K members
- 2014: 9K members
- 2015: 8K members
- 2016: 15K members
- 2017: 17K members
- 2020: 85K members
- 2021: 25K members
- 2023: 296K members
- 2024: 870K members
- 2025: 202K members
- 2026: 38K members
Past year (monthly)
- Jul: 2K members
- Aug: 1K members
- Sep: 3K members
- Oct: 2K members
- Nov: 6K members
- Dec: 8K members
- Jan: 10K members
- Feb: 5K members
- Mar: 7K members
- Apr: 7K members
- May: 6K members
- Jun: 4K members
Themes
- Pain & Anger21 posts in the past month
- A friend’s psychotic mom is inviting herself to our wedding
- Might have to cancel honeymoon
- My mom made mean comments about my wedding dress alterations. My wedding is 9 days out and now I feel insecure in a dress I once loved.
#121Pain & AngerA friend’s psychotic mom is inviting herself to our wedding · Might have to cancel honeymoon · My mom made mean comments about my wedding dress alterations. My wedding is 9 days out and now I feel insecure in a dress I once loved. - Advice Requests17 posts in the past month
- which bridal shower dress?
- Must-Have Items for a Smooth Wedding Day?
- Thoughts on these mismatched brides-people dresses?
#217Advice Requestswhich bridal shower dress? · Must-Have Items for a Smooth Wedding Day? · Thoughts on these mismatched brides-people dresses? - Money Talk3 posts in the past month
- How much should I give as a wedding gift if I’m also a bridesmaid?
- How much money should I gift my friend for her bridal shower?
- Is $8.5k fair for plated dinner + grazing table?
#33Money TalkHow much should I give as a wedding gift if I’m also a bridesmaid? · How much money should I gift my friend for her bridal shower? · Is $8.5k fair for plated dinner + grazing table? - Solution Requests2 posts in the past month
- Invitation Help Please
- Dress alterations
#42Solution RequestsInvitation Help Please · Dress alterations - Ideas1 post in the past month
- Unconventional Idea
#51IdeasUnconventional Idea
Topics
- Wedding310 posts in the past month
- Seamstress showed my fiancé my wedding dress!! What do we do?
- Part 2. Major Wedding Dress Regret
- My mom made mean comments about my wedding dress alterations. My wedding is 9 days out and now I feel insecure in a dress I once loved.
#1310WeddingSeamstress showed my fiancé my wedding dress!! What do we do? · Part 2. Major Wedding Dress Regret · My mom made mean comments about my wedding dress alterations. My wedding is 9 days out and now I feel insecure in a dress I once loved. - Venue35 posts in the past month
- over it. ghosted by venue and debating to just say screw the dream wedding
- Thoughts on this venue for a wedding with a small guest list? My partner and I love the industrial vibes and it’s a better deal than the others in the area, but looking for other thoughts! [Outer Philadelphia Area]
#235Venueover it. ghosted by venue and debating to just say screw the dream wedding · Thoughts on this venue for a wedding with a small guest list? My partner and I love the industrial vibes and it’s a better deal than the others in the area, but looking for other thoughts! [Outer Philadelphia Area] - Dress25 posts in the past month
- Seamstress showed my fiancé my wedding dress!! What do we do?
- My mom made mean comments about my wedding dress alterations. My wedding is 9 days out and now I feel insecure in a dress I once loved.
- How is my dress? 🥰
#325DressSeamstress showed my fiancé my wedding dress!! What do we do? · My mom made mean comments about my wedding dress alterations. My wedding is 9 days out and now I feel insecure in a dress I once loved. · How is my dress? 🥰 - Guests14 posts in the past month
- Do we name new boyfriend/new girlfriend on invites to our guests?
#414GuestsDo we name new boyfriend/new girlfriend on invites to our guests? - Makeup13 posts in the past month
- Looking for feedback on makeup trial and hair
- Am I wrong for not including my MIL on my wedding day to get makeup/hair done?
#513MakeupLooking for feedback on makeup trial and hair · Am I wrong for not including my MIL on my wedding day to get makeup/hair done?
Flair
- Everything Else52 posts in the past month
- RSVP Public Service Announcement
- Night Before Wedding Sleep Advice
- Wedding in 1 month - in the trenches
#152Everything ElseRSVP Public Service Announcement · Night Before Wedding Sleep Advice · Wedding in 1 month - in the trenches - Relationships/Family30 posts in the past month
- Am I wrong for not wanting my friend to “make up” missing my wedding?
- A friend’s psychotic mom is inviting herself to our wedding
- My mom made mean comments about my wedding dress alterations. My wedding is 9 days out and now I feel insecure in a dress I once loved.
#230Relationships/FamilyAm I wrong for not wanting my friend to “make up” missing my wedding? · A friend’s psychotic mom is inviting herself to our wedding · My mom made mean comments about my wedding dress alterations. My wedding is 9 days out and now I feel insecure in a dress I once loved. - Tough Times27 posts in the past month
- My dad died 2 months ago and I get married in one week... my in-laws true colors are showing
- Unconventional Idea
- Does proposal anxiety mean she’s not the right person for me
#327Tough TimesMy dad died 2 months ago and I get married in one week... my in-laws true colors are showing · Unconventional Idea · Does proposal anxiety mean she’s not the right person for me - Dress/Attire26 posts in the past month
- Seamstress showed my fiancé my wedding dress!! What do we do?
- Part 2. Major Wedding Dress Regret
- which bridal shower dress?
#426Dress/AttireSeamstress showed my fiancé my wedding dress!! What do we do? · Part 2. Major Wedding Dress Regret · which bridal shower dress? - Decor/DIY14 posts in the past month
- DIY save-the-dates went out! <3
- Sheet cake for guests?
- Should I do individual personalised guest menus or not?
#514Decor/DIYDIY save-the-dates went out! <3 · Sheet cake for guests? · Should I do individual personalised guest menus or not?
Product recommendations
- best man5 posts in the past month
- Best man invited me as his plus one to his brother's wedding!!! Help, stressing and not sure what to do!
- Best man has been having an affair advice needed
- Best man asked to bring +1
#15best manBest man invited me as his plus one to his brother's wedding!!! Help, stressing and not sure what to do! · Best man has been having an affair advice needed · Best man asked to bring +1 - wedding planner3 posts in the past month
- Best digital wedding planner?
- Why Hiring a Wedding Planner in Jaipur Is the Best Decision You’ll Make
- Plan Your Dream Wedding with the Best Wedding Planner in Kochi
#23wedding plannerBest digital wedding planner? · Why Hiring a Wedding Planner in Jaipur Is the Best Decision You’ll Make · Plan Your Dream Wedding with the Best Wedding Planner in Kochi - hair pieces2 posts in the past month
- Which of these hair pieces matches my earrings the best?
- Which of these hair pieces matches my earrings the best?
#32hair piecesWhich of these hair pieces matches my earrings the best? · Which of these hair pieces matches my earrings the best? - period underwear2 posts in the past month
- Period underwear…that’s my chest don’t worry…but what colour would work best with my skin tone? One that won’t show underneath my wedding dress!
- Period underwear…that’s my chest don’t worry…but what colour would work best with my skin tone? One that won’t show underneath my wedding dress!
#42period underwearPeriod underwear…that’s my chest don’t worry…but what colour would work best with my skin tone? One that won’t show underneath my wedding dress! · Period underwear…that’s my chest don’t worry…but what colour would work best with my skin tone? One that won’t show underneath my wedding dress! - honeymoon2 posts in the past month
- Best places to honeymoon in Australia?
- Best places to honeymoon in Australia?
#52honeymoonBest places to honeymoon in Australia? · Best places to honeymoon in Australia?
Community Reviews
Frequently asked questions
- Who is r/weddingplanning for?
- Best for Wedding enthusiasts looking for a Reddit-based community with forum discussion.
- Is r/weddingplanning free to join?
- This listing is not marked as paid-only. Access rules and any fees are decided by the community.
- How many members does r/weddingplanning have?
- Roughly 1.6M members, based on figures reported by the community or its host. Member counts are approximate and change over time.
- What platform is r/weddingplanning on?
- r/weddingplanning runs on Reddit. Reddit communities (or "subreddits") are forum-based groups on the popular social news aggregation, web content rating, and discussion website Reddit. Reddit is commonly known as "the front page of the internet". Users submit content to the site such as links, text posts, and images, which are then voted up or down and discussed by other members. From investing Reddit communities, to professional ones, to ones just for laughs, you're likely to find a community for you on Reddit.
- What topics does r/weddingplanning cover?
- On the Hive Index, r/weddingplanning is organized under Wedding.
- How do I join r/weddingplanning?
- You can join r/weddingplanning by clicking this link, or pressing the "Go to community" button above.
- What are the Wedding communities like?
- Communities for couples planning weddings and professionals in the wedding industry. Facebook has large communities for budget-conscious brides sharing DIY ideas, planning platforms provide forums for vendor reviews and advice, and LinkedIn connects wedding professionals and planners.
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