Community Overview

About the FetLife community

FetLife is an online community for BDSM with roughly 10.4M members. It uses a forum format for communication.

In their own words

FetLife is the most popular social network for the BDSM, fetish & kinky community. Its mission is to help people feel comfortable with who they are sexually. It's important to note that while FetLife is a popular platform for people in the BDSM and kink community, it's intended for adults only and requires users to be 18 years or older to join.

10.4M Members

Community Features


This community has a forum


This community hosts offline events and meetups

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