About FetLife
FetLife is the most popular social network for the BDSM, fetish & kinky community. Its mission is to help people feel comfortable with who they are sexually. It's important to note that while FetLife is a popular platform for people in the BDSM and kink community, it's intended for adults only and requires users to be 18 years or older to join.
The community at a glance
FetLife is an online community for BDSM with roughly 10.4M members. It uses a forum format for communication. It also includes events or meetups. On the Hive Index it ranks #3 in the BDSM communities list.
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Frequently asked questions
- Who is FetLife for?
- Best for BDSM enthusiasts looking for a an independent setup-based community with forum discussion, events or meetups.
- Is FetLife free to join?
- This listing is not marked as paid-only. Access rules and any fees are decided by the community.
- How many members does FetLife have?
- Roughly 10.4M members, based on figures reported by the community or its host. Member counts are approximate and change over time.
- What topics does FetLife cover?
- On the Hive Index, FetLife is organized under BDSM.
- How do I join FetLife?
- You can join FetLife by clicking this link, or pressing the "Go to community" button above.
- What are the BDSM communities like?
- Communities for adults exploring BDSM, kink, and fetish lifestyles. Dedicated platforms offer forums, personal ads, and live chat for real connection, while Discord hosts structured communities with educational resources and discussions for people at all experience levels.
Monthly Stats
- 209
- Views
- 150
- Visitors
- 83
- Referrals
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